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Topic: Mars/Mars aspects??
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libraschoice7
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From: the city so nice they named it twice!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2006 09:45 PM
  
Ok I know that most of what has been said about Mars/Mars contacts in synastry has not been very pleasant(most of it anyway)even considered a violent contact in synastry. But why is it that I always find myself very sexually attracted to men I have Mars/Mars with(whether it be a square, conjunction, opposition, or trine)in synastry? Can someone explain why this is, because I am alittle disturbed by it? ------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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Gemini Nymph
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posted December 30, 2006 11:43 PM
I would need to see your chart to get a better idea why you are especially attracted to Mars-Mars cross aspects.As for troublesome Mars aspects, hard Mars-Mars aspects often aren't as bad as hard Sun-Mars, Saturn-Mars or Pluto-Mars aspects. But as far as Mars-Mars aspects go, I'd as squares are the hardest and most likely to erupt into serious aggression or ego conflict. This is especially true if the Mars are in fixed signs. Mars-Mars opposition tend to generate a sort of "stand off" tension where the partners each dig in their heels and won't back down. Trines are the easiest on relationships - they signify ego compatibilty and complimentary energy levels. Sextiles are the softest, of course, with the stornger Mars having some edge over the softer Mars (i.e., like is an Aries mars with Gemini Mars, and the Aries Mars would take the lead in the realtionship). Conjunctions can be harmonious or hard, depending on the sign, house and other apsects. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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From: the city so nice they named it twice!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 31, 2006 12:27 PM
Heres my chart...
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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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Salisa
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posted December 31, 2006 01:48 PM
mars in cancer is basicly a passive aggressiveness position....so I don't see it being violent or even negative in synastry as mars conjunct mars at least by itself.IP: Logged |
Atlenta
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posted December 31, 2006 02:41 PM
I think it could be because Mars is in your first house, so you do project strong Mars energy. Also, having Sun/Pluto in the 4th (Cancer energy, same as Mars in Cancer) in aspect to Mars further emphasizes its importance.
In addition, being the sign of the scales (Libra), you look for an equal, i.e: someone with strong martian energy, which preferably connects to yours.IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted December 31, 2006 03:00 PM
Yes, Mars in 1H is probably a good deal why you are so attracted to Martian contacts.But also, you have Pluto square your ASC. Remember that Pluto's very mars-like in many ways. With Pluto conjunct NN, this is only intensified. There's an intense Plutonian air about that probably attracts certain types to you as well as your 1H Mars. Due to your Plutonian aspects, there is the potential Martian types may act aggressively and even violently toward you. You may seem to egg them on, pushing and pushing them until they explode. With your Cancerian energies, you are likely to do this passive-aggresively. Because Pluto squares you 12H moon too, this may not be an easy thing about yourself to understand. You may find yourself being compelled to agggrevate or escalate tensions in relationship from a seemingly unseen force or vague motivation, almost like something possesses you. You need to be careful about getting into power struggles and ego conflict when you have strong Mars or Pluto contacts with another person. Your 11th house in "intercepted" which means it's entirely within one sign. This can make contacts within that house "trapped" and hard to manifest or feel. Plus it's in Aqua, which is already detached adn not at ease with the 8H. But don't think this means you have a weak 8H. You have Aqua ruling the 8H, with Uranus in Scorpio - so there's a odd Aqua/Uranus-Scorpio/Pluto interchange there. Plus you have strong Pluto aspects. I suspect all this may indicate that you can a very powerful sexual self but it's a part of you that is very difficult for you to get into contact with and understand. I also suspect you have hidden fears about your sexual power, and unfortunately, to more you deny or try to unconsciously repress those energies, to more rebellious and destructive they will be in your life. If you do not learn to confront and work with these energies, you can indeed be your own worst enemy, and attract harmful people to you, as is common ofr Plutonians who have not yet come to terms with their own personal power. However, once you've confrotned this side of yourself, you'll find it easier to gain elf-possession and have better control over the types of people you attract. You need to seek out a healthy way to tap into and explore that side of yourself, the side represented by Pluto and the 8H. Because of the influence of Aqua/Uranus, you'll likely need to approach this first intellectually, and then work you way into deeper, less rational spheres from there. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 174
From: the city so nice they named it twice!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 31, 2006 03:24 PM
GN, you are right about the aggressive behavior, but I get that more so from the same sex with Martian energy, with the men though it's more of a 'sexual' aggression...I've really frustrated a couple of Aries men I tried dating in the past. They practically wanted to jump me the second they met me(Libras can't be rushed). I know I can't throw caution to the wind, in intimate situations.
Your interpetation was almost on the dot, how long have you studied astrology? Thank you 
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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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