posted January 25, 2007 10:31 AM              

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ok guys
really funny he is on a bus trip in china and well he called at 2:18 am local time in china he sent an sms first saying his room no. and number of the hotel and that he missed me and than i called him and he was all nice and all lovey!!!!! and said he missed me and i said did you have to go all the way to china to miss me why aren't u like this here at home and he said you are not dangerous from far away!!!! i mean really funny so we had a nice conversation for a while and he was all sweet like he had been before he retreated into his shell anyhow i know he is into me but its funny how scared he is of me!!!! anyhow i mean why can't they be normal and open and he says he is a strong man but does not seem like it i mean he is scared ******** now . well i am going to go on as i am wish me luck guys. its nice to know there are others with cancer men and confused. u kind of don't feel alone in this world...

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posted January 25, 2007 10:33 AM            

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are girl .. what are your signs? why is he scared of you? is he really or is it just a joke? cause if he really is .. then thats a prob.

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posted January 25, 2007 10:45 AM              

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me
virgo
21 sep. 1968
him:
cancer
28 June 1968
and he is scared of me because he doesn't want to fall in love with me yet i have been writting all about it.

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posted January 25, 2007 10:47 AM              

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That is the same feeling I used to get from my male cancer affair which I don't see or talk to him anymore.
But,everytime I was around him I sensed he had some kind of fear, something he was hidding from me.
It usually would get better when drinking and he would open up quiet nicely but still not totally.There was only this one big thing bothering him and keeping him away, so now I stay away.

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posted January 25, 2007 10:51 AM              

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no he just came out and told me the problem is he does not want to fall in love with me yet since he is not sure if i am the one and yes the only place the guy opens up is when drinking or in bed in our most intimate moments but i know he is into me i can sense it and i am too good to be true sometimes so he is making sure i am all i seem to be. i spoke to my therapist today and she seems to think its all going well and once he is sure he will open up and be a great match for me.

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posted January 25, 2007 11:01 AM              

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Damn, that sounds just like the one I know, opens up in bed and when drinking.

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posted January 25, 2007 01:12 PM              

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posted January 25, 2007 01:20 PM              

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Uh, DividedSky, stop stealing my thoughts.

Except I would edit that to include MOST men, not just Cancer men.

Although Cancer men are definitely the ones into the "Exes." If you really want him to like you, dump him. He'll obsess over you for years.

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posted January 26, 2007 04:05 PM              

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Virgo/Aries and thedividedsky, you guys are hilarious! aren't you both virgo's?

i am still laughing

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posted January 26, 2007 06:12 PM              

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Well that sucks, so we will not ever get a chance with a Cancer man because they only obsses over what is not there (exes?) that doesn't sound like true love to me but misery, is any cancer man in here, I want to know if he has found true love or if he is obssessing over what he can't find.

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posted January 26, 2007 06:31 PM            

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Thats bull crap... Cancer men find true love all the time its th eonly thing we realy search for... we do not obsess over what we dont have... well we do... but not when were with someone ... if he is falling for you thats good... but b/c your a virgo he will be scared of you... its just natural.. i dont know the succes rate of Virgo-Cancer relationship but you should get synastry charts done...

~KEvin

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posted January 26, 2007 06:48 PM              

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Ok, I feel a bit better.

Sorry to upset anyone ....

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posted January 26, 2007 06:52 PM              

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Where are the synastry charts... I have been probably told about it already but as I said somethings are going over my head and I am very slowly learning.

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posted January 26, 2007 06:53 PM              

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i cant stand cancer men. annoying, slow, flakey, and indecisive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AGH!

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posted January 26, 2007 09:05 PM            

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yes, they really are scare-dy cats!!!!!!
If you can walk the VERY FINE LINE between relationship and being casual and keep your feelings to a minimum.......i think this is the best way to deal with all "these" cancer men. They want to have a "feel" of a relationship, but want the option of getting out VERY easy if something better comes along.....

Or if their Ex girlfriends come around again......

LMAO! So true! I do agree with V/A75 though its MOST men! I'm the only woman in my pisces life, although he pretends I'm not, so funny.

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