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Topic: Juno conjunct Mars = Abusive partner?
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Gemini Nymph
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posted January 11, 2007 04:09 PM
 
Has anyone read anything about having Juno cj Mars natally being indicative of someone who might abuse a partner? My love interest has this aspect, and he's been very open with the fact that in his marriage and his past relationships with women, he's prone to argue, often quite heatedly. This doesn't bode well with me - I'm very non-conflict seeking in my relationships.I read this at Bob Marks' site: "Juno Aspects Mars: Marriage and partnership will stir you to action. In fact, you may need a partner to be active at all. The partners you attract will tend to be active, assertive, and aggressive. Conversely, having a partner may bring out these traits in you. The stressful aspects (conjunction, square, and opposition) are indicators of arguments with partners. One of you may try to dominate the other." (from: http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Juno21.3.html ) I was wondering, could this be taken further - to the extent of abuse? He's been quite open, but at times I suspect he's telling me a lot of info just so he can leave out certain details without sounding like he's holding back. My gut feeling is there's either a history of abuse in his past, or he's definitely capable of it, if he hasn't acted on it. Again, this does not bode well with me. His Mars-Juno conjunction also opposes his Aries moon. He's an Aqua, with Aqua Venus. Any thoughts on this? [BTW, I knew another man with this aspect, who was bornt he same year but only a few days later than this particular guy. He wouldn't hurt a fly, and was as non-conflict seeking as I am. However, his moon was in Libra, conjunct Neptune.]
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eatbooks
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posted January 12, 2007 10:23 AM
I was in a relationship with someone with Juno opposite Mars...he also has aries moon...pretty calm guy most of the time(taurus), but had a horrible temper and very controlling(because he couldnt control me). Not abusive though, just sh1tty temper/control issues.IP: Logged |
alanabelle86
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posted January 12, 2007 11:31 AM
My boyfriend has a Juno/Mars/Pluto stellium in ScorpioVery passionate, Very controlling...lotta power struggles between us...mainly because he tries to get control over everything and that would never happen...he has a really bad temper that he bottles up though and its very ugly when he explodes... i guess it depends on other aspects...hes got an aqua moon so hes not too bad but its conjunct jupiter (very closely) so...he has huge emotional reactions..never physical though...
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Gemini Nymph
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posted January 12, 2007 01:58 PM
Thanks guys. I hope some more people will share their experiences.IP: Logged |
Duality
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posted January 12, 2007 04:25 PM
GN, I don't know enough about astro to comment on this aspect BUT, the man practically tells you who he is and second of all - GO WITH YOUR GUT INSTINCT! Listen to your intuition!
Don't get into an abusive or controlling relationship! There is nothing good about it but a whole lot of grief.Whenever I feel someone is trying to dominate me, the guy gets the boot! I've seen enough with my friends, family and from my own experience that nothing good comes out of such relationships. On the other hand, a whole lot of bad does. Listen to that great Pisces moon of yours (and mine  ) and go splitville. IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
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posted January 12, 2007 05:58 PM
If he lays a hand on you then just beat the crap out of him and have him arrested.
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Gemini Nymph
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posted January 12, 2007 06:18 PM
We're not dating. We're just friends who are "feeling out" the possibilty of a relationship. He's not controlling towards me so far. I think he's a little intimidated by me - he's an Aqua, and I have Aqua Mars. He "gets" that I have my boundaries. And I've already told him that any man who dare hinted at physically assaulting me would be in a world of hurt himself. There's other reasons I'm thinking about backing down from this in addition to my questions about his temper. I was just curious about this in particular. I like guys who are aggressive and even have a bit of a temper - but I don't like guys who can't handle their strong emotions without violence. I just know sometimes it's hard for them to know where that line is that they shouldn't cross. Thanks guys.  IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
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posted January 12, 2007 06:24 PM
Just get to know him. Good idea.I like agressive men also but if one lays a hand on me then all hell will break loose. ------------------
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