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Topic: Very sad today
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posted December 11, 2006 10:02 PM
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posted December 11, 2006 10:03 PM
Awwww...sending you some love IP: Logged |
Maire31 Newflake Posts: 10 From: here there and everywhere Registered: May 2009
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posted December 11, 2006 10:15 PM
Oh I'm so sorry for your pain and your loss. Cancer Moon here too.Wish there was something to say to make it go away. I do belive that sitting with/feeling pain keeps it from lingering longer than necessary. Wishing you strength of spirit IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 11, 2006 10:19 PM
That's one of the worst romantic pains there is, Nat -- when you love them as a man but they "love you as a friend"..... Zala IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009
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posted December 11, 2006 11:17 PM
I am a pisces, possibly in love with another pisces. Possibly half in love with a cancer too. I hate being pisces right now. I feel for you Nat, I'm not going to tell you to cheer up, just wallow for a while- but not for too long. Watch the notebook, it works for me. Makes me cry but gives me hope. IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2006 12:02 AM
Oh i definately feel for you. Scorpio moon here. My Cancer moon close friend just lost his fiancee to another guy and we have been talking about it. Its quite terrible. I wish you all the best. I know it sounds like crap but try to stay positive, if you tell yourself to feel better eventually you will. *hugs* Sending lots of love to you! IP: Logged |
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posted December 12, 2006 12:49 AM
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posted December 12, 2006 01:50 AM
good to come here and get it out natasha!IP: Logged |
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posted December 12, 2006 01:50 AM
dpbut since i'm here. i wanna send you love, warmth & healing tonight. IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2006 03:15 AM
Ugh pisces always want to be friends..ugh screw that.Sorry you're feeling blue N IP: Logged |
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posted December 12, 2006 03:39 AM
Four of the worst words one can hear "let's just be friends"Sorry for what you are going through..... Hope you find a "lover" soon IP: Logged |
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posted December 12, 2006 03:44 AM
sorry to hear that Nat. i was a bit down today too. Maybe it was a taurus thing.hope you get into better spirits soon. IP: Logged |
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posted December 12, 2006 03:59 AM
Hi friends, The more I study Pisces and Neptune, the more it becomes clear that a temporary personality overhaul is needed for Pisceans and strong Neptunians. Pisces represents a) Collective Unconscious b) Social Survival c) DissolutionThe personality is prodded to feel guilty for no fault and to merge with the masses for a greater good, to accept suffering, to downgrade oneself and to throw darts with pinpoint accuracy at oneself in the game of life. Self pity, excess sympathy and other traits work overtime to absorb sob stories and negative vibes from other auras like a dehydrated sponge. Try a Fire Sign transformation to break the cycle of sadness. Fry the Fish in your sign with some Leonine heat or sell it as sushi, Aries entrepreneur style. Get sel"fish". Tell the truth like a Sag. If you do not emotionally love the Self, nobody will love you. It never hurts to be selfish once in a while, especially when you as a Piscean have already given so much of yourselves away.
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posted December 12, 2006 07:01 AM
I am sorry Natasha... Just always remember that things happen for a reason. There maybe someone out there waiting for you to discover.Lights and plenty of Love, MM IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted December 12, 2006 10:00 AM
You are strong girl and I have seen you over come some others and you will over come this..It gets greater later.. IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted December 12, 2006 10:28 AM
NatashaI just went through that myself--- It has been a long tough journey to let him go as he is as he will be for who he is (hmmm interesting, was a Bull I let go of and I am a Pisces!) But what relief I finally feel to let him go and love him unconditionally for the man who he is with all of his flaws--that is not to say I will ever go there again with him, but I had to be the bigger person and just let go....Once and for all. Sending Peace and Love Terri IP: Logged |
Taurus80 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2006 10:37 AM
((((((((((Natasha)))))))))))sorry you are going through this.. IP: Logged |
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posted December 12, 2006 12:56 PM
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posted December 12, 2006 07:57 PM
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posted December 12, 2006 08:18 PM
(((Natasha)))It's so hard to deal with heartbreak during the Holidays. Are you close to your family? Seems like a good situation to visit your grandmother or may be an aunt, someone who loves you unconditionally and will never stop loving you no matter what. ... and from now on every day will be a tiny little bit better. Like a step away from painful situation and forward something great that life has in store for you. Beleive me, it does IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 27 From: neverland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2006 08:20 PM
hi natasha- i have been reading your posts. i am sorry u are going through what you are going through.sometimes going out to make love for the sake of making love can only make things worse. what you have to do is to start feeling good about yourself no matter what this other person has chosen to do. i know its hard, but if you can do that, it won't matter to you what he's doing because of how u feel about yourself. i hope this isn't lame.IP: Logged |
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posted December 12, 2006 08:36 PM
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posted December 12, 2006 08:38 PM
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lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 27 From: neverland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2006 09:27 PM
i hope all will be ok.
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CrankyCap Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: May 2009
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posted December 12, 2006 10:00 PM
NATASHA - I feel your pain...I really, really, do. If you have a chance, check the post I put up to Swerve, Scorpluv, & Zala in Soul Unions...it will give you a little bit of insight into what I went through with a Taurus several years ago. I had to live with him while he carried on a relationship with another woman. I was a bit of the opposite in that I lost a ridiculous amount of weight during the whole ordeal - people thought I had become anorexic. Every time she called he'd get a low, sexy tone in his voice and leave the room. I'd often run to the bathroom to get sick. He finally chose me after 8 long months of hell, but then a year later I got an email from ANOTHER woman that he was sleeping with. As deep as my anger was, I still loved the guy for such a long time. I know you're thinking about the "temporary bandaid" of another man's arms, and that's EXACTLY what I did, I have to caution you against it - at least for a little while. The first time I had sex in my attempt at vengeance against the Taurus was terrible. I turned my head and cried through the entire thing. Then I jumped into the first of three terrible relationships. None of the men were right for me, but I just felt I needed SOMETHING to cover the hurt. It didn't work, and may have actually made things worse. They say you should take the same amount of time getting over someone, that you spent with them. That seems to have been true in my instance. I would wait for a while and resist using the band aid method. Let yourself heal for a while, and then just casually date. Try and have fun. Your story sounds so similar to what I went through. I can relate to not having many girlfriends, I can relate to having to have it rubbed in your face every day...believe me I understand, and it really IS the worst feeling in the world. I remember thinking MANY times that you're better off either not loving anyone at all, or just USING men that you don't love. I STILL battle with those feelings after the scars that the Taurus left...it's a constant battle for me to trust the Pisces I'm with now. Try and be true to yourself. He's a horse's a*s for not being able to see what he had. His karma will come...as will her's for using "fake" sympathy. I know hearing these words right now won't do a damn bit of good for you, but deep in your heart you know that time heals. It's the ONLY thing that heals. Give that to yourself. You owe it to yourself to take the time to heal, and that's all you have to do right now. Best of luck, and God Bless! IP: Logged |