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Sweet Stars unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 12:22 AM He's worried because my ex-Scorpio who was my first love/first nightmare wants me back..............again and has been wanting to talk to me. He said he kept thinking about it all day and couldn't get it off his mind. He even thought I'd get mad at him for asking. I reassured him because he is my love. He does have Venus Conjunct Pluto in his chart and can be very intense. We also have it in synastry. What do you Scorpios think? Would you feel scared in his place? I am very very loyal. I would never cheat. It doesn't even cross my mind. ------------------ I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged
GeminiLover75 unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 12:29 AM I'm a Scorpio moon, and this would shake me up badly if I didn't get some reassurance. If you don't want to get back with your ex, tell your Scorpio that you love him and no one else, and that you are NOT INTERESTED in your ex and that the past is in the past. Just be straight up and honest about your loyalty and commitment. That's what would reassure me anyway. IP: Logged
Sweet Stars unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 12:35 AM My exact words to him were: I said: You are my only love I have eyes for only you I do not want him back I haven't even called him We do not see each other There is no interest on my behalf what so ever He said: yeah but you know they say many don't forget their first love. I said: He might have been my first love but he was also my first nightmare. I only love you and do not want to loose you He said : Ok Princess I just wanted to make sure. I thought you'd get mad at me for asking. I said: I would never get mad at you for asking. You have the right to because you are my boyfriend and you felt nervous about it. I would feel the same way. He said: Ok I feel better now. I am very jealous so I would have to keep being reassured over and over and over again. I just hope he really feels better about it ------------------ I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged
Taurus80 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 01, 2007 12:39 AM i think you said it PERFECTLY to him Sweet.. total reasurance for him IP: Logged
lotusheartone unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 12:41 AM Sweet Stars..that is wonderful! That is how to LOve..for affirmations..are what we need! LOts of LOve to EveryOne. ... IP: Logged
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009	posted February 01, 2007 12:54 AM Yea GeminiLOver i definately second you on that. I would be rediculously ****** if my bf's ex called up, in fact it would be much helpful if he told her that he cannot speak to her since he has a gf and just cut her out after she tries to get back together with him. Its ok to be friends with ur ex but if they are constantly hitting on you its trouble with a Scorpio. @ GemLover we get it eh IP: Logged
GeminiLover75 unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 02:09 AM Yes, we most definitely do get it BUD... and I agree, what you said to your Scorpio was PERFECT. Those are the words we would all love to hear... how wonderful if all people could understand as well as you do. Total reassurance with no room for doubt. Your Scorpio is so lucky to have you! IP: Logged
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 01, 2007 06:39 AM Tell him 'I love you' the more the better. IP: Logged
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 01, 2007 07:39 AM I think that conversation is very assuring. I wouldn't worry about it. You did good! I remember you posting about the first Scorpio a long time ago... he is quite obsessive! I'm glad you have your new scorpio to love you properly. IP: Logged
Atlenta unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 08:05 AM I feel that for a scorpio, the harder you try for assurance the less they will be assured. It's the scorpio inherent suspicious nature. But it isn't a bad thing, it's just quite natural. I think this needs time, but everything does. And when they're assured, you'll know. Just enjoy the dating journey. IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 08:16 AM Get down on your knees and scream I LOVE YOU AND ONLY YOU Hire a plane with a banner trailing reading I ONLY WANT YOU Leave a million messages on his answerphone declaring yer undying love And then he may just believe you... And tell me he DOESNT have Venus in Scorpio...pleeeze.... x IP: Logged
InLoveWithLife unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 08:48 AM @ sueg......LMAO !! about assuring...i think you were perfect...just make sure u make eye contact ALL THE TIME....and u cud also get a wee bit indignant the next time...how cud u even think like that? don't you know i am CRAZY ABOUT YOU !! i am SO OVER HIM...how can u even think that daaaahling! of course later u shud tell him that u felt rather nice that he feels a bit jealous...though of course you wud not want him to feel that way...but u felt nice bcoz it shows tht he loves u as much as u love him...bcoz u wud feel exactly the same way if it had been his ex. (tips from dealing with a much milder scorp ) IP: Logged
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 01, 2007 09:19 AM Yeah, tell him what you wrote Sweet Stars! That's perfect! IP: Logged
BlueEyes24 unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 10:32 AM Yes, I definitely think that Scorpios need to be reassured...and I know that I would feel threatened if I was in his situation- actually I have been in this situation before, even though my boyfriend didn't have feelings for his ex either. I have Venus conjunct Pluto also, with my Moon & Venus both in Scorpio...so I know how he feels when he said that he thought about the situation all day...But from what you've wrote, it sounds like he feels reassured now. IP: Logged
Sagittarius83 unregistered	posted February 01, 2007 08:24 PM Venus in Scorpio can never get enough reassurance... Believe me, i know Venus in Scorpio HARD conjunction with Pluto. ------------------ Sun Sagittarius Luna Aquarius Mercury Capricornus Asc Aries IP: Logged
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 01, 2007 08:58 PM ... If I was your bf I would go give that other guy a little message. straight from me the next time I saw him... .. Did I mention I generally hate (dislike) scorps.. ~Kevin SUN- Cancer MOON- Libra ASC- Virgo MC- Gemini MERCURY- Cancer VENUS- Gemini MARS- Aries JUPITER- Taurus SATURN- Sag. URANUS- Sag. NEPTUNE- Cap. PLUTO- Scorp. IP: Logged
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 01, 2007 10:20 PM We generally hate you too. hehe, what a weird thing to say. IP: Logged
BlueEyes24 unregistered	posted February 02, 2007 07:57 AM Grrrr....talk about being biased... IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted February 02, 2007 08:54 AM Maybe Kevin meant to say he "fears" Scorpios I was married to a Kevin once, he was scared of me Is that you..... Oh no he was a Libra So Kev, what do you hate about us then? Oh look you have Pluto in us...are you a little scared of yerself too...maybe....? IP: Logged
Sweet Stars unregistered	posted February 02, 2007 11:16 AM Funny LOL my boyfriend's name is KELVIN with an L. Sue, luckily, he doesn't have Venus in Scorpio. Sun - Scorpio ASC - Aquarius (Don't even notice it) Moon - Taurus Venus - Libra Mars - Sag (As long as it's not his Venus, I'm happy LOL) ------------------ I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged

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