posted December 18, 2006 07:00 PM              

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All these Venus/Pluto threads lately, I just have to ask..
These threads get a lot of female attention and no male attention. I have never seen a guy on here describe his experience having been the Pluto.. in a Pluto/Venus aspect.

Is this because they've never had this in synastry? or they didn't know they did? or they forgot all about the experience? or they're too scared to actually come out and say something that will make them look like jerks?
I have no idea, just find it strange.

So I'd like to hear an actual man's opinion on Venus/Pluto or Moon/Pluto.. where HE was the *Pluto*.. and it was *not* a double whammy (in synastry)

Are there absolutely any guys on here who were the Pluto? lol (are you all hiding?)

Thank You!

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posted December 18, 2006 07:43 PM            

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Hmmm... I look at synastry initially, but I'm only a little interested. It's that whole idea that you shouldn't let the chart affect or color your relationship, so I can't even say offhand that I know of my Pluto in relation to my girlfriend's.

I'll try doing this from memory, and then check my work. If I remember right, my girlfriend's Venus is in Aquarius (I think I remember a sextile between mine and hers, and mine is in Sag). My Pluto is conjunct my Virgo Moon, but across the Libra border in an early degree. Now I'll check....

Yup, it looks harmonious, so I guess I wouldn't be a candidate to speak of a being a bad Pluto in aspect to someone.

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posted December 19, 2006 09:26 AM              

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~ Lauren ~

re: ** pluto ~ venus query **

well at least twice .. being pluto in that connection .. aspects were a trine and a sextile ..
i'm not privy to all prev gf's astro data .. and .. really don't know what i could say just about that particular aspect .. 'cause .1. .. chartwise i'm fairly plutonic in any case .. .2. it's just one aspect out of many and as far as i know .. is it not the person with the 'personal' planet who feels the 'effect' from an a 'connection' like that? .. i.e. the 'venus' person ? .. if that were to be the case .. then i guess the question might be better answered by the 'venus' person .. i.e. " .. what was the b*****d realy like ? " ..
ok .. what i did Not do .. .. I dinna walk about proclaiming with intensity .. " I am Pluto .. Ye must obey me" .. :-)))
the most i could say about it for now .. is that both those relationships were 'deep' .. never did have any big emotional (or any other type of) 'fights' with either .. but on the other hand that's just my perspective .. aries moon person may have perceived things differently :-)) ..
.. it's one aspect ( and sign~house ) amongst many .. sort of difficult to veiw it all thru one aspect .. synastry or natal ..
.. would have thought pluto in libra would have the 'stories' to tell :-)) .. i.e. libra being about relationships ..
.. i've got venus and moon in aspect to pluto nataly .. so hard to separate it .. view it in a specific way (synastry wise) .. cause it's part of me in any case ..
.. sorry .. hope you get some more informative replies .. .. from the guys ..

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posted December 23, 2006 07:12 AM              

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Thanks for that!

You both have nice aspects (sextile/trine) so that should be sweet. I've never experienced the nice ones as far as I know.

HD, I'm not sure about that because I was Venus and felt it (in an opp), and I was Pluto and felt it (in a conj); though it was different being Pluto.. I wouldn't normally think you could separate an aspect from the rest but when I looked at the synastry for these guys and myself, it was very late into the 'relationship'.. so I looked at it in hindsight and the Venus/Pluto was almost like a theme in both. Thank you for your reply though lol good to know you don't do the 'i am Pluto obey me'

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posted December 24, 2006 03:30 PM              

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Hi Lauren
My Pluto is at 4°21'00 Scorpio. I can remember some relationships, but orbs were always pretty big, 2-3 degrees at least. So basically i felt absolutely nothing. In my opinion the orb should be less than 1 deg. to feel it.
In general, i think Pluto isn't sooooo important in synastry.

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posted December 24, 2006 04:59 PM              

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[QUOTE]In general, i think Pluto isn't sooooo important in synastry.
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Wow. I think you need to study astrology a little better.

It's like saying Mercury the planet of communication isn't important.

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