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GrlyGirl20
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posted January 18, 2007 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey I was interested in anyone with placements in the 7th house or libra. I have my moon in cap but in the 7th house, and I have a VERY STRONG need to be in relationships, and partnerships. How would you describe yourself in partnerships, and relationships? Please give your placements as well

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sue g
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posted January 18, 2007 04:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi

I have lots of stuff going on in the 7th house.....here goes...

Sun, Venus, Jupiter, Neptune, North Node, Pars Fortune, Vertex, Ceres, Juno, Amor and Valentine....and possibly several more asteroids too!!!!

All the planets are in Scorpio....some of the asteroids are in Libra...would have to check..

But all of them are in the 7th house........as you can see its loaded and buzzing!!!!

How am in love.....I live for it.....its my main interest haha...I am called the lovewoman here...

Been married three times...

Overly romantic, passionate and sexual....I adore being with a partner (unless its the wrong one in which case I am very challenging).

I have in the past lived through the partner....my chart indicates that I gain lessons through the partner. Fortunatley I am very independant now...am able to go out on my own and feel confident. At one time I was very into dong most things as a couple...Uggghhh...too suffocating!!!

One woman said to me "you are very optimistic, if you have been married three times and still believe in love"

I am....i totally and utterly believe in it....even though I have found it almost impossible at times.

My downfall is I have always been drawn to clandestine affairs...although I love the security of a relationship, I cannot help be pulled by the thought of meeting someone in secret and living out my fantasies..

I did it a couple of times and it was fantastic....on both those occasions I went on to marry the guys...

Now isnt that very 7th house...?

Hope that helps!!

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Gemini Nymph
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posted January 18, 2007 07:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Pisces moon is in the 7H. I want to find "the one" but I'm very conflicted. I hate commitments and emotional dependency, and I need my space and privacy. I'm definitely moody in relationships, and I'm very vulnerable to being emotionally manipulated. Overall I'm not "high maintainence" unless you consider someone who wants to take "breaks" from the relationship every couple of weeks as high maintainence.

I have Gem Venus and Aqua Mars, plus a 1H Uranus in Libra. My moon's also conjunct Diana. I have a strong urge to resist being "trapped" in relationships even though I do often feel I need more intimacy in my life. And when I do start seeing someone regularly, I've already devise an escape plan to get out as soon as things get too uncomfortable.

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mars446
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posted January 18, 2007 11:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I got pluto in 7th, but dear pluto is in scorpio.

I got the type of chart where libra and aries are not on the cusp of any house, so libra is in my 7th, although the sign cusp of the 7th is in virgo. I forgot what its called.

How does it feel?

I crave for intense relationships, where you experience all emotions at the same time. You know how when the rollercoaster drops...you're scared of the feeling, but if you relax a bit, you luv the rush. Same thing here...I want not only my heart to be possessed, but also my soul. Relationships are all or nothing for me, and I expect that the other person gives me what I give, which is everything.

Then again I have other aspects that make me want to have freedom, yada yada. I hate making commitments...why? Because once I do it, it's for good. But I'm not going to commit for less than what I want, what I deserve (stellium in virgo, what can I say?), so it's hard for me. Not to mention I have moon, venus, and mars squaring saturn, so I have a fear of emotions going out of control and all that lovely stuff...

Here's my motto: if you get me to care about you more than myself...you've got me. (Hey, I'm not selfish...but I've trained myself not to care so much about another so I wouldn't get hurt- I care, but my emotions are within my grasp, so I can mold it however I please)

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Dulce Luna
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posted January 18, 2007 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have my sun in the 7th and I don't entirely fit the description of seventh house sun. Particularly the part about needing to be in a relationship. I'm in one right now but I was single for a long time before it. The idea of just commiting with anyone I'm not that into creeps me out. The fear I've always had about relationships is losing independence....ay! I'm working on it though.

I have a gemini venus and a virgo moon...that might explain alot. I also have mars square uranus.

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posted January 18, 2007 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also have a packed 7th...
Placidius chart.. My 7th house spans 3 signs.
Cancer on the DC 26'
Leo- Vertex, Jupiter Pallas
Virgo Sun, Merc, Venus, Ceres Stellium

Relationships are comfortable... But hard to maintain... Married twice...
Not currently in a relationship... It's been enlightning and scary all at the same time.... Aries Saturn, NN and Moon.. give me a dangerous independent streak....
It is hard to find the balance...
sueg Me too!
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******"My downfall is I have always been drawn to clandestine affairs...although I love the security of a relationship, I cannot help be pulled by the thought of meeting someone in secret and living out my fantasies.."********

I feel very much the same... I seem to shake the tree of life...and end up holding the apple of temptation...
Came close... but never signed any contracts... so to speak.

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sue g
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posted January 18, 2007 12:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stargazer....sisters in crime hey?

I can remember once having a secret affair...i used to wear all black and a black felt wide brimmed hat...

Years later, when I was married to the guy..he said to me "I hated that hat you used to wear"...

and I thought it was really cool....i wore it to hide my face..to remain anonymous...

maybe that is why he hated it..

he was an aqua...with moon in Scorpio

we used to meet in a cellar bar...it was dark and smoke filled..and there was always heavy metal playing there...

i loved it...secret, hidden, passionate...

the only problem was...

i married him...shouldnt have really...it spoiled things...

Damn...

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posted January 18, 2007 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe so...
The attraction to the steamy side of life is very alluring....
A walk on the wild side..I enjoy the thrill and excitement of it all...(Pluto conjunct Uranus and Juno 8th)
And at times of great sadness.. It was something to look forward too..
(The dark, smokey, hidden places)
I was hiding out!!!
Although with one, I still love today.. and always will, but I had to let it go.
Together on a day to day basis.. like you said, would have ruined it somehow.
I never slept with anyone...
But it was still very powerful...
I realised a long time ago that things go to Sh~t in my life real quick if I mess around with karma.... It is so for everything else I tend to get sucked into... figured this wouldn't be any different.... I can get on a Thunderbolt Path in a heartbeat!

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GrlyGirl20
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posted January 19, 2007 04:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars446 I know EXACTLY what you're talking about. I have my moon in cap in the 7th house, and I honestly feel more like a libra than anything else. (That could be because my asc is in cancer and my moon is in the 7th house, and I also have venus in its natural sign taurus) I have been accused of being shallow, and superficial, and I admit that I love romance and love. And I have been accused of being VERY flirty. I actually have a fear of being alone for extended periods of time even though I have a HUGE fear of commitment, and I am the most indecisive person ever. But at the same time, I hate losing control of myself emotionally (cap moon) and I hate coldness and harshness. I also am VERY feminine, and girly (look at my name) and I NEVER leave the house w/o make up on...I just hate how people think I'm shallow when I'm really not (I have a lot of pluto aspects).

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Missa
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posted January 19, 2007 04:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Missa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Sun, Mercury and Juno in Libra, and I don't really have a strong need to be in relationships. I have a strong need to communicate with people though, but I also enjoy being alone. I like people who are independent like me and I can't stand people who try to cling to me, common trait for air signs I suppose.

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IamLove
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posted January 19, 2007 07:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Neptune and Jupiter are in my 7th house.... by sign.... not by degree


If you are refering to degrees then my Neptune and Jupiter.... is in my 6th house....

Also the only signs I have in libra are...

My part of fortune....

And my pluto is in libra... by degree... but by sign it is scorpio.... (example: Pluto in scorpio 0 degrees)

To be honest I could take or leave a reationship!

As you all know ....

The meaning of the part of fortune is.... where you find happiness


So my part of fortune being in libra would mean that I find happiness in (positive) realtionships

And no I'am not so happy being single right now.... but the reason why I can take or leave relationships is because I don't get into relationships just to say that I'm in one.... I get into a relationship only if I know that it has promise.....


So all this means is that if I could find someone that I feel is really compatible with me.... and their is reciprocity (libra) between us... then I will be happy!


So there you have it I need relationships of substance to be truely happy

Part of fortune: Libra

Katie

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posted January 19, 2007 11:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ascendant is Libra, as well as my jupiter(12th), saturn(12th), pluto(1st)..my moon is in taurus in the seventh house, Chiron in taurus in seventh house and pallas in aries in the seventh.....I have been in the same relationship for 9 years....I am only 26....but i definatley have a need for interactions with all types of people, I thrive on it....

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posted January 19, 2007 11:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Gemini Venus and Cancer Chiron/Juno in the 7th... But I am completely devoid of intimate relationships. So there's not much to tell. Sometimes I see relationships as a burden because I'm somewhat selfish with my time.

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mars446
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posted January 19, 2007 12:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey grlygrl

Actually, I'm accused of being selfish (heartless, sick-b/c I have an attraction to morbid things), acting manly, too serious and dry, and not caring about ppl (even sometimes disrespectful by my parents b/c I don't say hi to others...it's not that I don't like saying hi, but if I don't know the person, I'm not going to say it...and also, if I do say it, it's usually a nod or a movement of the mouth)...

Since I'm the type of person who is attracted to drama (moon and venus in leo, saturn and pluto in scorpio, asc in pisces), which includes fights that has nothing to do w/ me, but I just like getting involved in these things (I don't know why) I try to ignore what and whoever is around me so I don't have to get caught up in things that have nothing to do w/ me- and eventually waste my time (but no point for me to tell my parents that...just like to keep things to myself...makes it easier)

I could've been at ur end of the spectrum, being grly and all (and I'm not saying anything derogatory, in case u get that impression)...but I was raised up to be serious, no make up, and not be caught up w/ fashion (come on, I have lion traits, how can I not want to keep up w/ fashion?)...and so I've never been called shallow, and on top of that, I've taken it a bit further by acting manly.

Deep down all that...I can be very charming, seductive, sweet and caring, and play w/ a person's heart strings through words and actions until they've fallen for me...just waiting for that time where I can bring 'em all out completely. I showed a bit of each...but that's not enough....my intense personality needs to release EVERYTHING.

Tell me though...since ur a cappy moon, if u were attracted to someone, would u tell them u like them, or "over ur dead body" type of thing?

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sthenri
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posted January 19, 2007 06:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
7th house mercury in gemini makes my partnerships more mental than physical and the passion does fade. I do need constant mental stimulation either through work or small arguments. I am also conflicted in that I do want freedom to think what I want and I find being available every night for one person boring. At the same time I do like to be in groups and form long lasting friendships due to Taurus Sun.

I know a Scorpio moon now and he makes me feel we have a secret affair of the heart. I really like him:> I prefer secret love affairs because they are non touching, more into love and romance than sex.

Once there is actual dating, it leads to sex and then complete boredom with the same act all the time.

Natasha
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Cancer Moon/8th

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IamLove
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posted January 19, 2007 06:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natasha,

I think another reason why this relationship is secret, is because, his moon is in your 12 house cusp!


Katie

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sthenri
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posted January 19, 2007 06:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't think about that! I love Scorpio moons they are naughty and sweet at the same time and express themselves so much.

What about moon in aries men? Then the moon would fall in my 4th or 5th house-he is overly romantic, flowers, candy that kind of thing.

But still scorpio moons are addictive.

Natasha

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GrlyGirl20
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posted January 19, 2007 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To mars446
As far as my cap moon would go I am alot like it sometimes and sometimes I am like my cancer sun, or my 7th house moon. In general I do have a tendency to flirt a bit (my 7th house moon) but when I am ACTUALLY into someone I act distant (I blame my 11th house venus on that). My motto is the more I care about someone the more I act as if I could care aless. And I have no problem telling someone I love them or anything emotionally if the feelings aren't deep but in the situation I'm in now (remember the double sag boy) I happned to tell him how I felt alot, and he never responded (this was the first time EVER in 21 years that I met someone who I actually trusted and felt safe with...even though we were just only hooking up). And I had actually fallen for this guy. My cap moon now prevents me from admitting I still have feelings for him (even though logically I still would have feelings, its only been a week since we spoke) or admitting I miss him. In fact now I am acting as if I could care aless and that he was nothing more to me than just a booty call. And he'll see that, but on the inside I hate that I care about him. I would tell you this, ANYONE with a cap or saturn influence MUST know where they stand with you. I know with the sag boy I would become distant and cold with him and ignore him when I saw him, and he would go and do the same thing to me(but he also had his sag sun and moon conjunct saturn). We also will control our feelings till the cows come home, I know that many times I would try to not be into him for fear of getting hurt, and he himself would say things like I don't want to like you, or I need to take a break this is screwing with my head. AND the biggest thing ever to remember is we will ACT all unemotional (even to the point of saying we don't do emotions...which we TRY our hardest to do) and like we don't care, but I know that even if I say I don't like someone and I am done, if they try to pursue me then they have proven how they feel about me. You basically have to prove you care and love them unconditionally. But no, I am NOT the type at all to admit I am into someone. Especially after ANY sign of rejection. I turn off how I feel after that. If ya need any more info let me know...

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Aislinn
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posted January 19, 2007 11:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've got Neptune in the 7th, which fits me pretty well. When it comes to relationships I tend to wear rose colored glasses and put people on pedestals. Which isn't always a bad thing but can really bite me in the rear if I'm not careful. I've also noticed I like to feel needed in relationships, which may or may not be healthy; it just depends on the situation, I guess.

As far as Libra goes, I've got Pluto and and my North Node there. I've never gotten on well with Libras--but then I haven't known very many of them.

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Battle of Evermore
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posted January 20, 2007 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Battle of Evermore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah... I dunno... I have my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Jupiter in the 7th house. I'm just as happy single. I think I'm usually good in relationships, but i don't have a strong need to be in them. I'm picky as hell when it comes to guys I date.

Oh, I have Mars in Libra too.

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