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Topic: Synastry: who feels what
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awatson4
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posted March 09, 2007 12:10 AM
 
I have been doing synastry charts between my exes and friend, but when looking at the aspects, I noticed that I don't know who feels what from the aspect. This is especially an issue when only one person has the aspect.
Ex. his sun oppose her moon
her venus oppose her uranus
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Venus De Milo
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posted March 09, 2007 12:20 AM
you have to look at the energies of the planets involved. sun opposed moon is found in a lot of marriages, it inspires bonds, but it isn't an easy aspect... there's a strong connection and attraction, but there is also tension and the moon person will usually defer to the sun person.sun/masculine/ego/father/all encompassing/center of the solar system moon/feminine/emotions/mother/nurturing/satellite planet i think with a venus/uranus opposition there's an thrill and excitement to the relationship and the uranus person is somebody the venus person wants very much, someone perhaps elusive, but the excitement will be a quality the relationship as a whole has. IP: Logged |
tara19
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posted March 09, 2007 11:26 AM
I think with the Venus-Urnaus synastry aspect, there is a lot of excitement and a quick, intense attraction. But most times it doesn't last. The Uranus person is usually the one to lose interest first, but it can go either way. Most importantly, it's an aspect of here today in a BIG way, but it may be gone tomorrow.Cheers! Tara. IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL
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posted March 09, 2007 02:50 PM
If you look at the charts of long married folks with the VENUS URANUS aspect what you may find is that it plays out beyond a here today----possibly gone tomorrow--it would have to explain couples who stay married with the aspect. I know a couple who has been married 50 years with the aspect...and I think it manifests itself in a variety of ways...first off they are an interracial couple, they defied societal rules by marrying in the US South in the 1950s (clear rebellion); they have always had friends of the opposite gender --so the woman has men friends and the husband women friends---they are very close friends but they spend time alone and clearly and distinctly separate from each other, doing their own hobbies etc--sometimes going on their own trips etc....All aspects must be looked through the prism of what it can bring to bear that is positive and of growth and what it can bring that is detrimental or negative. Uranus is about deep electrifying change, independence, looking at thing anew and with a fresh eye. it can also be explosive and destructive...but so can Venus/Neptune.... When you consider that the outside planets move slowly, there are a gazillion perople walking around with any of a number of aspects that folks pipe up and say. "hey that indicates a cheater or a murderer or a lousy bad in bed lover.... You really have to look at the aspect in totality with the chart. Also I would not underestimate the power of aging, maturity and one's own natal chart (whatever aspects you have in your own chart MAY BE manuevered with a bit more ease-----the feeling of it, the sensibility of it is known to you). As we grow older we hopefully and usually grasp and handle things better and more thoughtfully. Venus/Uranus undoubtedly means something different to an 18 year old's life than to that of a 50 year old. Just my opinion. IP: Logged |
Belage
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 09, 2007 03:25 PM
Lilly, that interracial couple, do they have an harmonious aspect of Venus Uranus, or do they have a square or opposition aspect? I think harmonious aspects can make for longevity, but not square or opposition aspects. IP: Logged | |
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