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Topic: Apologizing
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shirty unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 08:37 AM
What, in a natal chart, would indicate the tendency to apologize excessively? For example, using the word 'sorry' even when there is clearly no need.. It's almost as if the person is very insecure.On the flipside of the coin, what would indicate the tendency to NOT apologize. (I am guilty of this a lot.) I figure it has to be someone who is a little self-righteous, and doesn't think much of the past. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 14, 2006 09:08 AM
I know someone who looks guilty and apologizes all the time for no apparent reason, he has Cancer ASC, Sun in the 7th, Moon in Libra, Piscean MC and SN;IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 14, 2006 09:22 AM
shirty!You hit the nail on the head. That's how I am. I have a history of insecurity,and I feel guilt and remorse very easily. I do apologize a lot...even when I don't have to. I always felt guilty easily. I will even cry because of guilty feelings. I'd would say stuff to myself "I am so stupid" I will always want to make up for it. People who think that they are stupid will often be easily feel made guilty..especially if you negatively criticize them for making a mistake. Also if they do something good,they have problems taking credit for what they did. If they make an innocent careless mistake out of disorganization and absentmindedness,they are quick to blame themselves and refer to themselves as stupid and apologize even though are not guilty of doing anything dishonest. People that are very insecure often think they did something wrong when they didn't or if its a minor thing,they make it like it's something that was major.
That is exactly how I am. my indicators: my t-square Moon in Pisces in 6th square retrograde Saturn in Gemini in 9th and Jupiter-Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd. (it's a most challenging t-square including especially when it's also Moon oppose Saturn/Neptune midpoint...I wouldn't wish this on anybody Mercury-Venus-Saturn-Neptune in planetary synchronization in the declinations.
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BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 10:39 AM
I say sorry all the time.. If someone bumps into me and it's their fault....yup, I say sorry. I can be too nice sometimes. IP: Logged |
shirty unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 11:12 AM
BlueEyes - Are you Canadian? I think for that sort of thing most of us say sorry! It's in our blood, haha! IP: Logged |
taurus/gemini cusp Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted November 14, 2006 01:14 PM
I saw this post and I HAD to comment, for this is excatly what I do! I have no idea why - I'm this way. I'm the type of person who would apologise to YOU if YOU trod on MY feet!!! It's ridiculous. I'm always being told I'm far too polite, so anyone with any astrological insights get in touch!!! IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 01:27 PM
I think Pisces. I have a stellium in the 12th house, Sun trine Neptune, Neptune Trine Jupiter and I guess you could say I excessively say "sorry," and usually the first person to say too. I also have a stellium in Virgo, if that could be it, also in Capricorn, and strong Plutonian influences. IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 08:14 PM
I am like that too...probably due to my cappy sun (guilt) and cancer asc (sensitivity) ? Also had a disturbed childhood which left me with a lot of guilt. (pluto in 4th?) hv shaken it off now, but a few effects still remain, and being overly nice is one of them.IP: Logged |
Lady Macbeth unregistered
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posted November 14, 2006 08:25 PM
Well, I'm thinking that 'not apologizing' tendency is probably a Scorp thang. My guess is Virgo/Cancer/Pisces being overly apologetic... IP: Logged |