posted January 29, 2007 02:30 PM              

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VENUS CONJUNCT SATURN

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Here!

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You may even have to sacrifice your own needs and happiness in order to fulfil your duties to someone or something.

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Been there, done that. And still doing that, damn it. Well, to some extent. Working on changing that.

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One or both of your parents, but most likely your father...forced you to grow up and assume responsibilities too soon. On the other hand, he may have been emotionally cold and indifferent, or not around at all, leaving you with a deep-seated feeling that maybe it was your fault. As a consequence, you live with the constant fear of being rejected or deserted if you do not live up to another's demands, or you may avoid close relationships altogether.

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How about all the above? Yeah, thanks so much, Dad. You did a great job with me.

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With Saturn, age and experience usually bring the solutions to its more difficult aspects. You will gradually come to realise that you also have a duty to yourself, to fulfil your own life's purpose, and Saturn will provide you with the self-respect and inner stability to pursue your own path despite the opposition of others.

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Yeah, I've been slowly learning this over teh past 6 years or so. Not easy, but then again nothing with Saturn's easy. But definitely worth it . Nothing beats the strength to say "I've gotta do what I gotta do. And you, well... *sigh*...you can just go f*** yourself."

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Then you will attract people who will respect and accept you for what you are, not what they want you to be.

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Yes, my friends are like this. My family, no, but at least my friends.