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shirty
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posted January 03, 2007 01:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone,

I'm wondering what placements or aspects, in your experience, indicate the obsession with comparing yourself to others. More specifically, if the person with this placement has a friend who's excited about a new relationship, the person in question feels the need to get excited about one as well.... and talk about it constantly.

I'm assuming this behaviour is brought on by a feeling of inadequacy. My friend drives me nuts because when I try to talk to her about relationship issues, she talks about how much she wants to talk to so and so.. and she just met them, etc. She aggrandizes her flings if I am talking about relationships.

Hope that makes sense.. any insight would be great.

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Gemini Nymph
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posted January 03, 2007 01:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm. I have a similiar problem with my mom. Her moon is in Virgo, almost conjunct my 1H Pluto, squaring my Sun and Merc and 10H, and opposing my Moon and 7H. She often acts like she has to compete with me. It drives me crazy.

Don't know if that's like what you have witht his person, though.

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Lauren
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posted January 03, 2007 05:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I knew a Leo/Cancer Moon like this with her Moon opposite Neptune. She made up a lot of things to get attention, and when someone else had a genuine problem, she thought their problem must've also been made up, because in her logic if she didn't have real problems, noone else could either.

It sounds like Moon opp Neptune. Not sure what else could show this in her chart.

:edit: This is the rest of her chart:

Sun 03' 41' Leo
Moon 04' 03' Cancer
Mercury 00' 17' Virgo
Venus 14' 52' Leo
Mars 19' 37' Scorpio
Jupiter 04' 54' Capricorn
Saturn 09' 50' Scorpio
Uranus 09' 43' Sagittarius
Neptune 29' 09' Sagittarius
Pluto 29' 17' Libra

She actually has a Neptune/Jupiter conjunction so her Moon is opposite both.

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shirty
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posted January 04, 2007 01:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's her ascendant?

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