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Topic: Dating people who resemble your parents?
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jujube unregistered
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posted November 29, 2006 02:29 PM
Does anyone else have this happen?My father has a Cancer sun and Libra ascendant, and the guy I'm interested in has a Libra sun (in the 4th house) and Cancer ascendant. They both have air sign moons. They both have Mars in Libra. They both have their N. Node in Aries within 1 degree of each other. They both have "bucket" shaped charts, with Jupiter at the handle. It's actually freaking me out a little bit. Is this a common thing to have happen- gravitating towards people with similar placements as one of your parents? IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 02:38 PM
YesMy father had a Pisces Moon like my maternal grandfather. that's also my moonsign too. My girlfriend has Moon in Scorpio and Saturn in Scorpio like my mother. She has Moon-Pluto aspect like my mom. My girlfriend has Moon conjunct Pluto,and my mom has Moon square Pluto. She has Venus in 2nd like my mother. They both have watersign Ascendants. My girlfriend has Pisces Ascendant,and my mother has Cancer Ascendant. Both have Jupiter-Ascendant aspects. My mother has Jupiter conj Ascendant,and my girlfriend has Jupiter square Ascendant. Both have Mercury parallel Pluto. They both have Moon-Nessus aspects. My mother has Moon oppose Nessus,and my girlfriend has Moon square Nessus. My mother has Sun parallel Jupiter,and my girlfriend has Sun trine Uranus. My mother has Sun parallel Uranus,and my girlfriend has Sun trine Uranus. My mother has Mercury conjunct/parallel Uranus,and my girlfriend has Mercury trine Uranus. My mother has Venus oppose Chiron,and my girlfriend has Venus parallel Chiron. My mother has Venus parallel Ascendant,and my girlfriend has Venus sextile Ascendant. My mother has Sun in Gemini parallel Mercury,and my girlfriend has Sun conjunct Mercury. My mother has Mars sextile Saturn,and my girlfriend has Mars oppose Saturn. Both have Mars in Cardinal signs with my Mom having Mars in Capricorn,and my girlfriend has Mars in Aries. My mother has Venus square Neptune,and my girlfriend has Venus sesquiquadrate stationary Neptune. My mother has Mercury parallel Venus,and my girlfriend has Mercury parallel Venus. My mother has Neptune sesquisquadrate Pisces Midheaven,and my girlfriend has Neptune conjunct Midheaven. My mother has Pluto parallel Ascendant,and my girlfriend has Pluto sesquiquadrate and parallel Ascendant. They both have Mercury in 1st my girlfriend's birthday is 1 day after my maternal grandmother's birthday. My girlfriend has Sun and Mars in Aries like my maternal grandmother. IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Philadelphia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 02:38 PM
Very interesting. Maybe it is the Cancer father effect. I know an Aries female who is wild about Cancer men, and when I mentioned "Hey, isn't your dad a Cancer?", she admitted to being very attracted to traits exhibited by her father.IP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 29, 2006 02:39 PM
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GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted November 29, 2006 02:43 PM
My bf's mother is a Sag with Scorpio ascendant, and I have a Sag ascendant and Scorpio moon. We are very similar!My dad is a Scorpio (don't know his other placements) and my bf has Jupiter in Scorpio, 8th house (singleton). So there's definitely something in it. It could even be said that I bear a resemblance to my bf's mother (people actually have said it) and that my bf bears vague resemblance to my dad... freaky or what! IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan unregistered
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posted November 29, 2006 03:02 PM
that or they date the exact oppositeIP: Logged |
aqua inferno unregistered
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posted November 29, 2006 03:03 PM
no no no no no no noooooooooooI do not want someone like my farther I love him, he’s my dad, he created me…but I’ll be damned if I date someone like him. Gemini men are dead to me ------------------ aka WaterNymph ***alex - yes I'm a girl*** pisces/virgo/pisces/aquarius/aries/aries. IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted November 29, 2006 03:10 PM
quote: no no no no no no nooooooooooo I do not want someone like my farther
Haha! My dad and ex both have Moon in Scorp. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 121 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted November 29, 2006 03:35 PM
Lets see, this makes sense I guess..My grandfather who I adored was a Aries Sun and Taurus moon..This particular guy that I am still so crazy for has a Aries moon and Mars in Taurus there is so much of a similarity between them..They have the same eyes as well..My grandfather was a police officer and My guy is also a police officer..So yeah I see it.. IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted November 29, 2006 06:18 PM
My mom is a Capricorn with a Gemini Moon and Virgo Rising. The guy that I'm most attracted to is a Capricorn with Gemini Rising and Jupiter, Mars and Saturn in Virgo. Both of them have Mercury in Sagittarius. Owing to their planets in the 4th House they are both very family-oriented (my mom has her Sun and Mercury in the 4th; he has Jupiter, Mars and Saturn in the 4th). They are definitely very much alike. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 250 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 06:30 PM
I am a c-section birth so my chart actually doesn't correllate with my parents' charts (what I know of them). However, my dad has a libra moon and so do I and I (mostly air and a bit of fire) am pretty combatible with my dad (leo stellium) but not mum (pretty much all water).However, I do love leo men and often wonder if its the warmness that I pick up on that I felt when I was doted on as a child by my dad. I would say that I have seen guys with similar physical characteristics to me dad and have been attracted to them. However, I adore Gems a lot and neither of my parents have this in their chart. What is funny though is seeing couples in the paper who are marrying and look so alike, they could pass as brother and sister. IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 08:18 PM
im a Gemini, my bf's mom is a Gemini, my uncle who raised me and is like my father is a Gemini . IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 10:00 PM
I am curious how c-section affects a natal chart. I was born 2 weeks early after a 23 hour labor. I was induced,or I would have been born later. Mom said something about me falling asleep in the womb,and the labor stopped. She even told me that I didn't cry when I came out until they poked me. If I was born day before, I wouldn't have Moon in Pisces,lunar apex t-square,Sun trine Moon,nor Moon in alignment with Sadalmelik,Fomalhaut,nor a Moon-Ancha occultation. I would have Moon in Aquarius with same birthdate as Bill Gates.
Moon in Pisces was my father's moonsign and my maternal grandfather's moonsign. IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted November 29, 2006 10:07 PM
^ Me too---C-section, 3 weeks premature. Mom has high blood pressure and tiny hips. She had a C-section with my sister. That's interesting. Does it make a difference?IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Philadelphia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 10:26 PM
The first breath of air, regardless of the method of birth, is all that matters. I've once read that some natal charts, or comparisons to their parents' charts, can show indications of c-sections. Unfortunately, there wasn't any more information on this. IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 10:34 PM
C-section almost two months premature, i was supposed to be a LeoIP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2006 10:36 PM
I was supposed to be a leo as well....July 25th was my due date. I can only imagine how different I would be just with the leo sun alone.IP: Logged |
Arnicka unregistered
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posted December 01, 2006 04:46 AM
O gawd say it isnt true!Once I dated one who in our "flirting getting to know each other" phase would play act when I was sick with the cold, as in "the poor little girl is sick" blah blah like my dad used to do and I thought, WTH! This cant be, this guys an Aries! [my dads a Pisces] And it turns out that they had conj ASC!!! Aggh deliver me from hell. Now it turns out my love interest current has sun conj venus and moon [same combo as my dad, same as my grandpa, albeit in diff signs]. Makes me wanna take a cold shower. IP: Logged |
miss_muffet unregistered
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posted December 01, 2006 07:05 AM
LOL... Yup... they did say that we end up marrying our parents (dads for women, and moms for men). It's not that bad... just means that you either think that they are good for you (looking for something familiar) or that you subconciously want to try and change them, believing that they can be better person by you.My hubby's mom is an Aries. The two major loves in his life (me included) are Aries. Miss Muffet IP: Logged |
Salisa unregistered
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posted December 02, 2006 12:48 AM
I think there can be variances of the (dads for women, and moms for men). Say your a woman and you generaly take the dominate or male role in your romantic relationships you would most likely be attracted to men who are like your mother instead of your father. This is true in the case of both me and my mother. My mom married the male version of my grandmother(its really freaky). And the same goes for me. But we both tend to take on more submissive roles in all other relationships.IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife unregistered
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posted December 02, 2006 02:33 AM
I definitely don't want anyone like my parents! i never was close to my dad. i hated him while growing up, tho i am ok with him now. so i hope tht shudnt happen. i think its also possible tht if u hated one of your parents, u may go out looking for someone who is their exact opposite, don't u think? My ex-bf used to some times do the 'baby talk' with me, ie, treat me like i was a little girl. It used to irritate me immensely, bcoz i hated it when my father did that (when i was a teenager!). I wud immediately tell him to stop.IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 02, 2006 10:24 AM
for a woman, If you hate your father, you might have problems with men in general due to problems with animus Sun and Mars are part of the animus Sun is said to not only the father but also the husband for a man, If you hate your mother,you might have problems with women in general due to problems with anima Moon and Venus are part of the animus Moon is said to be not only the mother,but also the wife.
Jungian concept in Astrology. IP: Logged |
Arnicka unregistered
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posted December 03, 2006 01:14 AM
Well if thats true why [the Jungian bit] am I most drawn to men who have personal points /planets conj my moon and venus? Wouldnt I be drawn more to the sun and mars pts?
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aqua inferno unregistered
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posted December 04, 2006 07:34 AM
I don’t have problem with men, I have a problem with my farther. Well I did. quote: Sun and Mars are part of the animus Sun is said to not only the father but also the husband
Curious. Would that indicate bad aspects between Sun and Mars.Incidentally, I think the relationship our parents had can affect the kind of relationship we have. Like with me, my parents separated when I was real young. My dad would visit once a month, or every two months. He lived abroad and travelled the world…and had this glamorous exciting life, my mum would stay in cold grey England with her parents, waiting for him…sorta. So at that age, I started believing that in relationships, you are either the one who stays and waits at home or the one with a better life. A nightmare for me is becoming a stay at home mum. Not to say being that would be bad…just not for me. To be honest, I prolly attract guys that are like both my grandpas tall, strong and independent. ------------------ aka WaterNymph ***alex - yes I'm a girl*** pisces/virgo/pisces/aquarius/aries/aries. IP: Logged |