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Topic: need help with synastry and composite
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azzure773
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posted October 27, 2006 01:07 PM
 
Hello- I'm kinda new here and to astrology period- I'm really interested in how relationship astrology works, I've gotten quite a few charts made, but it's all standard information- I want a professional analysis- one that really analyzes the deeper aspects of our charts. We're going through some pretty rough times, I just need to know if we have the potential to make it through the storm! I would appreciate any comments and opinions.
Me-
7/24/1986 4:03p.m.
Chicago, Il 87 w 41 41 n 52My man-
3/26/1985 6:29 a.m.
Chicago, Il 87 w 41 41 n 54 Also, I don't even know anything about a lot of our natal dynamics, (like stelliums, t-squares and other interesting things I've seen on this site) and I heard that that has something to do with our compatibility as well- I'd appreciate any info concerning that too.
Thank You VERY MUCH!!! IP: Logged |
azzure773
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posted October 27, 2006 01:17 PM
Oh and another thing, I feel like I'm getting signs from everywhere that it's time to let him go, but now that we live together, and he doesn't really have a place to go, it makes my decision a lot harder- we argue way too much though- to the point that it's starting to overshadow all the good times we have had. I'm just completely torn- cause I want to be with him, but I just don't know if it's for the right reasons- PLEASE give me some insight...IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted October 27, 2006 01:41 PM
I'm still a beginner at this too so I can't give you much, but I can see that your mars and venus signs are at odds of each other...The major difference in your mars (the way you express your anger and such) could create conflict. Esp., because his Mars is in Aries is in the 1st house which is very strong in its domain. I think for you, you tend to repress your anger maybe, or at least you have a harder time than him in expressing your anger...and he is likely to blow up/stirred up quite easily. You are likely to become authoritative and feel he's too rash. His mars is in your 4th house and you can be extremely sensitive to his moods and criticism. Your natal Mercury is in the 8th house of (Scorpio), his in 1st house of (Aries), these two signs are known to clash and cause arguments, but if you're both aware of this, then it can work out if you can let the other win from time to time. Try to focus on giving and receiving...there needs to be a balance.Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer
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azzure773
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posted October 27, 2006 03:13 PM
thank you! i, too think that our basic views and responses to things just naturally seem to clash, I'm just worried that even after making all these adjustments, it still won't work out. but hey- you live, love, and learn, right? i'm going to try my best to compromise and establish some give and take- and if it still doesn't work, i just have to take from it what lessons i learned, and move on with my life.IP: Logged |
william
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posted October 27, 2006 03:42 PM
hu azzure,
venus/mars midpoint is opposed to pluto.on the one hand a aspect of extreme sexuality between the 2 of your.intense enough to be addicting,but on the negative,very obsesive and controlling.also very instinctual and not much love.sun/venus midpoint opposed to uranus.a aspect of extreme attraction,makes me think that you 2 hit it off very quickly and the freaking was intense.problem is this aspect uaually burns out.the intensity can not be supported by reality.it is a aspect of one night stands.sun is square to saturn,a aspect of problems in a relationship also can show money woes.this aspect with the uranus/sun/venus thing means the relationship is bi-polar.really good then really bad.or you really good then your really bad.at any rate no growth can take place between the extremes.also chiron opposed uranus shows you 2 disagree about many things and there is no compromise by either side.mercury square saturn/uranus midpoint,again arguements.you already know all this stuff so let him go.cold turkey him sexually is the easiest way.but do it quickly.as bad arguements could arise in a month or so
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azzure773
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posted October 27, 2006 04:05 PM
YUP william that pretty much sums it up right there, I've been feeling this for quite some time now...DAMN i just WANT him- :-( oh well- it's seems like it's that time though- plus transiting uranus is opposition my venus- that means it's time to shake and move things around in my love life especially...i guess
IT'S SO HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted October 27, 2006 09:55 PM
*aszure773* .. not quite sure if you wanted this info ..your transits at 28th october 2006
01:46 gmt all 'close orb' .. i.e. strong in effect .. *very short .. hair trigger like
transiting Moon trine natal Venus
transiting Sun conjunct natal Pluto *short .. regular trigger like
transiting Mars sextile natal Neptune
transiting Venus conjunct natal Pluto
transiting Lillith sextile natal Sun *longer term backdrop
transiting Chiron square natal Pluto
transiting Neptune trine natal Lillith transiting Uranus is still aprox 4 deg before a very close orb ..
.. however you can no doubt feel the effect building up .. 'n transiting Lillith is approaching your MidHeaven ( M.C.) a few there to natal pluto ! .. and miss Lilith certainly active .. in one form or another
that transiting Chiron to your Pluto can't be too easy .. so research 'Chiron' a bit ..
it may help .. as **your natal Pluto placement will be very very close to yer guys** ..
( sorry not looked at that chart just yet .. tomorrow maybe ) :: a few related links :: re: Neptune transits .. see last post in that link .. be an article planted there ..
* http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/009080.html *
re: Uranus transits .. 'nother article at bottom of thread ..
* http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/009074.html *
re: Lillith in astrology ..
* http://www.antonia-langsdorf.de/dateien/astrologie-antonia-langsdorf-essay.php *
internal Lillith thread ..
* http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum7/HTML/005183.html * CHIRON in astrology ... info ..
* http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_chiron_e.htm *
* http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_wounding_e.htm *
* http://www.martinlass.com/healhand.htm *
* http://www.martinlass.com/chiron.htm *
* http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/khiron/chir.html * be some related astro articles here :
* http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk * be well ..
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azzure773
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posted October 30, 2006 11:39 AM
Thanks Happy Dragon, I'm checking those out now...IP: Logged |
azzure773
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posted October 30, 2006 11:44 AM
oh yeah- and we actually met on his birthday this year(approx. 7:30pm)- i heard the time of the first meeting is significant. Please keep giving feedback! Thank you!!!!!!!IP: Logged | |
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