posted February 25, 2007 12:51 PM              

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posted February 25, 2007 04:13 PM              

I think that there were a strong influence of the bad transit of Uranus (square) with her Moon. The exact aspect was in January and February this year, and later in October / November was retrograde and the difference from the full aspect was about 1 degree. Fortunately, that aspect passed now.
There are two other things too: Moon in Virgo is very vulnerable and she has a bad Moon - Uranus aspect in her natal chart too. It is 8* difference but I would count it as a square because it is an applicative aspect. Maybe it is why she felt the same transit more stronger then other people, especially because Moon square Uranus in natal charts gives too much sensitivity to astral influences.

Also, about Pluto in 4th house. It is a person who feels different kinds of radiations from the earth very strongly. So, maybe she have to move to an other place, maybe somewhere closer to nature. I think she extremely needs a peace, inner and outer one, not only because of her state now, but because of her whole personality.

And at the end, she is Leo Ascendant. Maybe her Moon square Uranus rebels against her ambitious Sun, a ruler of her Ascendant in 10th house? Double fixed signs are maybe often too hard on themselves. Maybe she needs a big change in her life, bigger then a moving to other place?

Predrag
Leo/Scorpio
Who was so ambitious with his Mars in Virgo in 10th house, but his Neptune in 12th house in square with Moon in Cancer taught him an extremely hard but golden lecture about a life.

There is a part of explanation about Uranus transit from cafeastrology.com:

posted February 28, 2007 12:26 PM              

so about deep emotions I am guessing. maybe unconvential?

posted March 01, 2007 10:00 PM              

I truly feel she is a good person. she had a moment where she made some mistakes and she actually lingers on any mistake she makes, especially the big one she made a few years back. she is ashamed of being anything but great in some situations. even ashamed of fits she had when she was 10. she is a beautiful soul but a soul that needs to be reminded that perfection is impossible. not to nit pick so much (something with the moon?) again, so sincere and almost naive in her strive for perfection. It is cute, but she shouldn't be hard on herself.

posted March 03, 2007 05:57 PM              

She can't accept civil ethical standards and conventions.

It seems she is afraid she will lose her ego and her personal power if she accepts something form outer world?

I think she needs soul search because I see that as extremely important to her to learn to accept compassion and sympathy in herself, as HER hidden, unrevealed features. She must find it!

There is an interesting point of view - ego should be made stronger firstly and then it should be left (deserted). It is quite normal because one can't leave his ego (as a sign of real and higher maturity) before his ego is not enough developed. I understand leaving ego as understanding that ego doesn't represent our whole being. So, she has to develope her nice talents.

About your communication with her - you can't be so succesful by words - rather try by acts, withuot words. It can be a learning process for you too. As a Scorpio, you are very strong and have a strenth and energy that maybe can help her.
Go to countryside with her, somewhere close to pure nature... Give her more chances to have a peace, to feel nature, to relax...

Similar as you wrote, I think it is dificult for her to understand herself deeper. She should have more inner peace that she can start soul search - without that any result is wrong. And you and she have to understand that we can not understand ourselves through our dreams, our thoghts, but through our relations to others!! (A Chinese saying is that water is a mirror for a bull but other people are a mirror for a man)

About her 7th house (of marriage) she has Jupiter there, a nice planet that can bring a wise, honest and good partner that can be her teacher too. But her Jupiter is in bad aspect with her ruler, Sun! Also, ruler of her 7th house, Uranus is in 5th house (marriage based on sincere love) but is in bad aspect with her Moon. On the other side, Uranus is in good aspect with Mercury, that can tell about her partner, as very clever and creative person. Also, Jupiter in 7th house has two nice sextiles, with Uranus (good changes, accepting a risk) and with Mercury (nice intelect). So, she hasn't got a stable chart regarding marriage.

Yes, bad Uranus transit has passed, but you have to know, she has that bad aspect in her natal chart, so, it is her temptation during her life.
In fact, she has to understand that there is nothing to be worried in this world, nothing to fight with, no reason to be rebelious against anything - instead of all that my opinion is one should make his efforts to acheive his peace, to free its creativity and express his/her talents, to love people, to help people. Life is too short...

Just to add: now she has a transit of Chiron over her Descendant and later will have over her Jupiter in 7th house - I am not sure how that could be interpreted, but think it could have good meanings.

posted March 03, 2007 06:16 PM              

when saturn went thru my first house, it was a very difficult time for me, esp bcoz it also opposed my sun and then later was conj my NN. i see sth similar happening here. saturn was first conj her asc, then sq her moon, and then sq her NN. i personally feel saturn transits r real tough. and she has neptune and uranus too.

hope this gets over soon

posted March 04, 2007 05:01 PM              

you say

"too extroverted"

which can be true in certian circumstances to an extent, but she is largely quite shy. I am sure you have seen those shy leo types. She is not as extrovert as some leos can be.

She seems to be learning to let go of her ego. She has always been willing to sacrifice self for others since I have known her and loves to be helpful. I think with those negative traits, they may have described her a while ago, before I knew her, but I see a person who looks like she has come a long way. I know she has made mistakes in the past, but I think she has learned quickly. From what she has told me about her history, a lot, she had made many signifigant steps.

I would do things for her, but remember, she is thousands of miles away right now. All I can do is talk and sometimes send her things of meaning. Her next step is to detach from material things. She has a lot. And material to her, more and more, is what has personal meaning to her not so much money. also, not to feel sorry for herself. to be sad, sure, but not woe is me, though it has been a very TOUGH time. And, she is very expressive, private, but very emotional. haha "she always says "you know how I am, I am an emotional girl

she has done well with life lessons, she just needs to not stress as much. her mom worries about it and asks me sometimes about that, when I was visiting.

and some transits connecting with personal planets can make her a little to nit picky. I think it almost hurts her feelings if things aren't in their place. she likes the home to look nice.

posted March 08, 2007 01:23 AM              

She drops subtle hints about marriage type things I should say. Never anything up front. However, it is something neither of us wants to or need to concentrate on quite yet.

thanks again.

hopefully the transits look good for her and luck increases.

if anyone sees this, how is late march into April for general life? health, fortunate (luck), ect?

posted March 11, 2007 12:43 PM              

I met her (early) feb. 2006. We became very close towards the end of March and just plain hit it off in April increasing as the days went on until that one night on April 30th her b day.

around 2005 was kind of a rough time for her. She was in France, so I did not know she existed at this point in my life, haha.

we got into a little mini heated discussuion earlier this week..not really an argument even. But I really wanted her to see my point of view so I got heated. she sent me an apology in an email though which was sweet. she really comes through like that, it is amazing. the second I am the least bit annoyed/doubtful, even if I don't state it, she just has that magic to make everything better, just naturally. I don't know how she does it. she is good at self analysis I think is part of it, for both positive and negative traits.

she never likes to say we were in an argument by the way. the few times I said "what an argument we had" or something like that shes like IT WASN'T AN ARGUMENT!! haha. debate, disagreement about an issue, okay hun, haha. not an argument. Her idea of an argument is different than mine. since we have never raised voices, we have not had one. I understand that. I am just more liberal in the usuage of the word I guess

I have a feeling this march will be magical. I am planning many romantic things to do when she comes, breakfast in bed. a rose on my bed when she first arrives (I will hint for her to check my room and maybe make a scavenger hunt around the apartment to give her the hint that this will always be her home too), picnic on the green across from my apartment. I can't wait. I have a feeling things will go well and I had a feeling transits would also happen to be good.