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Sweet Stars
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posted December 25, 2006 11:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is there something unstable in his transits that I should watch out for?

I want to move with him but I don't want him to change his mind. He has been asking me for a while though and bought it up again yesterday.


His birthdate is:

November 20, 1980
12:00pm
Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

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william
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posted December 26, 2006 01:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
post you dob so i can do a composite
william

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Sweet Stars
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posted December 26, 2006 02:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok my dob is:

June 19, 1982
7:49 am
New York, NY

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BlueEyes24
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posted December 26, 2006 03:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know this doesn't have to do with your question SweetStars, but I'm really liking the looks of your synastry together! It looks really sweet....lots of Jupiter & Venus contacts. You must be very happy with him.

"I want to move with him but I don't want him to change his mind. He has been asking me for a while though and bought it up again yesterday."

^And your situation is exactly like mine. I wish I had advice for you, but I'm in the same problem myself. Except I'm not scared of him changing his mind, I'm just scared all together.

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Sweet Stars
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posted December 26, 2006 04:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You must be very happy with him.


Yes. He makes me so happy up to the point where I want to cry sometimes out of happiness.

Never felt this before.

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Sweet Stars
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posted December 26, 2006 04:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know I'm so nervous so I can understand how you feel.


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william
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posted December 26, 2006 10:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi sweets,
venus.jupiter midpoint conjunct the sun shows the affection abd sexual attractionin this composite.the mars/venus midpoint and the sun/jupiter midpoint are also conjunct furthuring the spontaneous affection and sexual attraction.i assume you got together around the middle of june.on the downside there is a Tsquare with chiron opposed to the mars/uranus midpoint square to mercury.juno is also conjunct uranus.this is a pattern of big differences of opinion and flat out arguements.with juno,some of these arguements could be about living together.also venus is square the jupiter/uranus midpoint.this is a indication of a unstable relationship.this does not bode well for living together any length of time.you probably had problems in late oct and into november.with mercury sextile to pluto and trine to neptune ,it seems that you 2 can usually work out your problems.there is something i just don't get in this composite .the saturn/pluto midpoint is conjunct jupiter.this is a very powerful aspect.it seems that there is something else about this relationship besides you and him.
he is a very persuasive person.his pyschic energies are quite strong.you both have very strong aspects of independence.i just don't feel this relationship is about you,it seems
that there is something else involved bigger than this relationship.
william

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jactare
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posted December 26, 2006 10:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd do it...but only if you want to as bad as he wants you to... This may be his way of determining if you are suitable to stay in his home permanently.? If you do, be ready for trial by fire.

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Sweet Stars
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posted December 26, 2006 10:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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hi sweets,
venus.jupiter midpoint conjunct the sun shows the affection abd sexual attractionin this composite.the mars/venus midpoint and the sun/jupiter midpoint are also conjunct furthuring the spontaneous affection and sexual attraction.i assume you got together around the middle of june.on the downside there is a Tsquare with chiron opposed to the mars/uranus midpoint square to mercury.juno is also conjunct uranus.this is a pattern of big differences of opinion and flat out arguements.with juno,some of these arguements could be about living together.also venus is square the jupiter/uranus midpoint.this is a indication of a unstable relationship.this does not bode well for living together any length of time.you probably had problems in late oct and into november.with mercury sextile to pluto and trine to neptune ,it seems that you 2 can usually work out your problems.there is something i just don't get in this composite .the saturn/pluto midpoint is conjunct jupiter.this is a very powerful aspect.it seems that there is something else about this relationship besides you and him.
he is a very persuasive person.his pyschic energies are quite strong.you both have very strong aspects of independence.i just don't feel this relationship is about you,it seems
that there is something else involved bigger than this relationship.
william


He's not really independant and neither am I. He's very clingy and so am I.

Yes he senses my moods and I sense his. When I think about him he calls me. We never fight.


He demands my prescence on a daily basis and I him but not in a forceful way.

He is very intense and so am I.


We met before June.


quote:
i just don't feel this relationship is about you,it seems
that there is something else involved bigger than this relationship.


What do you mean? Well he does have a son.

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Sweet Stars
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posted December 26, 2006 10:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'd do it...but only if you want to as bad as he wants you to... This may be his way of determining if you are suitable to stay in his home permanently.? If you do, be ready for trial by fire.


I decided yes.

Maybe in 2 months not now.

I don't care if it doesn't last. I want to enjoy my time with him.

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Sweet Stars
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posted December 26, 2006 10:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought conjunctions were good aspects?


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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted December 26, 2006 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with you Sweet Stars thats one thing i wish to learn is how to enjoy my time without worrying too far into the future. I agree with you go for it.

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Dulce Luna
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posted December 27, 2006 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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He demands my prescence on a daily basis and I him but not in a forceful way.


I can certainly relate to this bit. My bf's ascorpio but with a pisces moon. I was a bit taken back at first when he said he wanted to see me every other day if we were to be together (of course I heard this from a mutual friend). Me, I'm fine with seeing someone like twice a week plus the weekends...which scares my friends.(They thought I had ice running through my veins, not true) But I don't mind now, I guess his sun and moon forming a grand trine with my sun really does make a difference.

He too wants to live with me except he knows my mother's strict and would never allow it....unless we were married.(Portugues....sheesh!)

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