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jujube
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posted December 08, 2006 12:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Two of my friends have the most amazing composite together. The guy says he really WANTS to like the girl, because she seems perfect for him, but he just does not feel attracted to her. After looking at their composite, I'm wondering if this is because there are not enough "hard" aspects to create attraction... what do you think?

And here is their synastry as well.

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jenfullmoon
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posted December 08, 2006 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jenfullmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have NO explanation for this in the slightest. I don't see how he couldn't adore this chick. There's Venus conjunct Mars conjunct the Sun and a freaking grand trine, for crying out loud!

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AcousticGod
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posted December 08, 2006 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's no Sun/Moon (Soulmate) conjunctions. His Venus isn't conjunct or in the same sign as her Mars or Sun.

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Dulce Luna
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posted December 08, 2006 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or it could just be the issue of chemistry...there is no attraction and astrology can't always explain that.

Trust me, I haven't fancied every guy who's mars sit on my venus. Actually, I take that back: I've never fancied a guy who mars sits on my venus. (And I met a couple of them) This is simply because none of these guys were my type.

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InLoveWithLife
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posted December 08, 2006 02:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
there is a sun trine moon AG

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BlueEyes24
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posted December 08, 2006 02:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was just about to say the same thing....he could just not be physically attracted to her, which sometimes astrology cannot explain. Everyone has different taste.

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Nightjar
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posted December 08, 2006 02:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No personal planets fall into 5th or 7th house. Her Mars and Mercury fall into his 1st house which is ok, but apart from that I don't think they push each other's right buttons.
[I always start by looking at each individual's natal chart, then the first step is to see how the planets are placed in houses in the synastry chart = "the role casting"]
Well, that's what caught my eye.

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william
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posted December 08, 2006 02:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
true very surprising .
i would think that the problem is the chiron opposition to the moon/uranus/saturn stellium.this aspect is a very picky and critical force.i would aske him if he feels she expectto much of him and is trying to change him.but it is said that a chart with not squares or opposition produces weak character.
william

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pseudofemme
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posted December 08, 2006 03:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The composite is extremely unbalanced in terms of the elements. Seven of the planets (plus the ascendant) are in fire signs, and all planets but two are in houses ruled by a fire sign (1, 5, 9). There is very little air, earth, or water in this chart, which I imagine would leave both the guy and girl feeling like something is "missing" when they are together.

In my experience, composites with a ton of easy aspects and very few hard ones are not very desireable, even though it seems like they would be. There needs to be a balance of aspects so that the relationship stays interesting and both people are different enough so that they can learn from each other. With a composite like this one, the relationship would be so "easy" that there would be almost no reason for the guy and girl to grow as individuals from their interactions with each other. Squares and oppositions, as long as they're not horribly difficult ones, add a lot of flavor to a relationship.

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wilsontc
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posted December 09, 2006 12:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
jujube,

Picking up on william's point, there is a Kite to Chiron (where you are wounded and need to be healed) focused in the 11th house. This may cause a focus on being "just friends"...and it may indicate that there is some type of "pain" when they get together as friends.

Chironically,

Tim

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Atlenta
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posted December 09, 2006 02:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
maybe numerology might have something to do with it - 3 and 7 are pretty much hot and cold.

also, they're very young. Maybe one day they would inevitably realise that they like each other that way. That might be how friends become lovers.

the opposition to chiron might explain it, but I have chiron quincunx saturn & pluto (in composite) with my friend and the attraction is there.

edit add: I know of 2 people with the same birthdates as those you have above, albeit in different years, and they're just friends (that eventually lost contact).

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jujube
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posted December 09, 2006 04:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now I'm thinking maybe this guy just has a good composite with everyone for some reason! I tried his birthday with another one of his friends, and it came out really well too... stellium in the 5th house, venus conjunct descendant in the 7th house.

With the girl above, he said he just does not feel an emotional connection with her at all, or physical attraction.

Here is the composite with another one of his female friends.

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comica23
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posted December 09, 2006 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess you can look at their natal charts to see what they are looking for in a relationship.. For example, a person might not like a very exciting partner coz he/she might want someone to give him/her security.. or this person might prefer someone more active rather than a dull and bored secure type lol.. ^_^
But still, astrology just gives us insights of the potentials in relationships.. our hearts are the ones that tells us what we truly desire.

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