posted December 21, 2006 04:22 PM              

Feb 23 1982
9 53 pm
bay shore ny
Male

posted December 22, 2006 07:43 PM              

Since more of your planets are on the left (self) side of the chart you tend to focus on yourself. Since more of your planets are on the top left of your chart, you want to do things yourself in the outer world.

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Following up on what was written below, you have Libra (relationships) modifying Pluto (transformation, also control) conjunct (energy is combined with) your Ascendant (self). This indicates that you may tend to control your relationships. The challenge is to SHARE control in your relationships. Since you have a T-square between the nodes focusing on Pluto, sharing control will also help you move toward your Cancer (home, also nurturing) modifying North node (future goals). So sharing control in relationships will make you a more nurturing person overall.

Self-correcting,

Tim

posted December 22, 2006 09:12 PM              

I’m not a professional but I’ll give it a shot. You don’t have an easy chart, especially romantically. The things to look for when it comes to relationships are Venus/Mars, anything you have in Libra/7th house.. and your Sun/Moon.

Your Sun/Moon conjunction in Pisces is a good thing in relationships as it means that your ego and your emotions are on the same wavelength so you have an idea of what you are looking for in a relationship, on this basic level. It also means that your parents are probably pretty similar people. So judging by the air and water in your chart and this conjunction I’d say you’re looking for a girl who is sensitive and understanding but also practical when need be and someone who is sociable/friendly but most of all intelligent.
Now for the downside, this conjunction is square Uranus and that is one insane planet. If anything can cause things to go completely haywire it’s Uranus. I’m guessing your early environment, though loving was somewhat sporadic, with many sudden changes. Or maybe you just see your parents as very changeable people. Because of this you’re not one to get bogged down in a relationship for long, last you feel it is becoming routine or your partner is getting clingy. Routine makes you uncomfortable on an emotional level. You need a lot of changes, preferably sudden changes to feel right at home with someone. You may also be attracted to girls who are a little (or a lot) different in some way, maybe foreigners or someone you met in a strange way. Either way the more strange, distant, changeable and unavailable she is the more you’d be attracted.

The second thing to look at is your Venus/Mars, and it’s not pretty (I’m sorry if anything I say here sounds overly negative but you have some harsh aspects and I’m not sure how else to interpret.) Your Venus (Cap) is a singleton in earth (your only earth sign). It is conjunct South Node (which means relationships tend to drag you backwards rather than forwards) and to top it off it’s square your Mars/Saturn/Pluto/Asc conjunction in Libra. Now this conjunction is a hard one on it’s own, but being square to that Venus, it makes it a bit worse.
This means that both Pluto and Saturn figure greatly in your love life. Pluto has to do with obsessions and Saturn has to do with restrictions. They are both extremely hard-headed controlling and restrictive planets. There was something in your relationship with your father and all authority figures (Saturn) that made you feel very inhibited, and it plays out on a sexual level at times. Your personal confidence was undermined in some way through too much criticism. Your love life is also very affected by this criticism. You have a strong desire to be perfect and major fears that nothing you ever do will live up to it. It’s very hard to have both Saturn and Pluto there, affecting you so personally on your Asc and Mars. The pressure you put yourself under gets results. From the outside people would see someone who is a force to be reckoned with.. but it just makes it very hard for you to be you. They are all retrograde indicating past life issues with misuse of power. Any action taken is difficult for you and it requires much planning and forethought. This includes actions in romance. You wouldn’t be the guy to just approach a girl on the spur of the moment. Everything takes time. You’re also not quite sure what you want sexually. You definitely want someone you can control who makes you feel in charge in that way, but somehow problems always crop up. You are not very happy with yourself on a sexual level and due to this you’re also not very happy with anyone else you bring into your life and may become very critical/possessive if your requirements of the relationship (and you might have very set requirements) aren’t met.

In this life it seems like you’ll have to learn the value of compromise and blind affection (with no restrictions imposed). Your North Node is in Cancer which signifies the direction you should head in. Cancer is the sign of the Moon (the mother) so it symbolises that unconditional motherly affection. You feel much more comfortable giving conditional, fatherly (Capricorn) affection.. Nothing is really just freely given on an emotional level. You feel you have to work hard for everything and so you believe so should everyone else (including your romantic interests). Love is given when you believe it is deserved and taken away when you believe it’s undeserved. You may do this with sex as well. If this is what’s happening try to be a bit less domineering in that way, because it’s sure to ruin relationships.
You’re still a double Pisces and you still give a damn about people, don’t get me wrong.. but there’s this underlying want and need to control especially in relationships that your Piscean-ess probably doesn’t quench.