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Topic: indications for let each other to go
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girlloveboy
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posted February 09, 2007 07:13 AM
 
I would like to ask what aspects, planets can indicate in a sinastry, that the two should let each others to go?I would appriciate any ideas so much! Thanx IP: Logged |
comica23
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posted February 09, 2007 07:52 AM
Hi ^_^ astrology tells us the potentials of our relationship and compatibility.. There are some easier aspects, and some other harder ones.. I guess it depends on each person also..
Two people can have a great synastry, but it doesn't grant them forever happiness, just as two people can have a very bad synastry, but they can try to work things out with devotion and maturity (the results can be rewarding)..Relationships are meant to teach us something.. so some hard aspects can sometimes teach us about the differences and how to work things out.
When there are some very hard aspects thought, we have to measure and think if it's worth to endure it together with the other person or better let go. It's up to yourself and the other person. So I think that if the relationship brings more pain than joy, and both can't learn from each other nor tolerate each other anymore then it's time to let go. >_<
But well, the hard aspects I noticed would be:
- Mars and Saturn badly aspected (lotsa conflicts and too much seriousness);
- Mercury badly aspected (hard communication and understanding);
- Moon badly aspected (lack of emotional understanding);
- Neptune badly aspected (illusions, disappointment);
- Saturn/Moon opposed/badly aspected to Chiron? (Chiron = true love, wound healer).
I don't think that there are aspects saying that both aren't meant for each other.. I think that it depends on each other's maturity and how they are affected by those aspects. IP: Logged |
girlloveboy
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posted February 10, 2007 05:55 AM
Hi, THANX VERY MUCH!!*
Thats life, i've just started to learn it.
MAybe if i would have been older, it would have been different...but its a bad excuse.
I got and learned so many things from him,, and this makes everything even more painful: i caused pain for the one, i love the most.... IP: Logged |
comica23
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posted February 10, 2007 03:37 PM
I see >_<; it must have been hard.. For me, it's hard when I suddenly lose contact with someone that it's important to me.. As if something is still yet to finish..
Sometimes, these kinds of losses are so inevitable no matter how dear we hold it onto our hearts.. and we are still so young and immature, that we still commit so many mistakes (sometimes even irreparable).. Sometimes, we even hurt the ones that loves us the most, and the ones we love the most.. But the most important thing is to learn from our mistakes, so that it's not a total loss at all..
Maybe if you can still contact him and still want to say sorry and try to explain how you feel and know how he also feels, then you should follow your heart before it's too late.. But if you guys lost contacts, then all you can do is to wish him happiness and also go on to pursue your own happiness in your life, and learn from this relationship.. Soulmates doesn't mean that they are meant together forever.. but they are meant to teach us something important (just as other relationships).. and it is very important to learn from it..About those synastry aspects, they seem really nice to me, except the hard Neptune ones.. Neptune can create beautiful and spiritual feelings, but if hard aspected, it can also create misunderstandings, disappointments and illusions.. I hope that you can find the way and find your happiness. ^_^ IP: Logged |
girlloveboy
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posted February 10, 2007 04:55 PM
HI, THANX SO, SO MUCH!!!
YOu're very nice, thanxANd again, im totally agree with what you said.
Im so glad that found sby who understand me in this case. Yes, this 3 months was the most hard period in my life, but yes, i know that it was somehow needed...
Hope i learned what i had to... *
At the beginning of april i will have uranus conjunct DESC, so maybe i will get another chance... Again, thanx much, you helped me a lot. IP: Logged |
comica23
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posted February 10, 2007 06:50 PM
It's so hard having to lose an important relationship.. it was never easy, and never will be.. >_<; But sometimes, it's just inevitable.. but they still left something valuable, and it is what we could learn from it.. ^_^Also, it's still good that you can still say goodbye to him.. it's so painful when we can't even farewell the people that were once special to us.. so never let anything unsaid.. Btw, I'm having Uranus transiting my 7th house right now.. ^_^; I guess it gives a certain instability to my relationships lol.. But you know, every planet can teach us something.. in this case, I think that Uranus is telling me to look for the reasons of why are my relationships can be so unstable.. I guess I'm learning a lot about myself and my relationships, and why can they be so unstable sometimes.. ^_^;
Are you Virgo ascendant also? IP: Logged |
girlloveboy
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posted February 11, 2007 03:45 PM
Hi,
Yes, i also have virgo Asc  *
i realized i wanted him too much, and it wasnt a good way. * Im going through big inner transformation, guess its also because saturn transiting my 12th house, and change is never easy. Im curious what uranus will bring me, hope sth good,lol
And wish you the same.
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comica23
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posted February 11, 2007 07:21 PM
I'm also having Saturn transiting my 12th house.. guess I can understand what you mean that you're going through a big inner transformation lol.. ^_^; I feel like having a chaos in my inner world.. But well, I'm starting to be able to learn a bit more about myself.. I guess that going through all this inner chaos taught me something very valuable, I definitely learned lotsa things and matured, comparing to some few years before lol.. Feels like having a cleaning inside..
Saturn is very strict, and it doesn't give up 'till we accept its lessons.. Sometimes, it can even be so harsh and cold.. But what we can learn from it is actually really valuable. I hope you can also find your way and happiness. ^_^IP: Logged |
girlloveboy
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posted February 12, 2007 03:23 PM
hi,
i feel exactly the same, chaos, maturity and lots of pain, unfortunately...
I just hope at the end i will really learn sth valuable - though i think i've already learned a lot - even im just at the beginning, 'cause saturn will stay in my 12th house in the next two years...so it seems i need to learn much,lol
Which, actually true, for sure...
*Thanx that you listened me, it's so good feeling 
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