posted January 26, 2007 12:39 AM              

I tend to feel suffocated by too much fixed influence after a while. I need more space. There is a lot of pressure there to enter a relationship and never leave, which makes me uncomfortable.

Cardinal's great for the most part because there's a lot of energy there and things get done. I'm pretty cardinal myself. We bounce of each other.

Mutable's the best because I get so much space and I'm probably most comfortable with Gemini in that sense, but Pisces, Sag and Virgo all mash well with me. Everything seems to be flowing naturally, rather than someone forcing things on me. They don’t push, so I can be myself around them.

posted January 26, 2007 01:40 AM              

Mars, Jupiter and Saturn in fixed.

Only Uranus in cardinal.

I am attracted to signs more than modality. I like the Aqua guys, the Aries guys and the Pisces guys. I'm often attracted to Cancers against my better judgement.

posted January 26, 2007 02:31 AM            

Sun, Jupiter, Uranus, Pluto, (Chiron and NN) - Cardinal
Mars (and MC) - Fixed
Moon, Ascendant, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, and Neptune - Mutable

Cardinal
Partnership-wise they're ok as long as there's a decent amount of maturity. The bad thing here is that I know there will be power struggles at times, because you won't find a Cardinal sign without an agenda (even if they generally appear otherwise).

Fixed
I'm with you (Lauren) on this for the most part. I haven't really gone out with any for a significant amount of time, though. I'm not real huge on their stubborness, and their seeming lack of respect when voicing their opinions.

Mutable
Once again, I agree with you Lauren. I'm dating my first Sag (to my knowledge), and it's the most cooperative relationship I've probably ever had. She does have a Cardinal ascendant, so there are little instances of the power struggles, but it's so much easier to get over than it is with a fellow Cardinal. Of course, I'm very Mutable myself, and with my stellium in the 7th we sometimes have to struggle to get to a decision over the mediocre things in life.
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posted January 26, 2007 02:44 AM              

I generally go for fixed and mutable signs

posted January 27, 2007 02:53 AM              

Cool thanks!

Eatbooks, lol @ fixed men.. You have similar placements to mine. I do like the loyalty but for some reason they scare me. They expect a lot in return and it's usually more than I'm able to give.

GN, so you have one cardinal.. I have one fixed.. but you seem to like cardinal guys. I do attract fixed guys but usually end up putting up walls.

posted January 27, 2007 04:20 AM              

Whoops I didn't realise I have so much cardinal too. I'm usually pretty lazy and need a push

I also have only one major fixed planet - the fixed men have always interested me, especially Taurus. I often wonder what it's like to have so much stability, but we hardly cross paths mentally.