posted November 27, 2006 09:42 AM
I feel that indicators of infidelity are hard to pinned down. There can be a combination of factors. Even if they are present,that doesn't mean that they will be unfaithful. We all have free will. We can be faithful if we want to.I feel that Venus-Neptune aspects can indicate possible infidelity due to the deceptive,illusive,confusing,hard to pinned down nature of Neptune.
another thing to keep in mind is that it's common for people who have substance abuse issues to cheat...especially if they depend on somebody to support their drug habit.
(If any of you watched General Hospital, Lucky Spencer cheated on his wife,Elizabeth with Maxie Jones who supplied Lucky with painkillers medication. Lucky told Maxie what she wanted to hear so he can get some pills.)
Of course, alcoholics are known to get drunk and lose their judgment and self control that they can have one night stands with people they meet in bars.
There are people who are so naive and tricked by certain people...they end cheating on their partners,but in the end, they find out that they have been played and they get dumped.
(I read that Meg Ryan cheated and dumped her husband,Dennis Quaid for ladies man, Russell Crowe who in turn dumped Meg Ryan....there was talk that Meg Ryan saw Russell Crowe as a potential marriage partner,but Russel Crowe saw her as a fling)
There are also people that are confused about their love nature,and they might be messing around with the same gender. There are also people who are in the closet and pretend that they are straight when they really aren't,and they have gay lovers on the side. Their relationship with their opposite gender partner is a lie.
There are so many possible manifestations.
There are so many astrological factors. They don't have to involve Venus. It could be the animus planets for females(Sun,Mars)and the anima planets for males(Moon,Venus) as well as 7th house,5th house connections(house ruler,planets in houses,aspects to planets in houses)as well as Ascendant/Descendant axis.
because of the free will factor, I believe that it doesn't necessarily have to be challenging aspects. Just as I believe that challenging aspects can be turned into gifts, easy aspects can be wasted and misused. A lot of people who have an easy life and are given so much take things for granted. Just look at all the spoiled rich kids that get into trouble.
Adolf Hitler had gift of oratory,and he misused in negative way.