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Topic: CONFUSED ARIES
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ARIESPINK
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posted November 13, 2006 05:59 AM
 
 Hi everyone. Could you help me with a problem I have with Pisces guy. He has Moon in Gemini, Mercury in Pisces and Venus in Pisces and Mars in Saggitarius and Saturn in Scorpio and Pluto in Leo. We get along fine and all of a sudden recently he mentions this girl who he happened to meet. He said to me, did she fancy me before, whats her telephone number. I thought, is he for real???. I was raging. When I spoke the next day,he said, you don't sound like yourself, whats wrong. I said its o.k. He said what is it, I can tell. I spoke re this girl. He said ah, I was only joking. I only fancy you etc. I moved on and said nothing. I know that in a few months again, he will probably mention her name again. Is this insecurity on his behalf or is it that he wants me to end the relationship. What do you think??. He phoned nearly every day, then gone again for probably a week. He will ressurect again as it nothing has happened. I think that he has Saggitarius Ascendant. IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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From: victoria, australia
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 13, 2006 06:08 AM
Argh! Pisces men! I had a similar thing happen sat with a pisces-boy I'd been on-off with since january. We were hanging out and he was telling me he wanted to start seeing more of me, blah blah blah, basically everything I'd ever wanted to hear from him.
Ten minutes later he gets a text from a girl and comments about her to me. It bothered me he did that, not cos I was jealous or anything, I'd realised during the evening that whatever it was we had has passed, but because it was inappropriate.
However, when I commented I'd had another 'friend' as well he got really upset about it and quite angry. He wasn't angry at me, just angry. 10 minutes later when I was leaving he kept asking me to call him. Told him it'd been going on too long and he shouldn't call me again.
As for what him talking about another chick meant I have no idea. Maybe a self-preservation thing? Like if we think we have competition we'll fight harder for them.
Who knows??? I'm glad my pisces affair is over. I'm pisces too and one pisces is definately enough in a relationship I think!IP: Logged |
ARIESPINK
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posted November 13, 2006 06:26 AM
 Thanks for replying. Isn't it funny how you had a kinda similar situation. I too have had enough this time. Each time, I feel more insecure and try to go back to the same mundane situation. The problem with pisces guys is that they look so cute and can get away with anything. IP: Logged |
Jan_A
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posted November 13, 2006 06:53 AM
I find such "games" pretty stupid. I wouldn't expect too much in such relationship. If you are confused, tell him about that! You have nothing to lose.IP: Logged |
ARIESPINK
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posted November 13, 2006 07:25 AM
You are so right. Wasn't it a stupid idiotic thing to say to someone. Mentioning other girls names is pathetic I think. He thinks it is a laugh. I think it is sick. IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
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posted November 13, 2006 08:36 AM
Hello...You have to be "up to it" to play the Pisces game. I love them with all my heart.  Pisces + Gemini + Sagittarius together in one person adds way too many facets to his personality. Trust me. I met someone like that - Pisces sun, Sag moon, Gemini Asc. They can be very adorable and you just can't seem to help but like them and forgive them (at least when they are charming you). Then you get furious over yourself for being so gullible. Ha ha... I know... been there done that. The thing is... Aries is way too straight forward for game playing. I have to be in the right frame of mind to play the mind games they crave (Pisces/Gemini/Sag). In my experience, most of the time, I just hang up on him if he calls me up and start to chat about another woman. LOL. The Arien way! That usually smarten him up very quickly. But when I am in the mood to play, I urge him on and say... "Hey, do you want me to get her for you?"... or "You should go ask her out... she prob have the hots for you." or "Go get her and bring her home for threesome!" LOL. He'd be so interested and then I'd suggest something like, "how about I bring my guy in for a quad?" Bah! Funny thing with these guys is that they can't share what is theirs... the idea of you going with another man, will surely get them to hit the roof. Then, I just simply say "Hey, what's good for the gander, is good for the goose!" He knows I'm kidding and usually smarten up after. The thing with Pisces is the two fishes facing the opposite way. If you want him to do something, suggest something completely opposite of what you want. He will end up doing the exact opposite of what you are suggesting and wham! before he realizes it, you already have him doing what you REALLY want. He he! Works every time for me. This guys is all joke... I wouldn't take him seriously. When it comes right down to it... his Sagittarius side will kick in and he can't help but be loyal... at least that was my experience with mine. Good luck! Don't give up too easily. He's a keeper... you just have to get him eating out of your hands... if anyone can do it, an Aries can!  Miss Muffet IP: Logged |
ARIESPINK
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posted November 13, 2006 09:33 AM
 Miss_Muffet
YOU ARE A GEM. You so made my day. I have to say, you are super intelligent when it comes to the pisces quy. Because I am an Aries, I get offended and he is probably having a good laugh at my expense. I will give him another chance. He has not rung for a few days but that is normal. I now know how to approach this issue the next time and will mention the threesome bit. BRILLIANT. You have such a great way with words and I can honestly say, I AM ONCE AGAIN BACK TO MYSELF AND IN GOOD HUMOUR.
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CrankyCap
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From: Ohio
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 13, 2006 10:20 AM
"The problem with pisces guys is that they look so cute and can get away with anything."LMAO...if that's not one of the most accurate sentences I've ever read... You guys are kinda freaking me out here...I just started dating a pisces, and I really, really hope he doesn't start pulling shady BS like this! I'm crazy, crazy, CRAZY about him, but I definitely wouldn't be able to handle that. Thank GOD he has a Scorp moon. I know it keeps him more focused, determined, and driven. It also, thankfully gives him a jealous streak which is comforting to me because when my scorp venus rears its ugly head at least he's understanding about it, and I don't think he'd ever try to make me jealous on purpose. He really almost acts more scorp than pisces most of the time... Now my pisces brother? Different story...I've always said that it would take a saint of a woman to put up with him. He's a Sag moon, Libra asc., Aqua venus, and Pisces mars. He's so flighty it's not even funny. He LITERALLY doesn't know whether he's coming or going. He has absolutely NO focus in life and just kind of drifts along. He's incredibly irresponsible and immature. I know he's cheated on his current girlfriend (which I scolded him for...not that he listened). However, she's also a pisces and is madly in love with him...I'm sure she'd stick by him even if she knew he was screwing around on her. That's the thing with him, when girls fall for him, they fall HARD. He's had girls stalk him, threaten suicide over him...it's ridiculous. As his pisces sun would indicate, he's a hopeless romantic, but when his sag moon kicks in he gets bored and wants his freedom again. He's very charming and has a brilliant sense of humor, but even if he wasn't my brother I couldn't put up with him! Seems like pisces is a sign that does best when it has a strong, solid moon backing it up, otherwise it becomes waaaay to shifty and directionless...IMO. IP: Logged |
SLAYER
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posted November 13, 2006 01:14 PM
Well, he's got Gemini moon. It is very normal for him to feel both-sided, has two way actions. If you are one of the tough arians, then you wont tolerate this two way actions very long. Because i think it's very horrible to be unsure with your guy when it comes to love. I wish you lots of patience with your Pisces-sun, Gemini-moon guy. Good luck !------------------
Vampires are creeps !
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ARIESPINK
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posted November 13, 2006 05:50 PM
Really appreciate all your replies. I have a Gemini Ascendant and sometimes it drives me nuts in that I want to do one thing and then I change my mind again. I never stick with my first decision. I have taken all your replies into consideration and you know by reading all of them, I can come away stronger. I tend to feel insecure alot too, so maybe that attributes to my predicament. The one thing that I hate with pisces guys also is their lack of communication. Phone calls constantly and then silence for perhaps for three or four days. Drives me insane. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted December 06, 2006 11:37 PM
ARIESPINK -It's said that a strong Gemini/Pisces influence in a Chart means there will be at least 5 of you in the relationship. Also, watch for them fooling themselves because your reaction will matter more than the truth. How far you want to take it, up to you, and priceless ... ------------------
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