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Topic: Addicted to Love?
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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 30, 2007 02:25 PM
Is it possible to be in love with love?------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph unregistered
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posted January 30, 2007 02:32 PM
YES.Just ask any Pisces Sun, moon, Venus or Mars, and anyone with strong Neptune. IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 02:32 PM
edit: wondered if I sounded cynical reading my post back.I think I'll see what others have to say before I comment again. I would say that on the emotional level I have always been in love with love. I am a Pisces though and would lose my membership card if I wasn't! Swerve IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 30, 2007 02:34 PM
Yeah, I think some people are. I mean, look at J.LO who got married alot. Who knows, maybe we're all a little "in love with love".IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 30, 2007 02:38 PM
I can tell you I need love more then anything else in this world.. its my #1 priority.. not sure why. IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 02:41 PM
depends on if you are a daydreamer or not it could be a high for some people yeah some people fall in love with eveyone they date so they could be in love with love but i am a virgo and the person matters for meIP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 30, 2007 02:43 PM
It feels like I constantly need to be attracted to someone, to feel that 'love' high. I think somewhere on the internet they have an article that show people can be addicted because of the endorphins(scientifically) it gives you. I don't know if that cool for me to be crushing on a cute guy because of how it makes me feel? If anyone could find an article on it that would be great, I'd do it myself but I have alot of work related issues to deal with.------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 02:48 PM
Actually Libra that's a good point, I read that too, but it's actually infatuation that you would be "in love" with.It's the cocktail emotions and endorphins as you say. You can give youself a hit by thinking of someone, wishing for that "magic" moment of realisation. But that isn't love unfortunately, as I learnt myself the hard way. You can tell because it's possible to have that with soooo many people, and in quick succession or overlapping sometimes. Which isn't to say you can't love more than one person at one time. It's just different. Can be fun though can't it if you can manage it? Swerve IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 02:55 PM
I am definitely!
------------------ I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. *----------* Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 02:59 PM
For me, a Pisces moon, it's not so much being "in love" with someone specific or having someone love me, as much as the opportunities to love. I need to love as much, if not more, than I need ot be loved. I guess that's why my home's always full of animals who are regularly showered with my affection. With friend I tend to be affectionate in my own way. I'm not a huggy-huggy kind ofperson, but I like to give cool gifts that my friends love and help my friends out whenever I can. With boyfriends, I tend ot drive them crazy. On one hand I'm not very emotional, but I like to be affectionate. This has confused many guys. And then there's sex....LOL.... IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 03:09 PM
Neptune in 5th: quote: You are intensely idealistic in your romantic pursuits, willing to sacrifice all for love or being content to idealise and worship from afar.
quote: In love and romance, also, you often have glamorous fantasies that have little to do with reality.
I have Moon contraparallel Neptune, which I guess is supposed to operate as Moon opp Nep. I'm selfish about personal space though and too defensive to let just anyone into my life. But it's still nice to entertain some daydreams... as long as I keep my brain in check.Mostly though, I want to believe in love and have fun believing that there is a soul mate out there. Just hoping the mirages don't get to me. IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 05:20 PM
I have Moon in Libra and Venus conjunct Neptune. No matter how much I try to convince myself that I should be my own person not putting my happiness in someone's else hands, I am SO utterly miserable when I am not in relationship. And now, when I am finally over my divorce (I think) and in love head over heels with my boyfriend, the absolutely best man I ever knew, it also translates into fear of breakup. Irrational fear...really. On the surface I am so confident, independent and busy with my own life - my work, my daughter, my art, my home.....if only my boyfriend knew that every time I don't hear from him through the course of the day I feel that our relationship is over...lol. Of course, I don't act on it and would never even mention it... but I wonder what it will take for me not to feel that way. IP: Logged |
Kamots Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Cascais, Portugal Registered: May 2009
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posted January 30, 2007 05:32 PM
Gemini Nymph, I have Sun, Venus, Mars in Pisces and 12th house and I'm not addicted to love. I think these are positions of inner solitude above all, so you learn to walk alone at an early age despite that deep longing for a spiritual/soulful union with someone.I'd say people who are the most in love with love are the one's who have important personal planets in their 7th house, meaning they have to live them through partnership. Those have a harder time remaining alone. Anyone agree? IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 05:36 PM
Yes Kamots I agreeI am a lovewoman and have loads and loads of stuff in the 7th house and as you say having to live through the partner.... Having said that I also have sun conj neptune so there is no fecking chance for me....*sigh*.... aaarrgghhhhh..... IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 05:51 PM
Love is awonderful thing! I love to be affectionate, caring, kind and I love receiving it. I must say that I am more solitary than anything else. I enjoy my own company more than anyone else's, so while I love love, I'm fine when I'm not w/anyone @ all.Maybe it's my NN in Aries. ------------------ It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are fool than to open it and remove all doubt. -Mark Twain IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 06:16 PM
Kamots - I htink you missed the humor in that - the tendency of Neptunian types to fall in love with the ideal. I wasn't meaning this had ot be every Piscean. Whatever. Also I don't necessarily agree. My Pisces moon is the 7th. However, I don't fit the common cookie cutter interps that placement. I have a lot of air too - I can love easily, yet stay detached at the same time. I don't rely much on partnerships, and haven't for all my life. I'm very independant, quite a bit of a loner, and do better on my own. I tend to give love better in open ended ways, no strings attached, not in a structure partnership. TO me, love doesn't equal either commitment or intimacy witht ehother person, even if the love I feel is profound. So I'm not the most reliable person when it comes to reciprocity as well. I think you didn't catch my second post and what I was inferring there. As a Piscean, I need to love probably more than be loved. There's also an implicit need to have the freedom to love as well - I don't do well focusing my love on selected person. Is it an addiction for me to love other people and thing so openly and freely? Well, not techinically, but it's certainly a deep seated need I think comes with being Piscean. IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 07:34 PM
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posted January 30, 2007 09:04 PM
I have Venus in Pisces in the 10th square to Jupiter/Neptune Conj in Sag in the 6th. I've had very bad addiction and codependency problems with this puppy. I'd end up settling for which ever guy came past me first. I would tolerate all the unhealthy stuff in relationships. I was a compliant little robot giving in to almost every unspoken expectation there was. I'm proud to say that it's been alomst a year since I kicked my addiction and I'm very proud to say that I'm successfully single and going for a record. I always thought Robert Palmer's Song Addicted to love always fit me. ADDICTED TO LOVE – Robert Palmer Your lights are on, but you're not home Your mind is not your own Your heart sweats, your body shakes Another kiss is what it takes You can't sleep, you can't eat There's no doubt, you're in deep Your throat is tight, you can't breathe Another kiss is all you need Whoa, you like to think that you're immune to the stuff, oh yeah It's closer to the truth to say you can't get enough, you know you're Gonna have to face it, you're addicted to love You see the signs, but you can't read You're runnin' at a different speed You heart beats in double time Another kiss and you'll be mine, a one track mind You can't be saved Oblivion is all you crave If there's some left for you You don't mind if you do Whoa, you like to think that you're immune to the stuff, oh yeah It's closer to the truth to say you can't get enough, you know you're Gonna have to face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Your lights are on, but you're not home Your will is not your own You're heart sweats and teeth grind Another kiss and you'll be mine Whoa, you like to think that you're immune to the stuff, oh yeah It's closer to the truth to say you can't get enough, you know you're Gonna have to face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love Might as well face it, you're addicted to love IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 10:06 PM
This is my chartSUN-pisces MOON-pisces VENUS-Taurus MARS- Pisces I think I am a love addict. I have not been without a relationship since I was 15 years old. Not even for a day. I seem to overlap from one to the other and they are long drawn out relationships. I am always the one to leave the relationship when I fall out of love and meet someone new and i am happy and in love all over again. I really contend with this within myself. Any suggestions to rid myself of this? I really have never met anyone else like myself that has these kind of issues. I also always have had to have a pet to adore and spoil. I have had hamsters to monkeys and I feel like i always need to have something to take care of, though i don't want the hassle of kids. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 30, 2007 10:17 PM
Robert Palmer is awesome, I love that song, and "Simply Irresistible" ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 10:30 PM
Same here Sinderlou and my Venus is in Taurus also.------------------ I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. *----------* Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 10:33 PM
Sweet Stars,,,How do you feel about your love addiction? Does it bother you? I seriously wish I weren't like this but I feel like I have to always be in love. I logically know that this shouldn't be the case but I have no control over my emotions no matter how I try. IP: Logged |
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posted January 30, 2007 10:46 PM
Doesn't bother me at all unless it's a good man. I do have my Moon and Chiron also in Taurus.I love animals. I have always owned pets
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posted January 30, 2007 11:02 PM
My biggest fear is that I will be alone someday and that it doesn't seem possible to ever not have a relationship in my life. More Poetry From A Love Addict: Fire and Water I close my eyes When I leap Not knowing If its fire Or cool clear Waters deep I plunge forward And on With every love song And sing every word In tune For you I place you in my circle You are there Without question I see only beauty And in you I am So smitten I so naive I so trusting I so quickly giving Wanting Loving Choosing to Choose love And the idea of it all Will it wash over me Like cool waters Or burn me As I fall?
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posted February 01, 2007 02:11 PM
John Lennon sums up the feeling of love very succintly in this song, and I LOVE to sing and play it on my guitar. If anyone here hasn't heard this John Lennon song you really should. It's so beautiful and coming from John L.(a Libra man) you know it's coming straight from the heart! He was always my favorite Beatle. Now I know why.Sun in Taurus,Moon in Libra,Venus in Pisces. All you need is love.Wah!Wah!Wah!Wah!Wah! Love is real , real is love Love is feeling , feeling love Love is wanting to be loved Love is touch, touch is love Love is reaching, reaching love Love is asking to be loved Love is you You and me Love is knowing we can be Love is free, free is love Love is living, living love Love is needed to be loved
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