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artgirl
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posted January 23, 2007 04:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi everyone
now i am really stuck with this guy and i need serious help since my practical mind can't figure him out, we have been dating for 3 months and we were set up for marriage, now the guy is a total maniac workholic and has a time problem. some nights ago i opened up and told him that i am falling in love with him and he said that is bad since he does not want to end up hurting me. i said he sounded like he was sure he was going to hurt me and he said no he would not make any moves until he was certain and sure of me. and the other night we like had a little arguement he asked me whether i would chose him or my best friend of 30 years! i mean i didn't get this question and since i hadn't spoken to him yet i told him at this moment my friend, which didn't sit well with him and he keeps making cracks about the fact that i chose my friend over him i mean that is when i decided to have a heart to heart with him. but since he has kind of retreated he said i am dangerous and a girl that can make guys fall in love with her and he didn't want to lose his control yet. ok i am really messed up i dont' call him i dont' ask questions he calls me usually late at night the only time he is free from work but i feel him pulling back i am giving him the space but i really don't know what to do call him ? not to? i mean its kind of impossible to talk during the day since he is always in some meeting. i send him funny text messages during the day he repies sometimes not always. he did tell me he loves me and has told me he misses me like twice which i think is a big deal for him but he is too gaurded and afraid of getting hurt. i asked him whether he would prefer that i back down and not act all lovey but he said be yourself i said don't want to make you uncomfortable and anyhow i am not sure what to do. big problem i am really falling for the guy and i sometimes think i must be nuts to like so much challenge and all this chaos and not a normal bf who can be around. well can any cancer guy help. oh and he said if i am stil with you than you do posses the qualities i want in a woman. whatever that means to the cancer mind.
me:
virgo
21 sept. 1968
him:
cancer
28 June 1968

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thedividedsky
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posted January 23, 2007 08:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Dulce Luna
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posted January 23, 2007 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would love to give advice but I'm mad confused...your story's all over the place. Could you clarify a bit, please?

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