posted March 12, 2007 04:00 AM            

Unequivocally cleared the air.

Is there anything in the composite or synastry (past present future) transits that'd explain this? I want to just let go of everything but I'd never felt so much for someone and it seemed we had something unique.
The universe had spoken, lol!
Still does inspite of all the c#$p which is infuriating.
It sounds so pathetic but I still can't believe we weren't made for one another.

posted March 12, 2007 02:22 PM            

Uranus & North Node are transiting Pisces right now, and Uranus rules sudden events, breaks, etc. It is ironic that you had to find out the hard way, as it's a classic case of Uranus at work; if only it weren't so painful for you. I'll have to take a look later for you after work, but if either of you had planets close to this transiting conjunction, it could well explain it. Both of your Suns are in Pisces (though, again, we'll have to check the orb), and might be close to this conjunction, for one.

And, astrology aside, perhaps this event was meant to teach him something. We could also look at where this Uranus/NN transit is relative to yours/his North Node as well. It sounds like he needed to do some growing, and learn some lessons here, about violating trust, etc. If he does learn his lesson and repents for his deceptive & hurtful behavior, would you take him back (allowing time for you to heal too)? It's probably a bit too soon for you to make that decision though, but I'm asking this because if you still have deep feelings for him, that is the only way this could still work out. He needs to do a whole lot of growing, understand what he did wrong, make amends & prove that he is worthy of you. If not, you have quite a bit of healing to do, girl... i'm here for you though.. we all are.

posted March 12, 2007 02:27 PM            

What about "fallout" from the Lunar Eclipse of March 3rd in the Virgo/Pisces axis??
Full Moon = Endings/Completion

posted March 12, 2007 03:16 PM            

But this thread is the killer, I received it only a few hours before the crap hit the fan w my pisces. It spun me out then and now as I think about it I can't decide if the universe is telling me something or if its just wishful thinking. Its the timing of this stuff that gets to me.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/012994.html

posted March 12, 2007 03:26 PM              

The Virgo who tried to romance me, and who was already taken for and engaged to be married was born Sept 5, 1983 (Like the exact opposite of your Pisces).

posted March 12, 2007 05:35 PM              

I have 1 question for sunshine9
how did you see where they're charts are for today and interpret them?

posted March 12, 2007 10:48 PM            

You can go to www.astro.com, put in today's date and time (or any other date and time you'd like to see), and go to either Chart Drawing (under Free Horoscopes) or Extended Chart Selection, and that should show you what was happening in the heavens at that moment in time. Or, you can pull up someone's natal chart and select "Natal Chart and Transits" (in the Extended Chart Selection) to see the natal chart with transiting planets outside the chart.

OzMeg,

I looked at your transits to see why you're undergoing all this. To begin with, you're going through your Saturn Return (happens during ages 28-30), and this can be a difficult time for people, a time of upheaval. I suggest reading this link (http://www.newage-directory.com/saturn.html) for more info on the Saturn Return. I had a thread here too where I'd posted all the information I could find on the Saturn Return, but I can't seem to find it any more; it was from sometime last year.

Back to Saturn - he's hitting your natal Moon right now in addition to your Saturn, AND approaching an opposition with your Sun, Venus & Mercury. Just talking about this Saturn transit here might explain a whole lot, never mind that Uranus/North Node chaos (which is luckily not that close to your personal planets, and in your 10th house - any changes in your job/career?), or any other transits. I'm going to focus on the Saturnian transits here:

When Saturn transits conjunct the Moon:

This transit offers the ideal opportunity for deep introspection and self-examination, as long as you do not become overly judgmental. You may feel lonely and depressed, and demands of career and/or family may create stress and financial hardship. Try not to take everything so seriously, and remember to smile at least once a day.

Saturn brings a pre-conceived ideal of perfection and righteousness. If you do not feel you live up to this ideal, you will become very self-critical and begin demanding impossible feats of yourself. If you cannot perform these feats and achieve these impossible goals, you will feel as though you are a failure. This leads to feelings of guilt and even self-destructiveness.

The Moon, however, represents your need for emotional nurturing and compassion--as well as your need and ability to give these to others. The Moon does not respond well to Saturn's demands and sometimes may become overwhelmed. Do not let this self-examination lead to self-doubt. This will in turn create a distance between you and your loved ones and prevent you from getting the nurturing that you also need so badly at this time. Eat right and get plenty of rest to avoid digestion problems.

You may feel like withdrawing from others and may encounter problems with your relationships--especially with females--and women from your past may re-enter your life now. You may feel depressed, as though you have no feelings at all. This is not a good time to make "final" decisions about your emotional life. Wait for this transit to pass so that you can then see what you have learned from it and look at life from a more positive perspective. If relationships break up during this period, don't try to mend them until this transit has passed. -- From our Life Trends report.

*Self-doubt, self-criticism, and feelings of isolation and alienation are key issues at this time. You feel like others do not really understand you, and you need to break from many of your old habits and attachments.
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When Saturn transits square the Sun (similar to the opposition), we may experience some form of disillusionment with regards to an important person in our life, or with authority figures. We may feel "left out", blocked from advancing in our chosen life path, and lacking in energy and confidence. Ego boosts don't seem to be forthcoming, or if they are, we don't see them in such a light. Some sort of buckling down is necessary at this time, and, with the square, is often perceived as limitations coming from other people or from circumstances. Financial blocks are quite possible at this time, especially if the Sun is associated with the second house by position or rulership. Physically, this is apt to be a rather low period when we don't have that extra "oomph" or drive to accomplish things. A general feeling of "slowdown" is likely, and if regular tasks seem more overwhelming than usual, it is likely due to poor spirits and lack of motivation. Sometimes, this transit is associated with problems with the teeth, bones in general, and the skin.

*Frustrations, trials, and difficult, critical decisions are key issues at this time. Others are not receptive to your ideas and they do not express interest in your work. This is a time to increase efficiency and hold back the reins.

+Circumstances may affect you in a very direct manner. The great wheel of change may appear to move at a snail's pace or grind to a halt. A time during which everything you do may seem more difficult and require great effort. Could be tough.
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When Saturn transits square Mercury (the opposition is similar in effect), we may have a pessimistic attitude towards our lives, feel misunderstood, and find ourselves in conflict with others on intellectual levels. We are likely to experience communication problems. It can appear that others are not especially sympathetic to our point of view. However, it is important that we examine how we are communicating with others, as it is likely that our words are strongly colored with negativity. It is very hard for us to see the "big picture" during this period. In some cases, we may end friendships over disagreements at this time, or come close to doing so. This is a time when we are called upon to examine our thinking patterns to find rigid or negative attitudes that have been holding us back.

*Making important and difficult decisions is a key issue of this time period. You question important issues in your life, and try very hard to come to crystal clear, simple solutions to problems.

+A lot of mental energy churning around, but it may be hard to put it to work. Circumstances may prove difficult regarding communication, writing, ideas, and the like. Things can get tight, and you may find it hard to think or study during this time
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When Saturn transits square Venus: (again, opposition similar in effect)

A time to be patient and tread a little lightly when it comes to indulgence and overextending yourself. Things could be tight. You may find it hard to appreciate or enjoy very much just now, and times may find you feeling lonely and at odds with life.

Socially and emotionally this is a period of contraction, withdrawal, cooling off, and being alone. Even if there are people who love and care about you, you question, doubt, and test their loyalty and affection. Questions of commitment or allegiance may arise. This can be a very stressful time in your personal relationships. You may distance yourself in order to evaluate what is going on. Perhaps your own ability to love, to share yourself deeply, and to be intimate with others is an issue now. If you have been neglecting the needs of your heart or your loved ones, the effects of that will be shown to you, and may precipitate a crisis. Or, there may be a parting or loss. If your love life is basically fulfilling and going well, your relationships will continue and even grow stronger through this period of testing.

Financially you're apt to be contracted and conservative as well. Fears related to money and material security are activated now. Be aware that these are mostly unfounded if you have been responsible with your money up until now. Still, this can be a period of austerity or belt-tightening and making significant financial investments or purchases would be unwise.

Positive Potentials:

Releasing self-deception and illusions regarding intimate others, and letting go of involvements which have fulfilled their purpose. Learning about self-love, self-appreciation, and what you have to give others. Recognizing the importance of love in your life and reorienting your focus to include more heart connections, intimacy, and caring. Finding the essence of love; less concern with superficial appearances.

Negative Potentials:

Questioning your own value, your ability to love and be loved. Rejecting love offered, or feeling rejected. Loneliness, humorlessness, joylessness, being overly serious.

Remedies and Suggestions:

Do not force yourself into sociability that you do not feel, in an effort to avoid the discomfort you may be experiencing. Instead, choose to find nourishing and gratifying activities that you can provide for yourself. Simplify your surroundings and create beauty through simplicity. Make a list of 100 things that you love and that give you pleasure. Do some of them. Make amends to the people in your life who you have neglected or been unloving towards.

*A sobering experience in a love relationship occurs around this time. You may be rudely shown ways in which your attitude and behavior towards a loved one is based on misguided principles.

+A time to be patient and tread a little lightly when it comes to indulgence and overextending yourself. Things could be tight. You may find it hard to appreciate or enjoy very much just now, and times may find you feeling lonely and at odds with life.
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Ok, I see now that maybe I was too quick to blame all these transits. Some of them might not be in orb. (I'm an amateur, so you'll have to bear with me )

The transiting Saturn-Neptune opposition that everyone is experiencing, is on your natal 2nd/8th house axis, and this weightiness might be due to the 8th house being affected.

I really hope you do feel better. I read your letter to him in your other thread, and you seem to have exerted so much more control that anyone can be expected to have in such circumstances; very mature. I really do think you deserve a whole lot better...

posted March 12, 2007 10:57 PM            

Transiting Uranus conjunct your natal Sun:
This may awaken you to your true purpose in life. It is a time when you will be inclined to be yourself regardless of the consequences or expectations of others. As a result, you may leave a job or a marriage because the roles they force you to play will conflict with what you really are or what you have changed into. You may find it difficult to get cooperation from others until you have made sufficient changes in your relationships.

If you know what house the Sun rules in your chart, this can be interpreted further.

posted March 13, 2007 12:37 AM            

Just a personal note to add to all that overwhelming stuff on Saturn transits (I hope that didn't bring you down). I just got thru my Saturn Return, and while it cause a real shake-up in my life, I find that I'm better off for it.

Saturn tends to be the quintessential Teacher, stripping away illusions, bringing to light any limitations, and forcing us to take stock and re-evaluate our lives. It has this spring-cleaning effect, almost like one of those sieves, where all that is unnecessary in our lives that might be impeding our progress, tends to get sifted out. This is a true passage to adulthood, and as unpleasant as it may feel, it is all for the ultimate good. I think it helps us along our soul journeys if we pay heed.

Since my Saturn Return began, I found that I had to step back from everything in my life, evaluate and re-evaluate, figure out what was good for me, and as painful as it seemed at the time, to let go of several things that were not part of who I Am. So, I've started divorce proceedings to end a marriage that was very wrong for me, gotten a new job, moved to another state, and resumed my doctoral degree that I'd put on hold previously. Pretty much anything that could change, has changed for me. But I find I like this new me so much more - feels more authentic. I'm much happier now.

So, all this is to tell you that I'm certain that whatever pain you're undergoing now, I'm most certain that you will not only heal and make it through, you'll flourish. If this was not the guy for you, it's best you found out sooner than later. There are nicer guys out there who'd love to be with a girl like you, and truly appreciate you. This is a chance for you to move on and recreate your life, start anew. Don't be blue for too long!!

posted March 13, 2007 04:06 AM              

Be brave. You still have KARMA to conjunct your PHOLUS in the next 4 days followed by a Uranus quincunx on natal Pluto, and later on a Uranus conjunction on PHOLUS. Saturn will return too. For now, Sun trines Mars and will provide the energy and courage. Mercury return is due tomorrow and will provide the additional knowledge as Mercury is trining Jupiter today for additional wisdom for your expansion.

Gracefully moving through this crisis will bring great benefit, self pity will bring crisis and further depression.

I am of your own age, please listen to me as if I am a school mate. Start doing plenty of fitness exercises/aerobics/weight training/jogging, meditations and focus on making those who unconditionally love you (example: children) happier. This will destroy bad karma through the negative transits and will open up great avenues of happiness after the Saturn return is complete.
Fitness exercises are very important as residual negativities of a physical nature are released along with any unhealthy fat.
Improved fitness/strength are a depression destroyer.

posted March 13, 2007 04:13 AM            

It is about one Piscies lady from my work. We enormously attract each other, but she is in relationship...:P
First woman in last 2 years I really like.

Can you check this, http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/013055.html

I will appriciate.

posted March 13, 2007 12:23 PM            

I don't know if this ties into the situation at the present but Uranus and the North Node are both close to his sun right now.

In other news, his neptune sits in your seventh. On the good side, this means shared tastes in all things Neptunian (the arts, movies,music). On the bad side, this could be confusion and in *some* cases, deception on the part of Neptune to the 7th house person. You know, 'he promised more than he could deliver'; 'was vague and illusive'....yada,yada,yada.

posted March 13, 2007 01:33 PM            

I think there's been a misunderstanding; the above post I wrote was meant for OzMeg...sorry.

posted March 13, 2007 01:56 PM            

Meg your situation is not the first that I have heard of since that Lunar eclipse..I know another Pisces female that went throught the same thing..My eyes was even open to somethings, but nothing like what you have gone through..You will be ok..

As mentioned earlier, the first eclipse will stir up your emotions and reveal certain character traits and proclivities in someone you know and think of as a close partner. Watch what is revealed to you near the March 3 eclipse in Virgo, your toughest part of the month, and possibly one of the most difficult of the whole year. I am so sorry to have to say this, dear Pisces. I do so only with the hope that you won't feel broadsided. This eclipse is in Virgo, a highly articulate and critical sign, so you may be criticized by others.

Eclipses tend to bring events from the outside world into your world, and they represent events over which you have no control. Since this eclipse will be directly opposed to Uranus, there isn't any way you can prepare for it. All you can do is keep your schedule light, for as surprising news surfaces, you will need the time to deal with it all.

Indeed, news will come to you suddenly and without warning. It's possible that you will practically trip over the news in an offhand way, but it's also possible that someone will call you. It appears that someone you care about may act out of character, turn ill, be in crisis, or be very belligerent and emotional. The person may be a detractor, or criticize you, or compete with you in a shocking and unfair way.

If a partner has harbored certain resentments, you will know about it in early Mach. When you do, what you hear could feel like too much to take. In this instance, it may be that you will see a side of this person that was always there but that you never noticed. If you need to leave the relationship, you will, but the whole episode could leave you shaken.

posted March 13, 2007 02:05 PM            

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If you can pls. can you check my link? I have similar question, but more turned toward me.

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I'm actually heading out the door right now so I'll give my opinion (I'm not a professional,mind you ) later tonight.

Take care...

posted March 13, 2007 02:17 PM            

Dulce-
What does it mean that uranus and nn are close to his sun? Uranus I'm guessing sudden endings/beginnings? Nn a great big lesson maybe? Sun in the 12th explains the secretiveness I guess, but his gf was suspicious already, thats why she text me when he was asleep. I was definately his 'undoing' lol.

Iqhunk-
Yeah karma can be a hideous bi$ch! I always had this thing in the back of my mind that the timing for us was completely WRONG. He really is so emotionally immature when it comes to this stuff, I'm counting myself lucky I got out of it now before anything more happened.
Yet I STILL can't shake the feeling that we are meant to be.
I'm an emotional wreck (not his fault) and need a lot of healing before i can even think about a relationship with ANYBODY. He needs to grow up a lot before he can deal with that either.
Maybe in a few years we'll meet up again, maybe in a few years we'll have grown so much as people we'll barely recognize one another.
Who knows?
I'm focusing on other things right now and have so much to do, including some fun!

posted March 13, 2007 10:59 PM            

See my post above (first one or perhaps it was the 2nd one) for more on the Uranus/North Node transit explanation - yes, Uranus is about sudden breaks (I'm REALLY wishing he weren't there just now too, believe me - he's right on my Venus, making my life utterly chaotic). So, the Uranus/NN transit are closer to Pisces boy's Sun than yours, and the Eclipse would've been too - Lunar Eclipse/Full Moon is also about endings, and we're to deal with the fallout in the 2 weeks it takes to get to the Solar Eclipse/New Moon (it's on the 18th of March, also in late Pisces). That is a good time for new beginnings; we get this extra energy to help us with any resolutions we may have. So, it'll be a good time for you to focus on your own happiness, and finding yourself again. You could try a New Moon ritual..

Sunshine

ps. North Node is where it is because mankind probably needs to learn the lessons of the Virgo/Pisces axis - this means getting away from focusing on the little details and expanding our horizons, learning to be more intuitive, imaginative, and empathetic. And I think what Uranus conjuncting this means, is that these sudden breaks that are happening, are meant to help us do just that. So, ultimately, this is for our own good, even if it is painful at times.

posted March 14, 2007 03:21 PM            

I've decided now I'm somewhat calmer I'm going to talk to him today. I want some answers and I really don't care what the answers are, I just need to stop my head spinning with all the possibilities. I'm guessing I'm not gonna like what I hear but I need to hear it, I truly believe to have that closure will bring me peace in some way if not today then in the future.