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Topic: We both have Saturn square each others Sun's, Help!
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phoenix1111
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posted October 24, 2006 04:55 PM
 
Hi all, I have read about the Saturns square the Suns in Relationship Signs and in Gooberz. Yes, it is a very frustrating aspect. He and I both love each other very much even though neither have ever said " I love you ", but it is understood.
I have known him for about five years. We had not seen each other in three and started talking again and it feels like the same thing three years ago. We will feel so in love one time when we meet up, like there is no other bond I could ever have with another man, and then the next time we will be yelling and arguing, but we are never ful to each other. This past time he ended up getting tears out of me, which is hard to do. His outlook on life and relationships is for patience and that in time everything will work out, MINE is that we are not guaranteed tomorrow and we should live each day as if it was our last. I cannot change me and he cannot change him, but I LOVE him. In relationship Signs it says that Saturn is the wise teacher and that the Sun should listen and learn. I do think he is right about alot of things because he is wise, BUT I also believe my way and think that sometimes we should use our feelings, not logic, to guide us. In other words, follow your heart and nothing else.
In relationship signs, it says that our higher selves are the boss when both have Saturn square each others sun's. What kind of answer is that? If I have to be the one who has the answer, and make the first move, then Please Higher Self guide me! Someone please explain this to me, because I want it to work, and I want to have the knowledge to know how to make it work for my side of this. Because it seems like he is forcing me to wait for him to feel ready or feel like trying again at being together, and that is incredibly hard when I am sorry for being too impulsive and for hurting him. (Right now I am more of less waiting for his forgivness for me being mean and impulsive) What can I do to show him I care very much and that I am sorry? I don't want to wait_........ How do I get to my higher self? How can I hear her?IP: Logged |
wilsontc
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posted October 24, 2006 05:21 PM
phoenix,Perhaps you can both do something for the OTHER person. Focusing on the other person's wants and needs in one area will show you that you are willing to work together on your issues. If neither of you can give in to the other on ANYTHING...perhaps it is time for you both to move on to other relationships. Relating, Tim IP: Logged |
phoenix1111
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posted October 25, 2006 02:25 PM
Hi, thanks for your reply! I understand what you are saying. I guess what I could do for him is to be patient,no matter how hard it is. The only thing that makes this frustrating for me is when I am patient and move on with my life, he comes around and wants to talk, then the whole thing starts over. I get to miss him and want to see and talk to him more, and he backs away when I come on too strong and it is a never-ending cycle. It hurts that he doesn't try for me to open up and be vunerable with his feelings, but bottom line we both understand each other. I think this one aspect is just so HARD. I realize if I want him to be more open, I have to let him do the contacting and not pursue him and not be pushy. LOL!! But, that is part of me- so I don't know...... Sometimes I just want to just somehow forget him because he makes me insane sometimes!!!IP: Logged |
CapGirl
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posted October 25, 2006 03:03 PM
Phoenix~~ This is all way way too familiar... Please email me at bebewrig@yahoo.com as I want to send you an invite for an yahoo email group consisting of 5 women, myself included, dealing w/ difficult cap. men which will give you alot of insight and support. (Our group has 2 tauruses, a leo, and a Sag., and me, and we could use a scorpio! lol)
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