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Sharon49
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posted October 25, 2006 11:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello everyone. I sure would appreciate someone with an insite tell me what kind of day I will have in Court on Nov. 2, 2006. I must go there for a Domestic dispute against my daughter in law. She left my son over a year ago and kept the vehicle that I had to continue making the payments on. I tried to reclaim the vehicle many times so I could sell it and she would not let me have it. Finally, one day I caught her at my sons, and demanded the keys. She refused and I did attack her and we fought. She had me arrested and now is sueing me for $3,000. She claims that I caused her emotional upset. I am guilty of coming into the house where she was invited by my son. The wrong that has been done to me of having to keep paying for the vehicle seems to not matter. I am a Virgo and she is Leo. What does the date tell anyone and our signs. I am really dreading the ordeal. Please someone talk to me. Sharon

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Sharon49
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posted October 25, 2006 06:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Guys, I am in need of some serious information or comments here. I am very shakey about this court deal and I need some imput from my friends. What is in the charts for that day. Since I am ruled by mercury, I hope it is not going retograde!! Help

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and
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posted October 25, 2006 06:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It goes retrograde on the 28th of October :/

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

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lalalinda
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posted October 25, 2006 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When you go to court be prepared
have any and all reciepts pertaining to the vehicle with you and anything that shows you own it. I don't believe in lying (especially in court) So side-step the part about who pulled the first punch. You were defending yourself and your property.

With Mercury Rx it will probably be dismissed or continued to a later date. Play her game and threaten to counter-sue.
we're talking principles here.

I am sending you my most positive thoughts for positive actions.
and a prayer just in case

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Temperance
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posted October 26, 2006 10:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would also highly suggest consulting with an attorney before going to court. Good luck!

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Stargazer
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posted October 26, 2006 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just a few thoughts.

First... your a Virgo... Details, Details...
don't leave anything out.... be prepared...

Second:
Did you co-sign for the car?
If not, why did you feel obliged to make the payments?
What does your son have to say and will he be present at trial? Whose side?
Did he wittness the "attack"

She will have to prove..and have receipts for $3000 of "emotional upset"
What was her actual complaint?
Based on what the complaint says, will determine what you have to prove.

The judge will probably have you go with a mediator prior to trial... to try to settle.
You would be running out of time to counter-sue at this point.

Trial is final. The judge might believe you or her... both or niether.

Third... When you were arrested, where you charged and or convicted of anything?

I'll try to help... but need more info....
Just went through small claims court...
The plantiff was hoping I would not show up and therefore win by default. She was not prepared and I was... w/o a lawyer... She dismissed it.
A lawyer in the courtroom... said that i had missed my calling. That i did a great job having no real legal experience and encouraged me to re-think my career. Which I have.

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lovegoblin
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posted October 26, 2006 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovegoblin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sharon:

i read your post. my only concern is if you
did attack her and this is a domestic violence type of dispute you might be found guilty if you initiated the attack. they might consider the car issue another issue entirely. could you get trail continued and maybe get the assistance of a lawyer? i wouldn't think it wise to show up in court without a lawyer during a mercury retro.

are there witnesses to the event?

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Sharon49
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posted October 26, 2006 09:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just found out today that Mercury starts retograde again. I really dread going to Court. My son has signed a letter for me to have stating that I had bought the Vehicle for him and he was unable to make the payments due to a reduction of hours in his job. She is the one that wouldn't return it too me. The fight started when she cursed me and got in my face talking smart to me. My son was busy taking care of the 1 year old son when the first lick was passed. He can't say that he saw either one. They have not lived together since I took the Vehicle back which is over a year ago and is getting a divorce next month also. She is money hungary. My son loves his little boy and would do most anything to get them back. She knows this and therefore I don't know where I stand. I did get the vehicle back the next day and sold it for a $4,000. loss. I am the used party here, but she had me arrested and my charges were dropped after I went to angermanagement class for 3 months. She got her daughter to take her to the hospital and they are suppose to have photos of how bad she was beat up. I think she beat her own self up. The police didn't think she needed a hospital and refused to take her.
I would feel so much better if Mercury, my planet wasn't going backwards. She is a Leo and Very much a Lioness.

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Stargazer
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posted October 27, 2006 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sharon... Please try to get this postponed. If there is something "good" about Mercury rx, then it is the liklihood of postponements when there needs to be as well as when it might be a "pain".
Don't fret too much.. I know you are worried...believe me "worry" has been added to my list of skills... I have a PHD in the subject.
I would also talk to an attorney, if at all posssible.

I still would like to know what her actual complaint is? Is she sueing you for hospital bills?
Do you have a copy of the police report where it states the refusal to take her to the hospital?
Was the title to the car in your sons name yours, hers or someone else.
I agree that the car issue may be secondary to the complaint... but I think it would be smart to be able to show why you were there in the first place.. and info on the loss you took on the car. $4,000 is alot..what was wrong..? was it done while in her posession? Can you prove that?
Do you think she spent $3,000 in medical bills or lost wages. Has she ever provided you with reciepts for this in her attempts to collect this money? Or is it just a figure she threw out there... Is it right at the limit for what you can sue for in small claims?
See, this is what happened to me. This person thought I would be scared and wouldn't show up.. But she was wrong.. I did and was confident and in business attire. I looked profesional and had my i's dotted and the t's crossed. Frankly, she had hoped she would just win by default (money hungry probably done it before). She had no reciepts to PROVE I owed her this money... We were made to show each other the evidence right there before trial as a last chance thing... Once I knew she had no proof, I flat out told her that she was going to lose. She could either dissmiss it or let's go get it over with.....
She dissmissed it...
If she's such a lioness... which i have no doubt she is... your going to have to be strong.. and use those Mecurial skills to your advantage... although, it might be wise to take some barb lessons from a Gemini... or polish up your back-handed/left-handed compliments repertoire with a Sagittarius.... or two. to get the ball rolling....

Again, An attorney would be a good thing... even if its' just a consultation.

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