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Topic: no marriage or children in sight
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thedividedsky
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posted February 19, 2007 09:50 PM
 
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jenfullmoon
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posted February 20, 2007 12:21 PM
Bad luck/avoidance: Saturn/Venus connections, particularly opposition and square. If either is tied to the seventh house, I suspect that's a double whammy. (Guess who speaks from experience.)Planets in the areas that aren't too into commitment, like Aqua/Sag, could be the "not interested in commitment" planets. Maybe having a less nurture-y moon- fire/air vs. water/earth. About children, I'd guess afflictions to the 5th house planets/rulers, and/or possibly the 4th house planets/rulers, maybe squares to the moon. Saturn in Leo doesn't necessarily mean you won't have kids, but it means that being a parent (or being their kid- I'm a Saturn in Leo and my dad was one too) is going to be very authoritarian and difficult.
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naiad
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posted February 20, 2007 12:34 PM
hi...i don't know how to apply all this information to my birth chart. i would be so grateful if someone here wouldn't mind looking at my chart and explaining what it shows about children. i have a son, but it feels as though he should have some siblings, that i should have more (one or more?) at some time. thanks very much.   IP: Logged |
Rev. Alice
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posted February 20, 2007 01:53 PM
The person may simply have graduated from that phase of spiritual development. One marker for that is having Aries-Libra intercepted.------------------
You are a blessing and you are blessed.
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Shining Ray
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posted February 20, 2007 03:43 PM
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tra929
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posted February 20, 2007 04:23 PM
I have saturn in my 7th house. Is this why I have no luck with relationships. Here is my chart if you can please look at it. http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&&cid=bi8fileIqB8Sy-u1152279439 thanks IP: Logged |
virgotaurustaurus
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posted February 20, 2007 04:56 PM
Hm...personally I'm not interested in kids/having kids, although if you looked at my chart you'd think I would be, what with my Taurus in there, and some 5th house stuff, IC in Cancer? I think? But my Venus is squared by 3 planets and Chiron. And my reason why I don't want kids is that I feel I have life purposes that I think are beyond children, and I'm finally seeing my 8th house Neptune may be part of that, and Uranus in Sag. Also, that Uranus is in my 7th house, and marriage is not an interest of mine either! In fact, I have Venus in 5th square Uranus in 7th. Mine isn't so much me feeling like I'm not progressing towards adulthood, I just have other responsibilities I need to take care of, other ones I want, and a different life desired than what I see as conventional, getting married having kids and settling down. IP: Logged |
wilsontc
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posted February 21, 2007 12:52 AM
Tracey,Since you have Saturn (duty, also structure) focused in the 7th house (relationships), you want "structured" serious relationships...which take time to develop. Also with Venus (relationships) near the 11th house (friends), want to have "friendly" relationships...close but not TOO close. Since this is VERY different from what your focus on getting a "structured" relationship, there is a challenge on having a relationship that gives you some space but also has solidity and structure. Relating, Tim IP: Logged |
thedividedsky
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posted February 21, 2007 08:59 AM
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wilsontc
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posted February 21, 2007 11:38 AM
sky,This sounds reasonable to me. Wherever the Moon is in our chart indicates an area of "change". With Moon focused in the 7th house (relationships), either your relationships change or your attitude toward your relationships changes. Changeably, Tim IP: Logged |
pearlized
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posted February 21, 2007 10:43 PM
I have Saturn in the 7th and its not a death sentence! Never was one of those girls who dated in high school or college always wondered when "he" would come along. I kissed a few frogs before finding my prince but i did. I know the traditional view on Saturn in Leo in 7th is to marry for money or stability usually to an older person. I guess my hubby brings that to the relationship he is a Cap although 3 years younger than me.
I waiver about children. Im not the type to daydream or get all excited about kids even thoguh i do like them. That would be a huge step for me and a total life changer.
I have Gemini Moon in the 5th.
Moon sextile Venus
Saturn square Uranus
Moon opposition Neptune
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cristiname
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posted February 22, 2007 09:36 AM
no-no... to marry for money or stability is the TRAP of Saturn in the 7th! Tim is right, of course. I have the same combination - a leo saturn in the 7th and a capricorn! venus conj sun in the 11th. it's not impossible having rel - I've had one, for 9 years! it started when i was 17 and in time my priorities have changed - that's all. I'm a lot wiser now and I want something else. (that's why I ended it). it is harder bc, i guess, Saturn wants something that will last a long time, something serious, dependable, something you can count on. experience tells us that you don't find that sort of a relationship just around any corner, any day. one must wait, and NOT compromise. I believe saturn in leo warns about marrying for something other than love - I feel that trap; I got along really well with a guy I didn't love - he was responsible, emotionally mature, a reliable partner... I was very close of staying with him. Compromising love, that is... luckly, it didn't work that way... so... don't dispair! there's 4 mld men in the world; I'm sure there's a few of them responsible and mature enough for us girls  just don't settle! don't settle for the easy way! IP: Logged |
tra929
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posted February 22, 2007 09:51 AM
I totally agree before being single I was with someone for 8 years he was a cancer but I started dating him when I was 21. I grew up and wanted diffrent things even though I loved him I wasn't in love and I promised myself that I will never settle no matter how safe I feel with that person. IP: Logged |
pearlized
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posted February 22, 2007 11:55 AM
I also read with the Saturn in 7th placement not to get married before your solar return! I actually did get married before the solar return.IP: Logged |
Hexxie
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posted February 22, 2007 12:21 PM
Hi there the dividedsky~I'm right there with you! Ok, so I don't have bad luck in relationships, but I do not plan on getting married anytime soon and I do not want children at all. I've been with my significant other for 7 yrs this April and we've been living together for just over 2 yrs now. Definitely the Venus/Saturn aspects (I have the square) and nothing in my 7th house (Sagi on my 7th house cusp LOL). Also my Venus/Uranus conjunction makes me feel like it's ok to be in a somewhat non-traditional relationship. I think that somehow our collective human minds got caught in the 50's stereotype of relationships. Now we're in the midst of change of the 'norm' so a lot of us think it's ok to just not marry anymore. But I think some people through their upbringing still feel the subconscious urges for the routine marriage comitment ceremonies. Here's my chart just as an example of a person who dosen't want kids hehe (I would be ok with a small non-traditional marriage type ceremony at some later point in my life though):  **Check out the t-square! I blame that  IP: Logged |
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