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LuLu
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posted October 21, 2006 06:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've decided, after much deliberating and heart-wrenching, to end a very toxic relationship in my life and give myself a chance to move beyond it. I am very afraid, as I have made attempts to do this before with this person, and I need all of your prayers and strength that you can stand to part with for the time being. I have to do this for me and for the other person as well. The cycle we are in isn't healthy and we only hurt each other deeply. Please send positive energy my way. I am going to need it over the next few weeks.

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downforten
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posted October 21, 2006 07:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lulu
i am happy for you that you have decided to gather the courage to move on..
just beleive in youself and everything will be fine...it always works out in the end. maybe thats just my sag moon speaking but just watch..it will be ok good luck

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Happy Dragon
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posted October 21, 2006 08:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LuLu .. hi ..

.. at reading your post i went and drew some rune stones whilst thinking of your situation .. well "Separation" plus "Harvest - Beneficial Outcome" came to hand .. thrice ..

Othila rune .. (upright) : .. Separation .. Retreat .. Inheritance ..
" ..This is a time of separating paths. Old skins must be shed, outmoded relationships discarded. When this rune appears in a spread, a peeling away is called for. part of the Cycle of Ination. Othila is a rune of radical severance. The proper action here is submission, and quite possibly, retreat - knowing how and when to retreat and possessing the firmness of will to carry it out .. Property is associated wiyh Othila, for it is the rune of aquasition and benefits.. however, the benefits you recieve, the inheritance, may be derived from something you must give up .."

Jera rune : .. Harvest .. Fertile Season .. One Year ..
" .. A rune of beneficial outcomes, Jera applies to any activity or endeavor to which you are commited. Be aware, however, that no quick results can be expected. A span of time is always involved; hence the key words 'one year', symbolizing a full cycle before reaping the harvest or deliverance. You have prepared the ground and planted the seed. Now you must cultivate with care. To those whose labour has a long season, a long coming to term, Jera offers encouragment of success. Know that the outcome is in the keeping of Providence and continue to persevere .."

.. will check your astro chart .. is this the same ituation that was going on last time .. i.e. back in May ??

have some tunes by Keb Mo .. got a feeling you might like "don't try to explain"

.. audio files ...
http://www.geocities.com/azalaksh/tunes/Keb.Mo-Victims.of.Comfort.wma
http://www.geocities.com/azalaksh/tunes/Keb.Mo-Dont.Try.to.Explain.wma
http://www.geocities.com/azalaksh/tunes/Keb.Mo-City.Boy.wma

.. positive thoughts your way lulu ..
'till later .. H.D.

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( audio .. www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/audiofls.html .. )
"If you don't like my peaches, please don't shake my tree" .. Elmore James ..

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LuLu
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posted October 21, 2006 09:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes...it's the same situation HD...thank you for thinking of me. The other person is up for a new job somewhere else...so my hopes are that he gets it. It will remove him from that aspect of my life completely if that happens. I'm just so drained...so tired...so tired of hurting and crying. So tired of words that seem so hollow and his actions which say something different. So tired of having this connection with someone who isn't self-aware enough to deal with his emotions and instead would rather have a superficial and shallow relationship with someone else who doesn't expect too much from him. But won't let me go either. I'm just tired.

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Happy Dragon
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posted October 23, 2006 12:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LULU ..
in brief .. you have some really important transits going on ..
these are all close orbs .. you must feel like your in an emotional meat-grinder ..

Jupiter squares your natal Saturn
i.e. .. have faith ok !!! it may seem that may be difficult for you at moment ..

*Sat conjunct Saturn*

*Chiron squares natal *Chiron / squares your *Sun .. and trining your n.node

*Uranus is trining your natal lillith

*Nept is squaring your mc .. and sextiling your natal neptune .. and sextiling your natal moon !

Pluto is trining your saturn

.. will get back to you ...
litsen to calming music .. such as 'enya' .. honest .. it helps :-)
H§D

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sue g
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posted October 23, 2006 12:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lulu...

Sending love and strength...

HD... great work!!

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LuLu
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posted October 23, 2006 02:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No wonder I feel so tired. I was reading up on the transits and found this part interesting in regards to Chiron squaring my natal Sun:

"Look for Leo in your natal chart, as the Sun rules Leo, and this is an area of life that will be directly affected by the transit (in addition to the houses where the transit actually takes place)."

While my DC is in Cancer, Leo starts and ends in my 7th house. My poor 7th house is really taking a beating at the moment it appears. Especially since that is where my natal Saturn and my natal Mars are as well.

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Happy Dragon
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posted October 23, 2006 05:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lulu .. hiya ..

those .wma audio file don't behave (prev. post)

these audio mp3's should work .. if not .. flying ripe bananas to MN :-))

* * * * * * * *
.. management at ~'Zalaksh. Ltd. ~ has been working overtime

* http://www.geocities.com/azalaksh/tunes/Keb.Mo-City.Boyx.mp3 *

* http://www.geocities.com/azalaksh/tunes/Keb.Mo-Dont.Try.to.Explainx.mp3 *

* http://www.geocities.com/azalaksh/tunes/Keb.Mo-Victims.of.Comfortx.mp3 *

* http://www.geocities.com/azalaksh/tunes/Keb.Mo-Am.I.Wrong.mp3 *

* * * * * * * *

interesting about that connection you mentioned above .. one of the most 'blue' transits i had .. was my chiron return (chiron conjunct chiron) .. come to think of it .. it be in my 7th ...

.. need food .. now .. :-)

'later
H§D

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LuLu
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posted October 24, 2006 04:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HD...I listened to Don't Try to Explain by Keb Mo'...it was great!!!! Thank you sooooo much

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