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InLoveWithLife
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posted February 09, 2007 04:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have noticed that the single most popular sign on this website is cancer. they have more posts dedicated to them than all the other signs put together! Though sometimes i wonder if it has more to do with their popularity or the confusion they cause (still i think an aqua or pisces male cud be equally if not more confusing...so that does not explain this phenomenon adequately)

So tell me ladies, what is it about them that makes your heart beat extra fast??? and also whether u have a cancer DC, Asc, moon or venus/mars....i mean anything tht cud explain why u r drawn to them

another purpose for this mail is to have all you ladies get together and find out if it is indeed the same guy u hv been dating...lol

well i just thought thr r so many of us we cud have a ball relating funny incidents connected with them, and so on...we cud even form a support group to help get over these slimy creatures @#$%^#&*@

feel free to crash here with the weirdest of opinions that have nothing to do with anything...dont be shy to vent/rant

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eatbooks
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posted February 09, 2007 04:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I keep thinking the same thing, all this cancer talk is bizarre. I am crushin on one on and off. I dont usually like Cancers. My sun/moon midpoint is Cancer. I usually befriend Cancers pretty quickly. Theyre great as friends, but the whole lovers idea is a joke. They take forever to claim you then you have to compete with their beloved ex they love and miss so freakin much. Theyre cute but they try to act more macho/jerky sometimes just to prove something, maybe they feel emasculated because their massive amounts of emotion.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted February 09, 2007 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We cancer males are talked about alot because we are simply the best!

~Kevin

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eatbooks
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posted February 09, 2007 04:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ehm, I wouldnt go that far.

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Gemini Nymph
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posted February 09, 2007 04:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have I mentioned my Cancer ex who had a "thing" for his mom's underwear (bras, panties, pantyhose)? Surely I have, but perhaps not recently. Yeah, that was a dealbreaker there. Cross-dressing is fine - but wanting to wear mommy's undies when you're scared or strressed is just plain icky to me. Sorry.

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sag_girl
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posted February 09, 2007 04:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gosh, I don't know specifically - I really just liked everything about him I miss him already.

I guess maybe the fact that he has a tough exterior but I could see the sweetness in his eyes. His attentiveness - the way he remembered things I said - every detail about me - how affectionate he was - he could be goofy and I love that - fun - his adorable smile - gosh, just everything

Sorry - mine ended last night so having a little pity party for myself LOL

We seemed to have an unspoken connection. Like last night, picked up the phone to call and at that very second got a text from him. Weird! He just got into my head like no other - I don't know if I sense when he's thinking about me or what, but I think about him A LOT and that is really unlike me.

I have cancer in my 5th house but still not sure what that means lol Also, pisces rising - does any of that have to do with my affinity for him? He's the first cancer I've dated though. Oh and I think he's a sag moon (or scorp) so maybe that goes with my sag sun??

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eatbooks
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posted February 09, 2007 04:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This cancer guy I know calls me "mama", um I asked why did you call me this? and hes all "its coz i like you"....creepy stuff

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Dulce Luna
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posted February 09, 2007 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honest to God truth; I'm sick of all the cancer men talk. (But I love my Cancerrg )

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InLoveWithLife
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posted February 09, 2007 05:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so am i dulce...*sigh*

trying to uncover some pattern here....and see i can help in loosening the hold these men seem to have on us

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Green Fairy
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posted February 09, 2007 06:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Though sometimes i wonder if it has more to do with their popularity or the confusion they cause
I'd pick the "confusion" option. We even baffle ourselves sometimes... ok almost always lol

(Cancer Sun/Moon/Mars/Ceres/Eros with Uran. & Nept. in the 4th here)

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Gemini Nymph
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posted February 09, 2007 06:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the key to getting over Cancerous men in general is emotional self-possession. That's all. Know where to draw boundaries.

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Dulce Luna
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posted February 09, 2007 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
trying to uncover some pattern here....and see i can help in loosening the hold these men seem to have on us

*shrugs* I understand, ILWL. Hey, maybe I can help you. I notice that you'll see the most threads about guys under the "confusing signs"(Aqua men have been another that people have complained about). I think that's just it...they're hard to "get". And yes, it has nothing to do with them being popular (same story with Aqua men).

I say this because every cancer guy I've read about in this forum has had the same pattern: the push/pull-move foward/retreat thing....along with the not being seen or heard from for days (shell mode). And could you believe I was starting to disregard Sun signs in astrology? Us cancers really do have our similarities now that I think of it. If my bf were to hypothetically post in this forum one day about me....he'd probably be telling the same story that everybody been telling. It freaks me out sometimes .

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NAM
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posted February 09, 2007 09:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, my turn.
I am: Cancer sun and moon. Sag ascend.

He is Cancer, that's all I know.

And as one of you was saying here, I loved the way he is so playful and he remembers things, the way he pays attention to little details, and how strong he was when he wanted to have the macho man attitude but also how sensitive he can be and how much of a little boy he can turn into and since I am a Cancer it is perfect because I get to spoil him.
This is why I was surprised that this is the first Cancer guy I have ever noticed, but as I said before, i know another Cancer boy that although caught my attention , did not do anything when I kissed him while the other one would have me .... hmmm.... how can I put this...well.... HOT! , yes hot!! to say the least ... just by looking at me, (forget about kissing me and touching me) I melted everytime, everytime! and I repeat ... EVERYTIME!

I would like to know what his chart would look like and if that has anything to do with the extreme attraction.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted February 09, 2007 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi, this isn't Kevin...its Heidi, his girlfriend..as you must have realized, he is a cancer...and i agree a lot with what eatbook said...they do take a lot of time to ask us out,they r so macho you would think they r mexican, they r cute, but they get fired up very fast and they take forever to get over **** ... okay...thats that.. Any tricks to control him?

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luna*tic12
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posted February 09, 2007 11:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the thing we like about Cancers most is their romanticism... their every touch seems to be bursting with feeling and genuine care. Cancers Care. Although they can be mighty cold, we know that deep down they are as warm as ever. Their cuddles are world-class. Or perhaps it's the intensity we like so much? Any romantic entanglement with a Cancer is sure to be intense, what with the unpredictable emotional weather...

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Cancer Sun/Leo Moon/Leo Rising/Sun and Moon in 12th House.

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artgirl
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posted February 10, 2007 12:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is my first experince with a cancer and for me its the eyes, i mean he talks with his eyes they are so expressive even if he doesn't say I love u , I can see it in his eyes i mean this happened recently that is. he finally broke his resistance and came to spend the night last night and he had really missed me i mean he couldn't stop hugging and kissing me. I am so smitten I don't know what to do. last night made up for all the unhappy moments i've had in the past weeks and i told him if he would start acting all cold and all from today and he laughed.
i am virgo with both the sun and moon in virgo and a sag ascnd.
ILWL the best advice i had here that keep me going was about the cancer dance. it was so true and helped me to understand him better. for now i am really stuck on him. when the guard is down they are sweet , attentive, sensetive, adoring, caring and ..... but when the gaurd is up its a different story. the other thing I like about this is that its challenging i've alwasy been able to charm guys a lot easier in the past this fight he is putting up is really proving to be challenging.

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cancerrg
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posted February 10, 2007 09:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
:::Honest to God truth; I'm sick of all the cancer men talk. (But I love my Cancerrg ):::

even i am tired (almost) . and honest to God thruth, i am sick of all the cancer men talk (i would rather prefer cancer woman talk )
(but i also love cancerrg )

love you Dulce !!!!!!!!


ok , just to add a bit more , yesterdaqy i went in for an interview (though i have just joined a new org , this one was long pending so i went even though i had a minor accident in the morning )
after clearing the tests and first set of interviews with HR and all , i had an interview with the regional head , it was more of a psycho type (we didn't even talk about our respective business )just after the ten minutes , he asked me , why do u have so much anger within you and why do you have this shell ?

and i didn't know what to say ?
guess , here i am with the best of my behaviour and attitude and man sees right inside in me .
and again , he made me accept with his assessment .
luckily , i got through it .
and i have my last and final interview with national head sometime in the next week .

and you people , without seeing right through me , closing your eyes ,start praying for me !

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sinderlou
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posted February 10, 2007 10:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not sure what the draw is by charts but I have tons of Pisces and he has a lot of cancer.

What drives me crazy about him is the fact that he can drive me crazy, both good and bad. No one has ever gotten to me like this and I keep wondering what his secret is, unless he has a Masters in Psychology and has not told me

What drives me crazy in a bad way is:

* The cancer dance
* Not calling or seeing me for days
* Secretiveness
* Not expressing his feelings

What drives me crazy in a Good way:

* His sensitivity
* All the things we have in common
* His looks
* The way he kisses me and makes love to me and seems to magically know what to do
* His hugs
* His Humor
* His understanding of things that are not necessarily "macho"
* An almost telepathic way of communicating
* The way he looks at me

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InLoveWithLife
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posted February 10, 2007 02:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, so here's wht i hv concluded.

I think that the cancer male is indeed more popular than the other signs. it is not just due to their causing confusion.

i think that the typical cancer male is so much in touch with feelings, and all things feminine, tht he exerts a natural pull on females from all sunsigns. after all, this is the romantic ideal tht has been propagated via countless movies and novels. (i wud guess tht next in popularity wud be scorpio). he is attentive, sensitive, has a great memory for those sweet little things tht matter to most women, is a good kisser (gem influence?), he is wedged between gemini and leo, and is bound to hv some placements in these signs....and both the signs hv a natural charm. so venus in gemini, or venus in leo, both ways he can be quite deadly ;-)

But ladies, please remember tht his memory works both ways. he wud remember all those special things about you, as well as the day u acted sullen becoz u had pms.

and lets not forget his mother. the reason he is so in tune with those little things tht matter to women, is becoz he learnt them by observing his mom, (yeah, it is not just you tht he is attentive to).

and like gemini nymph suggested, the key to getting over this guy (as well as being able to live successfully with them) is to be emotionally self possessed. draw boundaries. we tend to be all sympathy. ohhh, the poor fella is hurting and so he has retreated into his shell. but please remember that you dont get hurt in the process. i think some straight talk never hurts in such scenario's (i think artgirl u did abs the right thing )

ILWL

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Planet_Soul
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posted February 10, 2007 02:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm, what do I like about him? So many things, where to start? Home is where the Crabs are. After a long day, it is so nice to come home to him. He is comforting and soothing. The contradiction between my Sag Sun/ Pisces Moon is understood. He knows, accepts, and loves my complex Self. I respect him, he has earned it. There is trust, we Archers must have trust. When I am sick, he doesn't fall apart. He is strong and handles things w/o stressing. Finally, he is a homebody with a fun side. He is game for going to new places and adventures.

His most negative trait would be his indecision. I do not know if that is his Libra rising or his Sun. He is not one to gamble and go for it. He'll analyze things to great depth before taking a step.

I have no Cancer placements, and he is the only Crab I've loved. My Desc is Gemini, but most of my 7th house is Cancer. I'm 12th house heavy and I ave a Piscean Moon. Funny, before I used to go constantly with Capy Suns, Cancer's opposite.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted February 13, 2007 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...Hey...

Just wanted to clear up the mexican reference that my baby crab made when she was drunk! lol! typical cancerian getting into my business checking up on me to make sure im not talking to you girls in a diiferent way other then astro hah!.. well she is from the Dominican Republic and I guess they think that Mexican men are macho haha I dont know but oh well.


~Kevin

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