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Topic: Imagine... This is just an observation
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gemini girl
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posted February 15, 2007 03:34 PM
 
firstly im guiltiest of them all but imagine for a second that men spent as much time chasing worrying bout what we think as what we do with them i think the world would be an incredible place, sadly it doesnt work that way and i dont know why cause since i can remember ive been chasing men, its rare that men out of their own chase me if they do i just am not interested lol ok that depends, joke. so just to see what replies ill get of this IP: Logged |
artgirl
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posted February 15, 2007 03:42 PM
according to my therapist they worry and think as much as we do just don't show it and half the time they have to work more than we do so they have less time to think.
but they are as insecure and worried as we are sometimes.IP: Logged |
gemini girl
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posted February 15, 2007 03:57 PM
lol fair enough ive seen that,but maybe not in the degree that ive seen woman going on about it IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted February 15, 2007 04:23 PM
When do men have more work to do? I don't see that at all, espeically when kids are involved. Men are the ones I see having more leisure time for themselves than most women. I think what it is, is that women are more verbal and more emotive, and are more ready to talk about what's on their minds. Men prefer action, and so they would rather work or play rather than sit around and talk. IP: Logged |
gemini girl
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posted February 17, 2007 08:26 AM
hi gemini nymph completely agree with u IP: Logged |
NAM
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posted February 17, 2007 09:32 AM
yeap, not only we work more specially if we have kids but we will also do the impossible to make that time to talk things out, when men are interested in one conversation , the one previous to getting in your pants , after that they will do the impossible not to talk anymore LOLIP: Logged |
NAM
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posted February 17, 2007 09:35 AM
Unless you are breaking up, then they get worried again and they'll go for the talk, still they don't retain 100 percent of what was said to them so just keep it simple and talk about the most important issues until you are lucky enough to get them to talk again LOLRepeat the same issue many times.... so it can really get embeded in their head and they will not do whatever they did that bother you again LOL Why must it be so compicated  IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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From: victoria, australia
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posted February 18, 2007 03:01 AM
Wow, so negative!I believe men and woman are so different that although woman may seem to be 'obsessing' about their men it only seems that way because woman talk about their thoughts and feelings so much more. Men are more likely to hang with the boys, work, play sport and many other things instead of talking but that doesn't mean they THINK about it any less. But of course sometimes they just don't get it and no matter how much you talk they still won't understand. Men don't hear nagging they need to be SHOWN. My lover and I had a stupid arguement on the weekend and his response was 'thats a lie, but you're entitled to your opinion'. As long as he accepts I have my own opinion I really don't care if he agrees with me or not. Its better than either one of us bullying the other into submission. Oh wow just got WAY off track! Back ON track now, for months and months I assumed my lover would simply forget about me until it was convenient for him to remember I existed. That is completely untrue, he just does things so differently to me. I accept that, it doesn't mean we're any less crazy about each other. He's 7 years younger than me yet I've learnt so much from him.  IP: Logged |
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