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Topic: Question for Tim, or anyone else who can give a theory...
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CrankyCap Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: May 2009
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posted March 04, 2007 03:42 PM
Can someone give me some insight as to why, why, why, WHY I can't let this guy go???? 7 years already!!! I just can't drop it! Is it karmic??? WTH is going on with us??? I have loved other guys since him, but never the same way. This man has been the single most influential, inspirational person of my adult life. WHY???Personal Planets - Me Sun Cap 11 deg. Moon Pis 10 deg. Merc Sag 21 deg. Venus Sco 26 deg. Mars Cap 16 deg. 1/2/79 6:43 PM, Pontiac, MI. Him Sun Tau 26 deg. Moon Tau 21 deg. Merc Tau 5 deg. Venus Ari 15 deg. Mars Ari 15 deg. 5/17/77, Yonkers, NY. time unknown IP: Logged |
Motherkonfessor unregistered
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posted March 04, 2007 08:45 PM
Honey, I wish I could offer any assistance...because i have one of these too, and its been 10 years for me... sisters in karmic strangleholds, MK IP: Logged |
wilsontc unregistered
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posted March 04, 2007 11:45 PM
Cranky,You have DOUBLE Pluto-Venus connections (his Pluto to your Venus, your Venus to his Pluto) since Pluto is the energy of control and Venus is the energy of relationships, each person tries to stay "in control" of the relationship. At extreme levels this results in STRONG obsession. You also have Neptune-Venus connections. Neptune is the energy of "idealism" so you tend to idealize the relationship you had. It might help to consider that it couldn't POSSIBLY been as "ideal" as you thought it was. And then, consider everyday mentally (through meditation) giving up control of the relationship. This may help you to detach from it. Answering, Tim IP: Logged | |