posted January 06, 2007 03:39 AM              

one more thing i am curious about.....Do you feel that with this sign placement that you are a one woman type of guy? The reason i ask is that i know for a fact that he has gone out with a lot of women and he has been the one (except for one occasion) to unceremoniously dump each of them and move on.

posted January 06, 2007 09:45 AM              

as for the question (though i dont have the same placements , i am a taurus mooner with aries asc and leo venus with merc in cancer)

i feel its very difficult to say , if a man is a single woman type . i dont think man are made that way . man , by nature are polygamous .but its the ego and self image that stops them in their search for greener pastures and luckily cancer men are pretty egostic people (i am !)
other than that , what stops them is thier sense of attachment to people (thats the positive side of being clingy - again i am one! )
so even if they (infact they want . crabs are big flirts but they dont normally get caught cos they normally maintian class ,that means not everone is invited ) thier ego and sense of attachment doesn't let them do that .
so there is always a less possibility of them ditching the people . logic...huh!

but your man's moon and venus make things a bit .............

my experience says , they actually are more compatible with cancerand scorp women , interms of intensity of emotions .

it would be better , if you can pin point what you dont like about him ?

:::dont know abt cancer guys..
I want a Cancer woman in my life tho
:::

can i know why , Astudent?

posted January 06, 2007 10:09 AM              

thanks for the input, its appreciated.....your reply raises a few questions........

What do you mean by "soul Union"? I do not understand it though I will google later...

I think there is probably lots of cancer threads because, in my opinion, the cancer isn't like a typical guy. I have dated different signs, other than cancer and have never been complelled to want to search threads and message boards and try to see how this guy ticks, its different and i just need to understand it because i don't want to get hurt. being pisces i can be really emotional even though he may never know it.

So in your opinion, the EGO and the IMAGE go hand in hand when a cancer guy has an opportunity to cheat? This is something that is really important that they will consider? This is very interesting because i wouldn'think it would be a thought in a mans head if they have a girlfriend, but i do see where this thought process would come to play if they were married to the person. (he is a little shy by the way, if that means anything with his interactions with women, I have never seen him flirt, but you, as a fellow crab< say you can be sneaky fellows in the department) I do notice that if we are out to dinner or something that he blatantly stares at attractive women. I understand that this is normal, but it very obvious.

This comment below.....

but your man's moon and venus make things a bit .............

Can you be more specific about that? I am so new to this astrology stuff that i apologize if i ask for more detail but i do want to understand. why would a scorp be a better catch for him?

You suggested i ask what is bad about him. Well, the fact that he is vague when i try to get direct answers especially about where we stand.(this is 7 months now & we just started being intimate a month ago) I asked him what he considers me and he says Very Good Freinds...it freaked me out. I don't make love to my freinds.sorry...

but when we are together we enjoy each others company and are really huggy-kissy types, then *poof* we say good bye and i might not hear from him in a few days. perhaps a brief email about a sentence or two if i am lucky. It seems weird and inconsistant at times. It goes from deep and passionate togetherness to Oh hello there my mere aquaintence.....also, this isn't a major point, but he has never once paid for any dinners or lunch even though he asked me out a lot...

posted January 06, 2007 10:18 AM              

I am incapable of seeing more than one woman at the same time. Just not built that way.

Also incapable of cheating, It's an all or nothing mentality within a relationship for me.

As for hobbies they are limited due to being a single dad and working the hours I do, but these are what I do in my down time.

Sailing
Reading
Running

posted January 06, 2007 10:32 AM              

I like your response! Music to my ears because i play the same way. one on one and it is just too difficult to have too many emotions for other people at the same time.

The hobbies you have are the same except for sailing. Ironically, i was talking to him about purchasing a boat just yesterday and asked if he would like to ride one. he said he would love to that he just never had an opportunity with his schooling and work.

He is a very hard worker and focused on building a nest egg for the future to retire early. He seems tight with his cash but if this is his objective then it is understandable.

Thank you for your input! I know astrology is not set in stone, however, one cannot deny some of these specific traits and behaviors each sign has that tells them apart. The fact that you have a simular sign placement is so interesting.

posted January 06, 2007 12:57 PM            

SUN- Cancer
MOON- Libra
ASC- Virgo
MC- Gemini
MERCURY- Cancer
VENUS- Gemini
MARS- Aries
JUPITER- Taurus
SATURN- Sagittarius
URANUS- Sagittarius
NEPTUNE- Capricorn
PLUTO- Scorpio

Well despite everything I have said in this forum I think us Cancer men are the best possible choice for women seeking long term loving, devoted, romantic, comforting, and overall best relationships of their lives... and lets face it.. what woman isnt? besides the promiscuous?

posted January 06, 2007 03:45 PM              

I have dated many different signs, never a crab but in this case its different. I never took the time like i am now wanting to learn about him and being on boards like this etc...

posted January 06, 2007 04:01 PM              

My problem is getting rid of them.

I have Juno and Pysche in Cancer, plus Cancer rules my 11h. My moon's in Pisces. They just seem to feel so at home with me, and yeah, at first, that is very sweet and very adorable. But when they're talking about getting married and making babies on the second date, I start getting a little weirded out.

posted January 06, 2007 05:21 PM              

we see each other one to two times a week for dinner or lunch for 7 months now since our schedules are crazy.

he hasn't really bought me anything, not even dessert at dinner

he is pretty passionate when we are together, we both have roommates at the moment so we can't really be that intimate and have that kind of private time.

i have told him that he is the type that i could fall for if i am not careful and i may even be able to love and he doesn't respond to that

he still continues to see me though he is very vague telling me about how he feels.

I am getting mixed responses, some say that i am lucky to make it this far now your you got me thinking that maybe, since he hasn't fallen head over heels and asked me to marry him yet that perhaps i may be a concubine, i was thinking that he seems to like hanging out with me in general because he thinks i am funny.

posted January 06, 2007 05:35 PM              

A sampling:

One Cancer guy I know, he's single, has been all his life, and is his 60's. He calls his mom every day and talks to her for at least an hour. They talk about their cats, what chores they did/going to do gardening. Sweet, but a little weird in my book.

My Cancer-Aqua friend has a strained relationship with his mom. He can't be around her for very long or she triggers his bipolar disoder and he gets all manicky. The more he stays away from her the better.

My Cancer-Cancer ex-finacee had astrong, secret complusion for wearing his mom's panties, bras and hosery whenever he was strressed, anxious or scared - something I didn't find out about him until AFTER I break off our engagement. It certainly explained why I once found a pile of women's clothing catalogues in his bedroom (he told me he was picking out lingerie for me). He was extremely emotionally dependant on his mother, and she contrtol him in a very passive-aggressive "Oh, you don't love me!" way. His mother was deeply threaten by me.

Anyhow that gives you some idea.

posted January 06, 2007 05:54 PM              

as far as this man i have been serious about, I know he totally hates his mom, i have read somewhere that the way they treat their mom is the way they treat you. anybody out there with some insight on this, pa-leez step forward!

posted January 07, 2007 06:17 AM              

soul union is a part of this forum , where people can talk of thier realtions not bounded in the astrological limits .
just as the platform that we are using now is astrology .

caoming back ot your questions, what other signs have you dated ? what is the main diff that you feel among them and him ?

:::This is very interesting because i wouldn'think it would be a thought in a mans head if they have a girlfriend, but i do see where this thought process would come to play if they were married to the person. :::

i think the cancer men would consider it even in the case of a simple gf!

shyness doesn't prevent them to uise thier flirting skills , see the way he interacts with woman that he is comfortable with .

i dont interact with with each and everyone but deep down i know i like talking to women .

:::but your man's moon and venus make things a bit .............

:::
oh, i meant he might be a bit diff from the typical cancers bcos of his sag and gem influence .
bcos sag and gem are known to be commitment phobic .
as for his being shy , i have seen quiete a few shy sags and gems , so nothing new, actually !

scorps and cancer betteroff ,there are a lot of reasons for it , including positive as well negatives one !
for instance , we needed undivided attention which sometimes the pisces doesn't understand bcos for them everyone is same , they wwill treat everyone with same importance , this might annoy an attention seeking cancerian. logic again..huh!

again, i think cancers and scorps are more violent than pisceans . ain't they ?

very frankly ,i have apprehensionsregading his vagueness ! let me think of it , though !

and plz dont be shy of asking questions, ok !
anything for a piscean! (they are the loveliest people around)

::::but he has never once paid for any dinners or lunch even though he asked me out a lot...
::::

posted January 07, 2007 10:04 AM            

Yes the emotional attachemnt is a bit much for me, too....

Sinderlou: I would take it as a red flag if a Cancer guy does not like his mom. From what I have seen, the Cancer male can project issues with mom onto the women in their lives---I have often thought that my psycho Cancer ex HATES women and I know it has something to do with something he saw his mom do as a very little boy.