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Topic: Aquarius dude again hehe
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Anita41
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posted December 05, 2006 12:00 PM
 
Hey all!A guy I know has his sun in aquarius square mars in taurus, and his sun also trines pluto.
He does come off as getting angry very quick and make these extreme decisions based on those extreme emotions.
He also has pluto opposition moon in aries.
I dont know his birthtime so it sucks 
But I would really like if someone could share their experiences with me from someone who has those aspects, I would really like to know whats going on here 
I was thinking that maybe his ascendant was aries since he is like this and that, but then I think its probably that sun square mars and his moon in aries.
Also he loves to shock and has a lot of uranian energy,mercury and venus and jupiter in aqua, so with the sun trining pluto, it becomes very strong.
Like, I feel nervous around him or something.
Is that the sun trine pluto?
I feel he loves to manipulate people one way or the other with words that make the other person reveal things without them really knowing that they are reveleaing it, and later think gosh, did i say that?
And like, I myself, feel played with.
Anyone recognise this? Thanks!
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Mama Mia
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posted December 05, 2006 12:12 PM
Hey Anita41...Hmmmm My Aqua friend has Moon in Aries as well and Pluto in Libra so they have similar placements..I do see some of the same things in him as you mentioned and then some things I don't see.. Yes he is into the shocking thing but shock im back and see what happens. My Aqua friend does not get angry fast,though he would try the manipulation thing BUT I am like ugghhh please whatever, I don't fall for that..I know that nervous thing that you are talking about have experienced that but I hide it and stand firm and he is just as nervous when we talk or I see him..In the past I have revealed things that I did not mean to through conversation, but I said skip it not gone lose sleep over it..I am honest and it forces him to be straight up with me..So it is not a bad thing.. It would help to know his Mars sign and Asc.. Also Venus Sign.. IP: Logged |
Anita41
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posted December 05, 2006 12:36 PM
Hey Mama Mia!He has venus in aquarius and mars in taurus. Good thing you are aware of how he affects you and put space between yourself and him.
I was thinking thats what I need to work on.
But the thing is, even though I try to hide my emotions, it is driving me nuts that I feel so extremely drawn into whatever it is we are talking about, with all my emotions.
I also have moon in aries and scorpio mars conjunct ascendant, so its like I will NOT let him "win" or get to me when he is manipulating, and it gets to me all the way into every cell of my body and soul.
It feels so frightening and I can not make it go away at all, its very powerful,
and he is the only person I ever met who has made me feel this way, so I wonder if he has this affect on others as well, or if its only all in me, and that he isnt as "bad"
as I feel he is.
Like, the manipulating thing, its not these small things that I can let go of,
I feel he is literally controlling my emotions and making me say things and make decision based upon what HE says to me.
And all this time, he is only playing with me and sees how I am reacting and know my weaknesses...Like I have lost my own power somehow...
I always get so frustrated, and I dont really know if it is HIM who is trying to be this viscious manipulator or what his intentions really are.
I feel its impossible to really CATCH him, and make him face me with his intentions.
So I just have been thinking alot about this lately and wanted to vent it here to see if anyone have any idea about this manipulating thing.
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Mama Mia
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posted December 05, 2006 12:55 PM
LOL!!! I think it is the way you feel about him that makes you react to him the way you do..Its like your feelings for him are so intense and controlling them is hard especially since you have a feeling of being drawn to him..I know about the being drawn to himthing..And I thought it was just me until I got really observant and realized he was just as drawn to me but hid it..
Watch him closey the thing is he has figured out what makes u tick and u have no power mainly bc you do not know what makes him tick especially since you say he is always doing the shocking..You know what I did I got real aloof and started to act like he did not exsist when I would see him and then I got a reaction out of him..I couldn't stop him from reacting when he saw me..And I don't fall for none of his mess either. I make him come to me straight up or we don't talk.. See with him having Venus in Aqua like me he prolly likes a aloof distanct type of gal, he has figured somethings out..I would flip on him.. Also my Aqua friend has Mars in Taurus as well Very,very stubborn very slow to make moves but when they get going look out.. IP: Logged |
SLAYER
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posted December 05, 2006 01:07 PM
I have moon (taurus)
opposition Pluto (Scorpio).
This creates a lot of tension
in emotions, gives person
indeterminate feelings
whether to explain his/her
feelings or not. But it's also
good in some way that you feel
clearly what others feel,
kind of sixth sense i guess.
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Anita41
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posted December 05, 2006 02:37 PM
Mama Mia, yeah the aloof thing, tell me about it lol
Its painful though because just as we are getting close and personal, it ends,
and I have no idea how long he will be distant and it really is painful
Every time I have felt that aching inside of emotions back and forth,
I have decided to not put up with it anymore
and act aloof and distance myself completely.
Actually to the point where I think I dont want to have anything more to do with him,
and then ofcourse there he is again.
Warm and playful.
So the emotions inside me that surface when relating to that aquarian man is just too much. And it really is him who always controls it too unless you decide to let go 100%, which isnt easy
You are right, I need to find a way to shock him as well hehe. I believe it has happened before, and he hid his emotions and ofcourse didnt talk to me for weeks...
But this thing about manipulating all the time really gets to me.
Is it an aquarian thing or what?SLAYER - Tension how? Does the moon in taurus opposing scorpio pluto makes you very controlling and almost neurotic? (Or is it nevrotic?)
Does it make your emotions go up and down from light to heavy?
I wonder if its my moon in aries opposing pluto in libra that makes me anxious at times..
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Mama Mia
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posted December 05, 2006 02:51 PM
Anita I do think that Aqua men have a thing for manipulation they have control issues too..Thats why they do the manipulation thing..But uhm you are a earth sign right..These guys are a mess and hard to figure out or read for some. I am Pisces so its easy for me to see things and not have him to say much, I just know stuff and it makes him mad bc he cannot fool me..Just be observant of his behavior they are not real hard to figure out once you beome observant.. Stay distant if you need to, to protect yourself and when he starts to sniff around after some time or so still act aloof pull him all the way out..It takes alot I guess but when you get to the point where you do care like I am its easy..The less you care the more they care..So backwards.. IP: Logged |
tengu
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posted December 05, 2006 03:30 PM
He's probably testing you.Show him you don't like being manipulated or ask him directly what he pretends with this kind of behaviour..I don't know, shock him,do something unexpected; don't let him control your feelings.
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Anita41
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posted December 05, 2006 03:33 PM
Mama mia - Im libra sun and mercury. Trining his sun and mercury.
We both have alot of air.
I have neptune in the first house trining moon and venus, so Im gonna use it to figure him out yes lol
Just wish I didnt get this scared, but I will work on it. Have to remember its just an illusion and try to observe him instead like you say.
Thanks for your advices. I appreciate it.
You really understand what Im going though here lolIP: Logged |
Anita41
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posted December 05, 2006 03:45 PM
tengu - Testing me indeed, I know.
I hate it.
But still I dont feel like being straight with him in asking why hes doing this or that, Id rather do something similar back.
It has become kind of like these mind games between us.
I think its kind of "fun" too,
must be my scorpio ascendant wanting to get into deep water Its so difficult to avoid.
Like an addiction and obsession of extreme emotions.. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted December 05, 2006 03:59 PM
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You really understand what Im going though here lol
Yep I went through this about a year ago and it lasted for months,To see him would send me into some kind of zone or something..I was so scared of him bc of the way I felt when I saw him, my knees would buckle I just thought I would lose it..Oh my heart would beat so fast as well..
I am much better now though, things are more calmer anyway.. I had to figure somethings out though and you will too..Goodluck follow your gut and later on you will have a hold on things.. IP: Logged |
CapGirl
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posted December 05, 2006 04:29 PM
Oh boy... does this sound familiar! Not with an Aqua man though, yet that same wondering of "does he have this effect on all women??" and thinking that it cannot just be ME alone... he must have them all swooning. (MamaMia knows my tale-) And I like her answer to those doubts! He's usually a rubbery pile of goo in my presence, or a staring pile of goo; and can usually only manage to pull off his charming, witty act with a little liquid encouragement and/or via phone. 
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Mama Mia
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posted December 05, 2006 04:39 PM
Hee,hee hey capgirl...Thats funny and familiar..
I too thought about if my Aqua friend had this effect on other women, and then it came to me that he may have, BUT I bet no other woman has the effect on him that I have..That is what counts to me..LOL!!! To serve that up is easy for them, but to get served back is where the static comes in..And that is for any man that has that effect on women..
Its funny bc as I type this, this song is on the radio and the guy is saying your love, your love supernatural thing..Supernatural,supernatural...Hee,, IP: Logged | |
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