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DayDreamer
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posted February 23, 2007 06:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In marriage who would I be most compatible with?


[check synastry charts below]

Thanx

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OzMeg222
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posted February 23, 2007 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Only you know how you feel, I had really really good synastry with my ex but never truly loved him and grew to loathe him.

I have fairly nice synastry with my current lover but have never felt so deeply or clicked so well with anyone in my life.

You can't judge that stuff through astrology, but it is fun to look at and analyse. Don't make a marriage decision based on anything other than your feelings.

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DayDreamer
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posted February 23, 2007 06:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont think I could find a lasting relationship based on my feelings.

Feelings come and go. They're fleeting. They're not constant.

What I see is that there is potential with both of these guys. Its just a matter of picking one to see if marriage is in the cards.

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posted February 23, 2007 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think that they both look decent for you.

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DayDreamer
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posted February 23, 2007 07:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah...I just feel like I need to pick one and focus on it.

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted February 23, 2007 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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and his Libra rising annoys me. I have a feeling hes probably talking to other girls...all friends off course, right? Huh ya right!

LOLOLOL! Its harmless! We are loyal people, we just are very outgoing and flirting is a sport. Nothing more nothing less.

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His mother said she'd feel sorry for the woman who marries him because he works so much

errrm dont go for this one...u want someone who will pay attention to u, even if its at least in the beginning. Plus if the first one showed interest, thats important too.

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Dulce Luna
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posted February 24, 2007 12:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dunno but I see the communication with boy #2 being off tha hook!

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cristiname
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posted February 24, 2007 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cristiname     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DayDreamer

I can see how an Aqua-Sagg with a Virgo Saturn would be so straight to the point (even about such a thing as marriage), and I can also understand why you don't trust (?) your Pisces Moon to decide.

BUT that Venus in your 7th should make you idealistic about relationships - or just plain intelectual, since it's in sag - you wanna "marry" cos that's what you're supposed to do?!? - but then comes Neptune in the same 7th - how can a dreamer be so darn pragmatic and ... cold about love?!? no way!

That Virgo Saturn being retrograde in ur 5th means ur over-analyzing and over-organizing romance, BUT that NN tells me you should give a little. take a step back, relax, enjoy - accept your own responsabilities, but accept what you cannot control! (like emotions, maybe? giving and not receiving in return? giving for the sake of giving!)

Jupiter is where your answers lie - so how about you find love first (leo), and then marry?

just me, wondering...

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LILYGIRL
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posted February 24, 2007 03:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sag Venus (Fire) is not necessarily about being "intellectual" as much as independence, equality between partners, freedom and mutual respect.

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DayDreamer
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posted February 24, 2007 06:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BornUD, the libra rising boy #1 is contradictory almost...he can be upfront with his feelings and emotions, which I believe are premature...and then he can be indecisive and act like he has no interest in me.

Im wondering if boy#2 is only into his work as much as he is because he's not in a relationship...hes a little odd to me cuz I cant figure him out...must be because his Sun/Venus are in my 12th house...Is that a bad placement to have in synastry?

DL, you're right communication I thought was better with boy#2...we could talk about a wide variety of subjects. I dunno if he even wants to get married...hes too content living single, or so he seems...still I think hes going to get married soon...his parents wouldnt allow it!!!

Cristiname,
Good observation on some parts...on others ure off....Im idealistic about alot of things including relationships. Umm I wanna marry not because thats what Im supposed to do but because thats what I want to do. Its just a matter of finding the right guy and soon before they're all taken.

I didnt think I was being cold about love. I think Neptune conj Venus could make me easily fall in love. I just dont have the patience for dating or courting or any superficial boyfriend girlfriend cr@p...Im sick of it. I want to get married. Now that might have something to do with Saturn in the 5th?

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darkdreamer
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posted February 24, 2007 06:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Daydreamer,

why do you want to get married?
Are you in love with those guys?
Or are you looking for some kind of security?
I hope I don`t offend you with these questions, but to me it almost seems like you have "switched off" your heart.
It`s true, feelings can change, they can be fleeting, but shouldn`t be there some feelings / love in the beginning?

DD

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DayDreamer
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posted February 24, 2007 06:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldnt marry a guy only because Im in love with him...Of course love has to be part of the equation...which is easy for me cuz i fall in love easily. And of course I want security, and marriage does bring that.

I have to say Im a little amused that people think it seems like Ive switched off my heart. I wouldnt consider guys I dont have any feelings for...there are some level of feelings involved...and more feelings could easily develop. I prefer not to waste my time and invest feelings with someone Im not married to or going to marry.

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posted February 24, 2007 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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BornUD, the libra rising boy #1 is contradictory almost...he can be upfront with his feelings and emotions, which I believe are premature...and then he can be indecisive and act like he has no interest in me.

Interesting, I don't know if thats his Libra asc because when I like someone the world knows it. Which isn't always a good thing.

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. I just dont have the patience for dating or courting or any superficial boyfriend girlfriend cr@p...Im sick of it. I want to get married

I think there is nothing wrong with that as long as it is what you want, which you made clear. I mean it would be a different situation if u felt u had to but if you want to then go for it. I think you should base it more on how u click with each person initially. I mean I have some wonderful synastry with people I totally abhor.

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I prefer not to waste my time and invest feelings with someone Im not married to or going to marry.

I have the same mentality which given my culture makes me a freak show. Seriously for a 19 year old Uki chick that mentality is medieval and most the guys I know don't share it. Thats why my bf's and serious crushes have all been from the Indian subcontinent. They seem to get me...which is all wonderful but the parents don't share the same mentality...either parents....mine think im "just dating" and I don't know what theirs think but they don't like it. LOL well u know my story DD. All power to you, i definately get where you're coming from and its A ok.

I find dating for the sake of just dating and then moving on uber superficial (just for me). Its cool if everyone else does it. On the one hand I think I should and maybe i would be happier if I did (gemini libra asc)but my Scorpio moon conj PLuto and Taurus venus in the 8th keep me from being too mutable. LOL.

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DayDreamer
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posted February 25, 2007 01:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok Im gonna try to put the synastries up....

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DayDreamer
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posted February 25, 2007 01:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ive got issues with the T-squares in both synastries.

What does it mean to have your planets in someone elses 2nd and 12th house?...

Boy#2 & Me:

Boy#1 & Me:

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cristiname
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posted February 26, 2007 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cristiname     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes, lilly,

"independence, equality between partners, freedom and mutual respect." - these are abstracts, intelectual "names" (fancy words) we sometimes give to realities...

in actual reality, we have behaviors - which can be observed as an outsider or felt and interact with as an insider. there is no *independence* - no such "thing" you can't touch or weight it. there are some behaviors that when repeted, we interpret them as a pattern, than as an attitude or a principle.

question DD - once you are married, what exactly do you imagine yourself doing? what exactly is *marriage* going to be like? the most important word being *exactly*.

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LILYGIRL
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posted February 26, 2007 02:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like I said...and this is coming from a Sag rising Sag Juno married for 17 years with a Sag rising composite:

Sag Venus (Fire) is not necessarily about being "intellectual" as much as independence, equality between partners, freedom and mutual respect.

In my marriage they're not fancy words. They're pretty basic needs for long term success. And probably well understood by most in search of and honoring those things in their marriages.

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DayDreamer
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posted February 26, 2007 04:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cristiname, umm if i answer your question will you answer mine?

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DayDreamer
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posted February 26, 2007 05:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok I'll start with Boy #2

His Sun/Venus is in my 12th house...there was alot of unspoken communication...and a two, three episodes where hed actually stare into my eyes...for like 6-7 seconds, which seemed like forever. Communication was good...but he'd always be the one to end things. His mercury in Pisces conjunct my moon, but its involved in a grand cross with both our saturns, and my neptune...yikes, so I was a bit confused, and may still be about him...

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Sun 12th house
The placement of the Sun in twelfth house of a partner's chart suggests a somewhat intuitive ability to communicate. You are well "tuned in" to him, and there is a somewhat subconscious connection. You may be something of a "help-mate" to the other, especially with regard to understanding life as a whole. Frequently, this placement brings a complete change of perspective to this person whose twelfth house is visited.

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Venus 12th house
Venus in partner's twelfth house denotes close psychic and emotional link in the relationship. You are sympathetic and compassionate toward each other, and this may be the basis of the attraction.
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html


His love for work looks like it has to do with Saturn conj Vesta in his 6th house in Gemini...He works for a communications company that requires some traveling, what do you know!!!!...

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Vesta conjunct Saturn. These two energies coming together can make you as precise and focused as a laser. Your focus can help build a solid structure. If you feel stressed out from overworking, seek a balance between responsibilities and personal wholeness.
http://www.artcharts.com/aspects/vesta/conSaturn.html

I really like these ones...

His Mars/Jupiter conjunct my Mercury/Mars/Sun
His Moon sextiles my Venus/Neptune
His Sun/Venus sextile my Sun/Mars/Merc/Asc/DC and trine my Jupiter
His Moon trine my Pluto
His Juno conjunct my Venus/Neptune
His P.Fort conjunct my Sun
His Ascendant conjunct my Venus
His S.Node conjunct my P.Fort

Our synastry forms a Mystic Rectangle, a Kite and a Grand Cross...what ever that may mean.

Anyone??

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DayDreamer
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posted February 26, 2007 06:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Boy #1

I like what houses our planets fall into:

My Sun/Mars/Mercury/Pallas in his 4th house.
My Moon in his 5th house
My Jupiter in his 10th
His Moon/Mars in my 4th
His Sun, Venus in my 5th

Some interesting aspects:

My Pluto/Vertex conjunct his Ascendant
My Saturn/North Node conjunct his Sun
His Venus trine my Venus
His Jupiter/Uranus sextile my Sun/Mars/Merc/Pallas/Asc/DC, trine my Jupiter
His Mercury trine my Merc/Mars/Asc, sextile Jupiter
His Pluto sextile my Venus
His Venus sextie my Pluto
His Juno conjunct my Chiron
His Moon/Mars opposite my Sun
His Sun opposite my Moon
I dont like the T-cross involving his Saturn, my Mercury and Jupiter
His Moon Quincunx my Moon...

something interesting I found on Moon/Moon Quincunx in synastry...not as bad as I initially thought:

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Quincunxes are probably the most confusing aspect in synastry. They tend to get a bad rap, which is partially quite well deserved. However, an actual close quincunx between compatible planets such as Venus-Venus, Moon-Moon, Sun-Sun, or ASC-ASC is actually a very positive connection on the one hand, in addition to the problems of the quincunx on the other hand. Quincunx planets have a "6-8" relationship with each other in astrology, which basically indicates an energy that is more heavy, "karmic," and dysfunctional. The really unusual thing about a quincunx is that a close quincunx (of three degrees and fifteen minutes or less) between basically 'soft' planets actually give some very strong compatibility to counter-balance the problems of the quincunx signs. I have to thank the Magi Society's research for helping me to eventually put this puzzle together. Venus quincunx Venus within three degrees? Thank them lucky stars.

http://www.astrologyforthesoul.com/vemamereln.html

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cristiname
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posted February 27, 2007 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cristiname     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes.

will you obey my decission? (will you actually marry the one I tell you to?)

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DayDreamer
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posted February 27, 2007 03:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cristiname -

Of course I will obey you and marry the guy you tell me too. What kind of question is that???!!

Now Obey this:

DON'T POST IN MY THREAD ANYMORE.

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posted February 28, 2007 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cristiname     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
(public forum. YOU ASKED!)

grow up!!!!

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DayDreamer
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posted February 28, 2007 05:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im looking for astrological advice on synastries - one way to check for compatibility - to help me make a decision.

I did not ask you to tell me who I must marry.

I did not ask for the advice you are attempting to give me. Im not looking for that kind of advice. Do you realize how annoying that is?

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question DD - once you are married, what exactly do you imagine yourself doing? what exactly is *marriage* going to be like? the most important word being *exactly*.

Why did you ask me this? "Exactly"? What are you trying to get at? Seems like you have issues with marriage and relationships...possibly with another Aquarius?

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cristiname
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posted March 01, 2007 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cristiname     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was trying to suggest you are being unrealistic about it. and now I'm trying to suggest you are being abusive. you don't seem to know much about relating to people.
that's all. have a nice life!

oh... and, you're welcome!

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