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Topic: Signs of Gentleness in Men in the natal chart
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Salisa unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 05:06 AM
What do you think are are some signs of gentleness/calmness in a mans chart? I've never know anyone to be that way all the time but I'm talking about it as a basic personality trait. When I mean Gentle I don't mean shy,bashful or humble. You can be intense and gentle or carefree charming and gentle I'm talking about the specific trait of gentleness/kindness.Would it be a trait influenced mainly by Jupiter and Neptune? I find this very interesting to see in men because I have rarely ever seen it as a dominate personality trait. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 05:13 AM
Venus in Pisces, Cancer; Moon in TaurusIP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 05:24 AM
My hubbie is this way.....he is Virgo Sun with Venus in Cancer...I think it equals kindness and gentleness x IP: Logged |
alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 40 From: Somewhere over the rainbow Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 05:51 AM
I know a guy. He's so so so very gentle with everyone and everything. I almost don't know how to act around him...Libra Asc, Sun in Pisces, Moon in Libra, Mercury in Pisces, Mars in Taurus ------------------ "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere" - MLK Jr. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 08:03 AM
Pisces moon/libra venusIP: Logged |
Atlenta unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 08:38 AM
quote: Pisces moon/libra venus
hehe :Pvenus sextile moon venus sextile neptune ..or other positive aspects (I chose sextile because they seem the softest and i have a live example ) IP: Logged |
themysteryclub unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 12:24 PM
I would imagine the house placement also counts a bit..I know a man with venus in cancer and 95% of the time he is very inconsiderate. Of all the men I know who have a gentle/calm quality to them every one of them has prominant aquarius in their chart. IP: Logged |
DayDreamer unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 12:33 PM
Without reading any of the posts here I would have said a Pisces and Cancer influence.I know a guy with Pisces Sun conjunct Venus, and a Cancer Asc. He's ultra gentle (but he loves paintball and the typical guy things) and is very shy and humble. His sister an Aries is the complete opposite. It's hard to believe they're grew up together and are related. IP: Logged |
Node Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 12:46 PM
A man who's gentleness humbles me:- Sun Aquarius 6th
- Mercury,Desc. Venus, Moon, chiron, Saturn-Pisces 7th.
- Jupiter Cancer 11th,
- Vesta, Neptune Scorpio 3rd
- Mars Libra 2nd.
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Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 12:59 PM
I know that I am very gentle to the point a lot of guys think that I am weak. The gentleness shows in my voice too. I do consider myself a gentleman. My mother raised me to be a gentleman including me making me open doors for the opposite sex at 11 yrs old to the point that I do it instinctively. I'd say that my indicators(excluding midpoints) are: Sun trine Moon in water signs Moon in Pisces Moon in 6th Neptune in 3rd Moon square Neptune Virgo Ascendant/Pisces Descendant axis Mercury parallel Neptune Venus parallel Neptune Mars square Neptune Mercury conjunct Venus Mercury parallel Venus Moon is conjunct the asteroid,Lancelot with 3 minutes of arc.
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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 01:44 PM
I'd say ether Sun in Taurus or Sun in Virgo and Moon in Cancer, or vice versa. And I agree with the Venus in Cancer, makes a guy more sensitive towards his girl. Also having aspects like Venus/Neptune, Moon/Venus, or Moon/Neptune makes a guy real romantic and gentle. Having it in the 4th is even better.------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer IP: Logged |
Leopricorn unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 01:48 PM
Hm, I'd have to say Mars in Libra or Mars in the 12th.IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1120 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 01:53 PM
ready for a surprise? Capricorn AscendantIP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 02:16 PM
that's probably Cancer DSC then.... hey Lalalinda IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1120 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 03:06 PM
hey Peri IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 03:37 PM
I think Venus in Pisces or Taurus, and Neptune aspected to Moon. Men with Mars harmoniously aspected to Saturn have a hard time saying 'no' to women, I know that's not always a good thing but at first glance it may seem so.
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Salisa unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 04:37 PM
Thanks for all your replys! I was looking around the net to see if Jupiter also had anything to do with it, and read that Venus in aspect to Jupiter can make you gental and kind. Did any of your gental guys have this aspect?IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 04:45 PM
I don't have Venus in aspect to Jupiter,but I do have Venus conjunct Sun/Jupiter midpoint with only 1 minute of arc. SU.VE.JU. + congenial. popular. charming. pleasant. sincere. compassionate. sympathetic. cordial. warm-hearted. conciliatory. contented. seeks peace. tactful. giving. promising. people-oriented. epicurean. tasteful. conscious of color and texture. fair. experienced at handling money. capable at art. Good fortune due to love of a man. Sympathy of successful men. Satisfaction with the fairness of a person. Pleasure due to a wealthy man. From love to success. Hope for justice. Desire for money. Happiness over good health. Healing. Attractive corpulence. Days of joy over financial matters. Years of good luck in love. Good time for hobbies. - overly indulgent. overextends oneself to others. calculating. ostentatious.
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taurean_scorpion unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 06:39 PM
Indeed, lol He has Venus Square Jupiter, Moon sextile Venus, and Venus Conjuntion Neptune... IP: Logged |
illusions_fool unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 08:20 PM
I wish there were more gentle-type men. Just thought I'd throw that out there.~Rebekka IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2006 08:21 PM
honestlyI don't think any aspect can make you kind and gentle nor any aspect can make you mean and rough. I don't believe that you can tell a person's character by looking at their charts. btw..Noel Tyl believes that Venus-Jupiter aspects are common in people with diabetes.
my mother has Venus parallel Jupiter,and she's a diabetic....also...my mom was abusive towards me......not always that nice and gentle. It all comes down to free will.
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Salisa unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 08:54 PM
I belive in something like that too you know the whole nature vs. nurture thing. I think you start of in life with the distinct personality of your birth chart but as the people and things ware on you you change for better or for worse. I mean you could have the most beautiful birth chart in the world but if you gave that child to a monster it most likly would not end up a beautiful person. But I think in general many people hang on to some thing of what they once were.That's why I said venus in aspect to jupiter "can" make you gental and kind. It actually makes me sad to think of there are some many people that started of very beautiful in life that the world just went and crushed to smitherings. IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion unregistered
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posted November 05, 2006 09:05 PM
I agree, Glaucus and Salisa.
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lovely* unregistered
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posted November 06, 2006 12:58 PM
I think what we perceive as gentle or kind is dependent upon how we elicit those traits in another. quote: my mother has Venus parallel Jupiter,and she's a diabetic....also...my mom was abusive towards me......not always that nice and gentle.
Glaucus, I have Sun Ven Conj opp Jup. Others close to me have always considered me as gentle & considerate. Your mother was frustrated by you. I'm projecting here because my Gem daughter was diagnosed with "ADHD"..and is a handful. She's a beautiful handful but there have been times I was not nice to her..and I admit to feeling like I've been downright mean and overly harsh with her. My daughter has been the one who was able to both open my heart to it's fullest, but also the one to bring out the dark side of my personality. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 06, 2006 01:18 PM
Nope.It's more than her being frustrated by me. But yeah..when I was in special education,she was frustrated with having a Dyslexic,Dyspraxic child. She even called me "retard" out of frustration because she wanted me to be normal. I was only 6 at the time,and I was very incompetent in language and motor skills as well as too sensitive,emotional. She's always had a problem with her temper. She would cuss me out and hit me. She always had issues including she never knew her mother who never wanted her in the first place,been in 13 fosterhomes,lost her first born son to adoption when she was 15 yrs old,was a teenage age runaway,met my father during her runaway period in San Francisco,had me at 17 yrs old,had drug issues thanks to my drug addict father getting her involved in drugs after I was born,and she was shot when she was 20 yrs old,suicide attempts,been in psychiatric hospital for a few months,cervical cancer and removal of uterus at 23 yrs old,and history of bad relationships,suicide of her alcoholic,hepatitic father in 1998. My mother has a history of alcoholism which runs strongly on her side of the family. My Mom has a lot of water in her chart(Ascendant,Mercury,Venus,Jupiter,and Uranus in Cancer along with Moon and Saturn in Scorpio) and she has Moon in Scorpio in 5th square Pluto in Leo in 3rd(Moon-Pluto double whammy). She has an out of bounds Mars in Capricorn oppose Ascendant. It doesn't take much to get her upset and lose her temper. She has had a bad temper since childhood. She was in an unhappy marriage to man 25 years her senior. He was a control freak Leo. My mother has her own control issues too. We have a history of a love and hate relationship. She has Diabetes and Hepatitis C,but she doesn't take care of herself. She still smokes and is a bit overweight. My mother is more ADHD than I am. I am not ADHD. My mother also shows symptoms of manic depression. She even admitted to that. She has diagnosed anxiety,depressive disorder,as well as PTSD. My mother also has a lot of Dyslexic symptoms too. She didn't even complete 9th grade. I inherited my Dyslexia from her and my father. I don't have ADHD myself. I had tended to be hypoactive growing up.
All that fits with my T-Square of Moon in Pisces in 6th square retrograde Saturn in Gemini in 9th and Jupiter-Sagittarius in 3rd. That's the most challenging configuration in my chart. It indicates my highly dysfunctional mother experiences.
after all, Moon in one's chart indicates the experiences with the mother as well as other important women and not just one's emotional nature,feelings,instincts,subconcious habit patterns,unconscious,emotional needs,and nurturing. my mom's 11 lifepath number and 22 expression number fits her life. My 29th birthday fits my life including my experiences with my mother. Master Numbers indicate great challenges even though there is great potential. "I think what we perceive as gentle or kind is dependent upon how we elicit those traits in another." I do agree with that. However, I do believe that we have the free will to choose how we use our traits regardless of whom we are interacting with. IP: Logged |