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shirty
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posted November 14, 2006 08:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What, in a natal chart, would indicate the tendency to apologize excessively? For example, using the word 'sorry' even when there is clearly no need.. It's almost as if the person is very insecure.

On the flipside of the coin, what would indicate the tendency to NOT apologize. (I am guilty of this a lot.) I figure it has to be someone who is a little self-righteous, and doesn't think much of the past.

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Peri
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posted November 14, 2006 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know someone who looks guilty and apologizes all the time for no apparent reason, he has Cancer ASC, Sun in the 7th, Moon in Libra, Piscean MC and SN;

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posted November 14, 2006 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
shirty!

You hit the nail on the head.


That's how I am. I have a history of insecurity,and I feel guilt and remorse very easily. I do apologize a lot...even when I don't have to. I always felt guilty easily. I will even cry because of guilty feelings. I'd would say stuff to myself "I am so stupid" I will always want to make up for it. People who think that they are stupid will often be easily feel made guilty..especially if you negatively criticize them for making a mistake. Also if they do something good,they have problems taking credit for what they did. If they make an innocent careless mistake out of disorganization and absentmindedness,they are quick to blame themselves and refer to themselves as stupid and apologize even though are not guilty of doing anything dishonest. People that are very insecure often think they did something wrong when they didn't or if its a minor thing,they make it like it's something that was major.

That is exactly how I am.

my indicators:

my t-square Moon in Pisces in 6th square retrograde Saturn in Gemini in 9th and Jupiter-Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd.
(it's a most challenging t-square including especially when it's also Moon oppose Saturn/Neptune midpoint...I wouldn't wish this on anybody

Mercury-Venus-Saturn-Neptune in planetary synchronization in the declinations.

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BlueEyes24
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posted November 14, 2006 10:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I say sorry all the time.. If someone bumps into me and it's their fault....yup, I say sorry. I can be too nice sometimes.

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shirty
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posted November 14, 2006 11:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BlueEyes - Are you Canadian? I think for that sort of thing most of us say sorry! It's in our blood, haha!

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taurus/gemini cusp
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posted November 14, 2006 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurus/gemini cusp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I saw this post and I HAD to comment, for this is excatly what I do! I have no idea why - I'm this way. I'm the type of person who would apologise to YOU if YOU trod on MY feet!!! It's ridiculous. I'm always being told I'm far too polite, so anyone with any astrological insights get in touch!!!

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taurean_scorpion
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posted November 14, 2006 01:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think Pisces.
I have a stellium in the 12th house, Sun trine Neptune, Neptune Trine Jupiter and I guess you could say I excessively say "sorry," and usually the first person to say too.
I also have a stellium in Virgo, if that could be it, also in Capricorn, and strong Plutonian influences.

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InLoveWithLife
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posted November 14, 2006 08:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am like that too...probably due to my cappy sun (guilt) and cancer asc (sensitivity) ?
Also had a disturbed childhood which left me with a lot of guilt. (pluto in 4th?) hv shaken it off now, but a few effects still remain, and being overly nice is one of them.

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Lady Macbeth
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posted November 14, 2006 08:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I'm thinking that 'not apologizing' tendency is probably a Scorp thang.

My guess is Virgo/Cancer/Pisces being overly apologetic...

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