posted February 16, 2007 11:40 AM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted February 16, 2007 11:51 AM              

I have way too much Gemini in my chart and I can tell a Gem for miles. I love the candour, but I detest it when it gets a bit too 'I am Gemini. Hear me roar'

Will you be my mentor?

P/s,

Actually you really helped me out a while back when I was posting under a different name. It was in regards to my Aries bro'. I printed it out and read it to my family!

posted February 16, 2007 12:57 PM              

BTW I can't be too harsh on Cancers in egneral - my two closest friends are Cancers!

Dew - what was your name before?

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I do but then get loads of shhh for it and my Cancerian sensitivity cannot handle it.
How the beep does ur pisces moon deal?

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I get loads of shhhh too. How does my Pisces moon deal? Usually by curling up in a fetal position in a dark room and crying big, snotty Fishy tears. LOL. Seriously I have a very thin skin, and I don't handle some of the backlash I get for my gemini lip as well as some might think. But I've learned over the years that you have to be true to yourself and not spend your life trying to please people - it's the only way to get people to respect you. Sometimes people lash out at me in ways that make me anxious and nervous, but I've learn to cope with that. Most of the time it's not that person that really hurting me - it's my Pisces moon being reminded of the past times I've been hurt. I just tell myself that the past and present aren't the same thing (not always easy to believe for a water moon), and someone else's lashing out at me is most likely an irrational response on their part, a reflection fo their own issues, and that's not my problem. So I just detach from their reaction to me (again, easier said than done at times LOL). Sometimes, yes, someone says something I probably need to hear - but mostly, those people are more thoughtful and rational in how they react to me.

I also learned that it's OK if someone doesn't like me and doesn't like what I say. What's important is I like and respect myself and that I speak honestly and according to the principles that are important to me. It's not that I don't feel anxiety over things like being accepted and being liked - I definitely do. I just know that my priority is to my own sanity, well-being and happiness.

posted February 16, 2007 01:51 PM              

I mean those words are something we all know but need to be reminded of from time to time.
I'm sure your Cancer friends love you. We need a little reassurance from time to time.
I always thought Gems were pee'd off by Cancers though.

My name was Peace, I think.
Look forwards to your other posts.

posted February 16, 2007 02:18 PM              

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I always thought Gems were pee'd off by Cancers though.

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Nah. Gems tend to like Cancers' quirkiness, even if we often don't get all teh wtery, emotional stuff. It's the Taureans who get our Gem undies all in a bunch. LOL.

posted February 16, 2007 05:04 PM              

but, I must be the only strong cancer you guys know because I don't get easily bother or ****** or hurt.The only person that can really hurt me by doing the minimal things is whoever is a partner of mine, or who i want a relationship with.everyone else I have tolerance for, see I am above because you are all kids. HAHA the fact that one person can get annoyed because "too many posts" makes me laugh the same way a baby trying to walk for the first time and falling all over the place and getting frustrated, it really doesn't amount to much.
It may be that i have dealt with a lot bigger issues in my life that the small things just don't get to me anymore... but if the man I like does something little to bother me then I am cring like a stupid baby and dueling on it... or if I loose my writings because my computer crashes, then i am lost again... or pictures.

posted February 17, 2007 01:22 PM              

exactly , i had something of the same when i saw this heading .
but well , you are fast turning to be a fav. poster here .
i think , i tend to like the gem talk .

oh and the thread was a cool one , thanks !

posted February 17, 2007 08:50 PM              

Both my mom and dad are cancers, and sometimes they drive me nuts.

I'm more in the persuit of learning things and thinking, afterall i'm rally high functioning i find they are always in need of emotional support then anything else.