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Topic: in love with an aquarian...
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downforten unregistered
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posted October 21, 2006 12:44 AM
i'm in love with an aquarian and as much as i'd like to be happy about it, it's becoming a source of huge discomfort to me knowing that either a) he will never reciprocate or b) he's as slow as most the other aquarians out there or c) i'm just insane and need to move on!!! so i'm going to go with option C, but things get complicated becuase the truth is i still have some hope that one day he will somehow come to the realization that he, too, likes me. i wish i could talk myself out of it and i've tried on numerous occasions (esp. recently) but he's just created a permenant corner for himself in my head and heart!!!! i can't begin to explain how frustrating this is for me as a gemini - i'm so used to being all over the place, having my interest switch from one guy to another in a short span of time but with him... i don't know...we've known each other for about 8 years. i was his first girlfriend and vice versa, although we were so young (12!!) that i doubt it matters or that he even remembers. ever since that we've been casual freinds, only recently have we gotten somewhat closer...and i wish he was boring and unintersting but he is so much fun to talk to and i can actually see myself in a serious relationship wiht him (eep!!). call me crazy but becuase he is so friendly and open with me, he is usually very shy, i think he might like me too? i feel like a mess right now! and i know that there are tons of girls chasing him so where does that leave me? it was all fair and good, im currenly dating a wonderful libra, and hardly thought of the aquarian. but on the occasion i do see him or talk to him, about 3-4 times a year, my mind goes biserk! i become a nervous wreck becuase i dont have control over my feelings. and i found out that he is mvoing to my city in a few months...how will i survive with him in such close proximity!!! i need help!! how do i get over him, someone please tell me! maybe it would be better if i just confessed and got some closure, but knwoing me i would never do a thing and i guess part of me doesn't want to let go of the "what if" possibitlity. he's told me on more than one occasion that he is not looking for a serious relationship, but when we meet and talk why do i feel like he's notioning towards something more? please take mercy on this poor gemini girl and give me some advice!! i feel internally tormented!! lol. seriously...i would really appreciate it since i can't seem to bring myself to tell any one of the million ppl in my life about this particular situation or how i feel ------------------ sun in gemini, moon in sag, asc in libra ---------------------------------------------------- "the sea is flowing ever, the land retains it never" -- goethe IP: Logged |
cristiname Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Earth. Welcome! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 21, 2006 12:23 PM
a) u r nuts! and need to move on b) no, you're not. c) did u say u r IN LOVE with him?IP: Logged |
Mirandee unregistered
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posted October 21, 2006 12:34 PM
Sometimes it happens that men find it easier to talk to women that they do not have any deep feelings for. Less of a risk involved there than opening up to someone that you really do care for. It might be the case here that he likes you but only as a friend. I know that may be not what you want to hear but I think it is something that you do need to consider. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 435 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 21, 2006 02:47 PM
You're both ONLY 18!!! Both air signs, and the kind of air signs that are not known for attachment. Unless you both have significant planets in grounding water and earth, I'd say move on, enjoy the freedom of youth and smell the roses. IP: Logged |
downforten unregistered
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posted October 21, 2006 04:36 PM
actually we are 20 and 21... but nontheless, it seems only practical that hte best thing to do would be to move on..haha. sometimes u just need to hear someone else to say it... and yes i did say LOVE!! its been 8 years , i think that would constitute as love?
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downforten unregistered
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posted October 21, 2006 04:37 PM
belage, ur an aquarian...do they all operate this way!!??IP: Logged |
cristiname Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Earth. Welcome! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 22, 2006 01:41 PM
so, you do love him, ... that's one answer what's the question?IP: Logged | |