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Topic: help please from a cancerian man!
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artgirl unregistered
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posted October 29, 2006 11:54 PM
i have a date tomorrow night with a cancerian man and i have no idea how to impress him can i have some good tips i usually goof up when i like a guy so i would like to know how to go into the situation, thxIP: Logged |
cancerrg unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 08:01 AM
are cancers flavour of the month or what ? its cancers everywhere . happy that i would be getting chances too . be gentle , honest , no show off and if u can be be interested in his interests . but a lot of things depend on a lot of other things , let us know a bit about him so that we can help a bit more . good luck ! IP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 30, 2006 08:30 AM
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thosa unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 09:08 AM
^^true! IP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 09:17 AM
ok a little more about him well its our second date we spoke on the phone for like 3 hours problem he has been married before to a total ***** of what he says and has a teenage daughter living with him ....... so i don't know how much he trusts women and i did tell the truth and was honest but don't know if he believed it and its been a while since i really liked someone so i don't want to blow this one the no show off tip was good since i do get carried away sometimes ..... lolIP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 09:28 AM
i think we clicked but he is VERY cautious probably due to his past experince and maybe the things i said sounded too good to be true but they were the truth lol so now i have butterflies and don't know what to do i mean ohh and he is coming for dinner so i plan to cook is that a good idea? since the wife was not into cooking and stuff like that don't know and no idea what to wear he does seem rather conservativeIP: Logged |
tinasparkle unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 09:31 AM
Artgirl, I am just learning about Cancer men, but from my own experience and guidence fromothers at LL, I would say that it is important to remember that Cancer men are sensitive. Be gentle and make it known that you care about his feelings and emotions and you're not going to run him over. Don't criticize the previous woman even if he does,he probably still has a place for her in his heart just like he does for everyone else he has ever known.If you have any maternal instincts, whip them out. Ask him about his history, i.e,. childhood, etc., but don't push him for details about his past relationship. He will open up about it when he is ready. Just nurture him and if he is receptive, he will nurture you right back. Just my thoughts. Tinasparkle IP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 30, 2006 09:32 AM
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posted October 30, 2006 09:43 AM
well he has spoken about everything since we have been introduced through relatives for serious intentions meaning marriage!!!!IP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 30, 2006 09:46 AM
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artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 09:53 AM
he has been divorced for 5 years now and he has been busy bringing up his child the ex doesn't want to have anything to do with the child and is married again and living her own life. so that is why we ended up having all kinds of serious discussions and i really can't figure out how much he is into me since he is nursing a wounded heart adn has not been in a serious relashionship since the divorce according to him that is i need serious help with this one since i really found him nice IP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 09:57 AM
what do you mean that changes everything that did sound frightening and i am already nervous enough since i really liked the guy he has like all the attributed i want or seems like it
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and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 30, 2006 10:00 AM
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posted October 30, 2006 10:02 AM
and i do have big knockers so i pass that test!!!! lol but i don't know if i shoud put them on display or notIP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 10:04 AM
i am a virgo it does say that we are compatible but considering his situationIP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 10:04 AM
i am a virgo it does say that we are compatible but considering his situationIP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 10:05 AM
i am a virgo it does say that we are compatible but considering his situationIP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 30, 2006 10:09 AM
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tinasparkle unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 10:20 AM
Artgirl, With regard to the "big knockers" issue. I would say subtle cleavage but definately show a little cleavage. I have noticed that my Cancer fellow is offended by immodest women but delights in the fliratious bit of skin I show. He is very fond of my cleavage, although he is a gentleman about it. Nothing too flashy and try to do it in situations where it is for his benefit only otherwise he may be a bit jealous. Tinasparkle IP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 10:32 AM
tinasparkle your words were really reassuring i did have that path in mindIP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 10:36 AM
and i dont have any privacy issues since i'm not planning a hot and heavy date so would appreciate your adviceIP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 30, 2006 10:45 AM
ok everyone i am leaving for the night i'll check in on you all tomorrow morning and thanks a lot for all the advice cheersIP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2006 02:17 PM
quote: are cancers flavour of the month or what ? its cancers everywhere
I know, right CG? I'm even noticing this in my daily life. All that scorpio in the sky must be making us look hawtt!
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artgirl unregistered
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posted October 31, 2006 12:04 AM
hi everyone i am back and the date is tonight wish me luck .............. IP: Logged |
artgirl unregistered
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posted October 31, 2006 12:05 AM
hi everyoneIP: Logged |