posted February 25, 2007 12:57 PM              

Libra male 1 has shown an obvious interest in me, and as soon as I realized that I started cutting the ties because he began acting totally creepy. He also had little interest in me until I began dating my Sagittarius. He'd stop me in the hallways and not stop asking me tons of questions about what I've been doing, what I'm going to be doing, etc. I would be very short with him and then leave. About 2 months ago I was home on winter break and he IMed me asking me to go visit him, 3 hours away from my house. If I did I would have gotten there at 5 AM, and he claimed he'd stay up. I told him no and to start respecting that I have a boyfriend. He didn't talk to me until the semester began, where he'd stare at me every time he saw me and then try to ask me the 20 questions. One day I was between classes with no time and he found me standing around scarfing down a granola bar, and he wanted me to walk with him to a class of his. I said no I don't have time I have a class, and he got extremely angry and quiet and glared at me before walking away. Then a few nights later, he IMed me demanding notes from a class we're both in, and he wanted them NOW, despite that it was Saturday night at 1 AM, and I told him absolutely not and he claimed I was flipping out over it and has since not talked to me, but he consistently glares at me like he wants to choke me.

Libra male 2 latched onto me in a class we have together in order to have a lab partner. All seemed well besides his charm which seemed totally fake and his bit of overbearing ego (he also made some comment about how he didn't like that the class was 80% female). Whatever, I said to myself. Well, he completely left me in the dark about a lab project we had to do, leaving me to do ALL of it, and I couldn't even find him for days on end. This, to me, was ultimately rude and total betrayal and I eventually did find him and I let him know that in no uncertain terms, and he pulled the "so you hate me now?" thing and made up a bunch of excuses that I could totally see through. He could not stand that I would see him as totally irresponsible and manipulative to get what he wants with as little work as possible and claimed he'd make it up to me. I just laughed and knew he wouldn't, and of course, 3 days later he was totally irresponsible again, then wondered why he felt my wrath. He also makes sure he sits right next to me in class and glances over at me repeatedly throughout class despite that he should know I want absolutely nothing to do with him. He has also made it quite apparent that he REALLY likes me. Neither Libra really gave a crap that I am already taken, they think they still have the right to cross all my boundaries.

I understand to a degree that some Libras will lie and make up stuff so they get what they want and don't have to deal with conflict in relationships, but this obsession thing? And staring? And not letting go? I know Libra 1 has 3 planets in Scorpio which is probably why he's being psycho obsessive/possessive with an obvious anger management issue. But the not letting go thing is so apparent in both, and I'm pretty sure Libra 2 has no Scorpio. I notice they also both have the "I'm so great, look at me " thing that would make you think Leo, but it's more the vanity thing.

posted February 25, 2007 04:43 PM            

We form partnerships yes, but then a true balanced Libra always knows to let his partner go if she doesn't wanna stay in the relationship or if she is getting hurt but wants to stay just for his sake.

posted February 26, 2007 05:33 PM              

Xodian, it's so true, we all do have rotten apples haha! I was actually a tad shocked to find unbalanced Libras as I have a great male Libra friend. So I know what you're talking about, how a balanced one will let a relationship go!