posted February 26, 2007 12:17 PM              

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Here's a topic I'd thought I'd bring to the mix. I've discovered recently that my partner of 8 1/2 years has been cheating on me for months. He has had many a failed relationship and I got to thinking if there is something, perhaps specifically, in one's chart that would point to this tendency. I don't believe this is a first time for him.

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posted February 26, 2007 12:39 PM            

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mudmama ~

Sadly this is a common question…..
Have you looked at other threads on the subject?? You can google the string “site:linda-goodman.com infidelity” or something similar…..
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/002485.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000860.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/011459.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001922.html

But in the end, it all depends on the emotional maturity of the person, not on their astrological chart.

Zala

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posted February 26, 2007 12:56 PM              

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I'm sorry to hear that mudmama

Venus aspecting Uranus is often a suspect, but I believe they're more likely to leave their lover for someone else, rather than cheat.

Take a look at the Moon, as security, or insecurity plays a large role in cheating.

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posted February 26, 2007 12:57 PM              

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Thanks Zala, looks like some good reading.

"it all depends on the emotional maturity of the person"

sadly, that nails it.

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Sun: Libra
Asc: Libra
Moon: Capricorn
Merc: Scorpio
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Virgo

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posted February 26, 2007 01:11 PM              

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Sending some positivity your way, mudmama

Cheating is one of the hardest things to deal with in a relationship.. especially one that's been going on for so long.

I'm sorry.

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posted February 27, 2007 08:38 AM              

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Thanks shirty

I've since discovered/realised that this isn't about cheating per se, it's about his need to "rescue". I was once damaged and in need of help and now he's found someone new to rescue as I have healed. This tendency I have found to be a recurring theme in his chart.

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posted February 27, 2007 11:05 AM            

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I agree with the emotional maturity having to do with infidelity.. It also have to do with a person's moral values..

The need to heal someone else seems to mean that he needs some healing the most, as people that feels the need to help sometimes deep inside they can be insecure and wounded. But it's just some cases of course..
There are people that feels the need to heal those they love, and people that feels the need to FIND someone to heal. The first case is normal, coz when we love someone we would protect them from any wounds (also, feeling that you want to heal people when you see them is also normal, if you are a caring person).. but the second case seems a bit weird (thinking "I need to find someone to heal is weird lol).. ^_^; Some people needs to heal someone coz that can make them feel that they can also heal themselves through that..
But personally, I wouldn't think that the need to heal someone should justify any infidelity.. You don't have to be someone's lover to heal someone, right?

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posted February 27, 2007 12:32 PM            

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i also agree. it's a personal choice. free will. personal responsability.

leave! you deserve better!

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posted February 27, 2007 12:36 PM              

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we're leaving because he is kicking me and our small child out to move this new one in.

I know we're better off but when a child is involved it's always more difficult

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posted February 27, 2007 11:32 PM              

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I feel for you, mudmama.

Thinking good thoughts of you.

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posted February 28, 2007 02:00 PM            

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oh, gosh! I'm sorry!

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posted February 28, 2007 02:08 PM            

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mudmama ~

My heart hurts for you and your little one But it's best to leave -- I'm raising a child alone too. imho it's better for the child to have one parent who loves them unconditionally than two unhappy parents, one of whom can't be bothered with them.....

It's sad that some people only feel "redeemed" and "worthy" in themselves only if they can "rescue" someone who's worse off than they are..... it's also sad that your soon-to-be ex apparently continues to repeat this pattern that brings him only grief and separation..... and now that you're fine (healed) he can't feel better or more powerful than you.....

Zala

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posted March 07, 2007 12:15 AM              

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http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/signs-of-infidelity.html

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posted March 07, 2007 12:21 AM              

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Venus Conjunction Uranus?

Aquarius in general?

these ppl love freedom too much. Just kind of dissapointing because I'd love to date those humans. Never works out... And, they're so attractive to others.

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posted March 08, 2007 02:08 AM              

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I'm so sorry, mudmama. I completely sympathize with you. Raising a child alone takes some courage that I don't have. I'm sending you a cyber hug now. *hugs*

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posted March 08, 2007 03:32 AM              

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From my own experience infidelity can be linked with Uranus having an aspect to moon or/and venus especially in air signs (Gemini is also a good flirt and unofortunately I've known a few cheaters as well)

Pisces are too sweet to say no so they might find themselves in a situation they don't even want to be in.

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