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Topic: Same Sign / Different Sex
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astro junkie unregistered
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posted November 06, 2006 09:30 PM
How have you personally experienced someone who shared your Sun Sign, but from the other sex (or as close to it) ...Remember to say who the male and/or female is you're talking about. I'm Female Sun Libra guys always surprise me in how different they are from me. They come across incredibly bossy to me, once the calm sweet veneer fades away. Maybe they don't like the "let's see how it goes" side of romance. If they don't get what they ask for when they ask for it, game over. There has not been much opportunity to discuss anything or talk anything through. It is what it is. I'm a Watery Libra, and though I'm NOT best with Water Suns, being a Watery Libra gives me the ability to give the other person the benefit of the doubt. I'm eager to learn from others and try to never assume someone knows less than I do about anything. Quick rejection or quick discountment makes me wonder if it is coming from a place of judgement. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
lals unregistered
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posted November 06, 2006 10:55 PM
AJ what you say is so very true. I observed apart from myself and my sign opposite sex, other sign opposite sex. Piscean male and piscean female are so very different whom I have observed quite closely. Also, the same with Virgo. Ironically I have never felt such difference between a scorp man and woman. I am a scorp.. Remember the first statement of LG's analysis of a Scorp woman?
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grottochick unregistered
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posted November 06, 2006 11:13 PM
LOL - I am an Aries Female (Aq Rising) living with an Aries Male (and my brother is an Aries.) Interesting my BF and brother are alike in MANY ways...and much more 'traditional' and 'staid' than I am. I'd like to think that I don't have their negative qualities, unfortunately, I fear that I too may be selfish, 'always right', and stubborn. I think I have a harder time with authority figures than they do.Hmmm...interesting question though. IP: Logged |
Atlenta unregistered
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posted November 07, 2006 12:44 AM
Hmm.. bossy, that's something new..I sometimes feel that a libra man is more woman than I am (I am a Libra female), yet they are all man at the turn of the hat. A libra woman would probably give alot to her mate in terms of support, but what I see is that the libra man is different in that he cannot. He is briefer and more abrupt, and shies away from anything emotional (at that moment, but he will express them at his own pace, and will clam up when pushed). oh and the charm and romanticism is ephemeral - he's usually plagued with the seesaw balancing issues that make him cranky as a crocodile. thats probably all that I can think of at the moment add re libra man: 'There has not been much opportunity to discuss anything or talk anything through. It is what it is.' I think one of the reasons for this is due to them not liking to discuss their feelings. Maybe they think discussing relationship issues are a threat to harmony - they don't like knowing what's wrong with them or the relationship.. ------------------ The kingdom of Heaven lies within - J.C IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted November 07, 2006 12:51 AM
The Taurus women I know always seem to have stronger personalities than the men. Can be very chatty, too. A lot of Taurus men I know seem mellow, at least outwardly. They tend to have strong opinions about their beliefs, but mostly they are just calm and gentle. They seem to let the women in their lives make a lot of the decisions.IP: Logged |
Lauren unregistered
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posted November 07, 2006 01:27 AM
Aries guys.. they’re very easy to get along most of the time, but I haven’t known many. Strangely, considering Aries is such a combative sign, I could never see myself arguing with an Aries guy.. I strongly doubt it would happen. There are the ‘macho’ Aries guys who you’d think would get on my nerves but for some reason they completely cut that out with me. I’ve heard a lot about Arians being chauvinists, but I’ve never met one who was.. probably why we got along. In this way they’re easiest for me to get on with after – Gemini/Libra and Pisces.. as male friends. There isn’t a strong romantic or sexual attraction, but it does feel like an easy/smooth connection in most ways.. I don’t think I’ve known an Aries with an Aries Mercury so far. That might change things a little. I have a Capricorn moon and boys with Mercury in Aries haven’t been my cup of moccacino latte, in the past.. too verbally aggressive for my liking. My fishy Mercury just wants to relax and daydream and listen to music and there goes Aries Mercury yelling at someone or starting a fight or making a cutting remark gah.. and then my Moon in Cappy gets hurt which goes straight to my head (Mercury) since they’re sextile.. and it ruins my daydream IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 07, 2006 07:40 AM
I don't think I really see a difference between Cancer men and women. We both wear masks to protect us from hurt, to cover up our sensitive side, and were both very moody and difficult to get along with (some call it stubborn). Some cancer men tend to be outgoing,machismo, and sometimes superficial to cover up this side of them though. Hvae I been attracted to some cancer men, yes. Have I dated one,nahhh. IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted November 07, 2006 08:02 AM
I have known a few Scorpio males and find quite a lot of similiarites....musicheads, passionate, secretive, sensitive. On the down side...too intense and sometimes revengful, one guy I know who is also a musician his ex told me he was hell to live with... Another male Scorp musician I know has a reputation of being an extremely INTENSE lover...One of the most delightful people I know is Scorpio Sun, Scorpio rising and Pisces moon...he positively exudes all that is good....he is a brilliant musician too... IP: Logged |
cancerrg unregistered
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posted November 07, 2006 08:12 AM
agree dulce ! same with me ! i dont find much of a difference between the two .yeah , but with other signs , i think i do ! IP: Logged |
kindjali Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted November 07, 2006 08:51 AM
Sam with Cappy man and Cappy woman. I find them very opposite to male Cappy, but I like Cappy woman. Problem is that they seems to get some wisdom and maturity after some "life experience", often worst. Talking and knowing some Cappy woman, after their 35 years they start to believe in something "higher" and "deeper" then material stuff. But from talking all of them got that knowledge after life teached them some lessons. Males are opposite to them. Much of them depends of their ASC.K. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 07, 2006 09:19 AM
Yeah CG, maybe there are other signs that can tell the difference between us (them being the "outsiders"). I can definitely see the difference between the sexes of some other signs.IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted November 07, 2006 10:40 AM
I just met a lovely Scorpio man...he delivered a trampoline for our son's birthday.....we made an instant connection. Even of the phone last night....I thought...aaaaahhh lovely man.He put his hand on my back...very warm and sincere and then we talked about music and star signs....he said he might come to me for a reading..!!! We were kind of like mirrors I think. Got a feeling we may meet again... Lovely eyes he has..... xx IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 07, 2006 01:45 PM
AstroJunkie, my feelings exactly about Libra men, and I also have alot of water in me too. Thats why I feel a relationship with a Libra man with be hopeless, in the end I'd end up angry and hurt(they just give off a cold and indifferent vibe). Give me plenty of fire and water to play with and I'll be a happy girl.------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 03:52 AM
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thedividedsky unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 08:48 AM
i have noticed 2 MAIN types of virgo men, and women, for that matter.1) serious, studious, uptight, in control (they think), accountant types, level headed 2) sexy, demure, open, loving, submissive-ish, dreamy, cat-like, refined I happen to be more of a type two, although i have some type 1 characteristics. Most of the Virgo men I meet are type 1's. I'm always wondering what in the world? They are SOOOOO boring and uptight. IP: Logged |
aqua inferno unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 02:47 PM
Yes I have…those awfully naughty pisces fish. Rather pretentious and demeaning, but still nice (???) He gives of a “I’m just a sweet harmless puppy, you can mould me into whatever you want” but in the end you find he’s been moulding you. And he’s a total *subtle* flirt that makes you feel like the most important person in the world, that no one else can compare…until you find he’s doing it with someone else, but oddly enough none of the girls get jealous - including me! As he’s “just a little harmless puppy” - how could you get mad at him? It’s weird, like seeing yourself in someone else. Taught me to tone down my flirting, as some make take it too seriously.
------------------ aka WaterNymph pisces/virgo/pisces/aquarius/aries/aries - member of the sun sign reject club - but still loved *hopes* IP: Logged |
lmj515 unregistered
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posted November 16, 2006 11:21 AM
Both me and my friend (female) are Aquarius! We have another extreamly close friend who is a Virgo and wee all get on fantastically, We never stop laughing, And when ever were out as a 3 something always crazy happens whi never happens unless were all together. However the only difference is, unspoken by either of us, me and my Aquarius friend are always thinking the same thing have this feeling of looking at each other knowing exactly what each of us are thinking. I think the same sign, different sex topic is a very interesting one. All your post have been interesting.IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted December 08, 2006 10:21 PM
cool responses------------------ * * * skip the light fandango * * * IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 08, 2006 10:30 PM
My best friends wife is a fellow Capricorn. She's actually a lot more Capricorn than I am. I have two placements, and she's got at least three. We get along pretty well. Artistically we've clashed over decoration. That's really the only disagreement we've had.I think I'm fascinated with female Capricorns to a certain degree. Would love to try dating one just to see what it was like. IP: Logged |