posted November 30, 2006 04:35 PM              

is it possible to continue a friendship with someone you have south node contact with? its a draining aspect for the node owner i think, it holds them back, but its always comfortable and easy....

i dont know guys, what do you think?

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

posted November 30, 2006 04:57 PM            

12th house placements too.

posted November 30, 2006 05:04 PM            

12th house

Planets falling in my twefth house affect me emotionally in ways that can awaken me to the unknown, to that which is essentially beyond my understanding. Planets in my twelfth influence me through vague,usually-confusing emotions. Such influences often awaken fear in me, although planets here can also greatly influence my spiritual development. In other words, planets falling in the twelfth stimulate growth,development,and change in profoundly deep ways, affecting very roots of the emotions at the spirtiual level. Influences represented by planets falling in the twelfth house are essentially beyond my conscious understanding. Therefore, I often react to this aspect of the other person with distrust,worry,fear,or uneasiness. This is especially if the planets falling in my twelfth are "malefics". If the planets are "benefics", then I can often sense some kind of hidden support from the other person. The twelfth house generally indicates the blind spot in ourselves, the influences from others of which we are vageuly conscious. For example, if the other person's ascendant falls in my twelfth house, he is essentially beyond my understanding. He bewilders and confuses me. I feel overwhelmed by him. Thus, I can react to him by giving way to my irrational fears, or I can appreciate the sense of mystery and complexity that he inspires in me. The twelfth house is especially important in chart comparisons; for it can reveal the needs of a soul for future growth and give quite specific clues about karmic ties with the other person. For example, why am I so irrationally fearful of violence from Mr. M? Astrologically, his Mars falls in my twelfth house. Do these emotions come from nowhere? Or do they indicate, along with the astrological symbols, a past relationship in which I experienced the potential violence of Mr. M? These questions can be answered only in the personal experience of each of us. What I am emphasizing here is that the twelfth house indicates(both in the natal chart and in synastry) things that we have to come to terms with and integrate in our conscious spiritual-psychological growth. Therefore, an analysis of our close friends'(and enemies'!) charts in comparison with our own can reveal things that we all need to be aware of in to live and relate more freely.

My Moon in Pisces is in my girlfriend's 12th house and trine her Scorpio Moon-Saturn conjunction in 7th.

posted November 30, 2006 05:05 PM            

Doesn't necessarily have to be pastlife stuff like south node, 12th house

as for the south node stuff.....well
my grandfather's moon was on my stepgrandmother's south node. Married for over 40 years,had 4 children
my grandfather was my stepgrandmother's first and only love. they first met when she was 13 and he was 19....they got married 3 years later. my grandfather committed suicide in 1998.

south node contacts aren't necessarily bad.

posted November 30, 2006 09:03 PM              

my Sun conjunct her South Node
her South Node conjunct my Sun

posted November 30, 2006 09:06 PM              

When your Sun is conjunct your partner's South Node (therefore it is in opposition to your partner's North Node), this relationship can be revolutionary in terms of personal growth. The friendship between you is instant. In fact, you are likely to find each other very familiar even on first meeting. Your partner will quite naturally reveal your inner strengths. The caution here is that you may pull your partner into the past. You will feel safe to your partner, and he or she runs the danger of avoiding key issues he or she needs to face through North Node lessons via your association. You may not encourage each other to take on new adventures, finding it all too easy to slip into a familiar pattern. The ties that bind you, however, are very strong.