posted November 15, 2006 12:30 PM              

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I'm very much in love with someone but everytime we are going to take the relationship further I get anxious. I really want to go ahead and live my fears but he insists I get over this first.
Is it just me or is it the combination of the two of us ?

My birthdate : 22 feb 1970, 8.15 Belgium
His birthdate : 24 dec 1966, unknown, Japan

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posted November 16, 2006 12:05 AM              

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Hi Jolie,

its difficult to analyze your situation, because you have not given the place of birth for either of you.
I took Brussels as your birthplace (hope tht's not too far off frm whr u were born) The only thing tht I can see is that you hv Uranus in the 7th house. i guess that might make you a commitment phobic. (are u like tht with any deep relationship, or only this one?) .that would explain your fear whn he wants to take the relationship further. Probably his venus in capricorn would make him want complete security. If you have fears and still go ahead, then you might want to back out later, leaving him feeling hurt.

Does this help ?

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posted November 16, 2006 10:42 PM              

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hi jolie,
i ran a composite for you two.
the mars/venus midpoint is conjunct to the mercury/uranus midpoint.this can be a aspect of very intense sexual/emotional connection but the uranus element is not good for a longterm thing.the moon is conjunct saturn opposed to the sun/mercury conjunction this is a grounding aspect but it goes to far the other way.i mean first you 2 are very close then you 2 are very distant,or another variation youare really go but then you are really bad.there doesn't
seem to be stable ground to grow from .also the sun/mars midpoint is conjunct the pluto/uranus midpoint.this is a bit scary as it can indicate violence.the jupiter/chiron midpoint is square to pluto and the sun/mars.this is just a very controlly aspect and it can indicate some type of "dark" activities .if there have been any threats of force or even abusive talk aimed at you,i suggest you blow it off.just not you ,but i've noticed a lot of violent or potentially violent behavior the last day or two.if you don't feel safe,then you are not safe.
william

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posted November 17, 2006 12:42 PM              

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Thanks very much for the replies. I never experienced any abuse from his side. William, do we have any good aspects in the composite ?

From my point of view it's a bit like this I think. I have venus inconjunct uranus and uranus in the seventh house, but I also have venus sextile saturn and trine jupiter so this also gives me the need to be close. I want to be close but at the same time it kind of scares me.
I think he really needs to be close but he has also venus square mars and sun square uranus : doesn't this give also the need for freedom in relationships ?
His moon is very well aspected, mine on the contrary isn't as much.
My sun is quite well aspected and his is poorly aspected. Could this mean that we support eachother with the qualities that we each lack ?

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posted December 09, 2006 03:53 AM              

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