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Topic: kindjali Cap&leo
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ecerbii unregistered
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posted December 04, 2006 11:23 AM
I read in your post that you ex girlfriend was a leo how did that work out for you ? I do not understand the cap i know he won't let me in yet he wants me around I have no idea why he says he loves me yet never expresses himself I can't read his mindthis has gone on for years I leave him alone but he won't let go what do I do to become closer or make him leave me aloneIP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted December 04, 2006 11:36 AM
I have two leo girlfriends with Cap guys and they both have complained to me about the same thing..One Couple have been together for over 15 years and she has just figured out how to deal with him..My other friend has been with her guy for about 8 years..She is still having a hard time but thats mainly bc she is bossy as hell and want to try and make him do things her way.. With these guys just go with the flow, don't try and make them open up before they are ready..Don't try and make them commit just relax they will open up like a flower on a nice spring day..It may take time though.. My first girlfriend has figured it out and she is happy with her cap man..They open up but they have to be comfortable totally.. I have dated a couple cappy guys myself and I have never had a problem with thim BUT I am pisces and we are very compatiable, but it can be done..
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posted December 04, 2006 11:59 AM
You are sooo right my friend is a pisces with a cap male and the relationship seems to flow. I am not forceful to a degree but I know I must be patient but 4 how long I've been ready to get on with life without him he tells me 3 days ago he's never leaving me in all this time over 10 yrs I'm done (I mean well to overdone)stick a fork in me and call it the dayIP: Logged |
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posted December 08, 2006 12:14 AM
Kindjali can I please have your input if its okay?IP: Logged |
kindjali Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted December 08, 2006 02:54 AM
Hi ecerbii,First of all, there are many other things that must taken in notice. I have much fire in me. Sagg AC and Sagg Mars, and my Mars fell in her 7th house. She is Gemini AC and Cancer Moon. It is passion that got as together, best sex ever in my life (definetly transcendenting experience), and through it good communication (Sagg AC - Gemini AC), mental stimulation. I am somehow complicated and hard one for understanding, but she was undesrtanding and gentle to me. She wasnt making and pressure on me, and best of all she could read me more than any other person. Best of all is, that we are still friends and she will be always special to me. P.S.
Don't make pressure on him and be patient...Cappy will react for sure. We don't like status quo. I think Leo woman - Cappy man is excellent combination, they both stimulate each other..only watch for Ego. IP: Logged |
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posted December 08, 2006 08:31 AM
I have not pressured him at all I have always simply chosen to leave by not communicating.H won't speak his mind I can't read his mind so I give up but he's persistant in having me around I love him but I feel it is time to move on and he cannot seem to do that and accept it either. What his reasoning ?IP: Logged |
kindjali Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted December 08, 2006 09:41 AM
You are attractive for him, but he isn't sure should he involve. Be honest and tell him what you want. Then, you will get all answers, simple as it is...K. IP: Logged |
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posted December 08, 2006 10:48 AM
I am really glad to communicate with you. I have tried that he(to Me)seems to believe that I would hurt him and I do not have that intention but he nick picks me apart and it drives me crazy I do not show it does I leave it alone and withdraw to myself.at This point how do I get hom to leave me alone without hurtings his feelings I see we cant remain friends the sex would get in the way and I can be without he stay aroused when we are togetherIP: Logged |