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Topic: Can Pisces ....
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LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 05:25 PM
Keep a Secret? If you share something with them that is private, personal or embarrassing that you've told no one else....can they keep it to themselves?IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 05:28 PM
You can be %100 sure that they keep secrets...IP: Logged |
Venus unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 05:36 PM
Definately! VenusIP: Logged |
BlueRoamer Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 05:49 PM
Yes.Way better than sadge or gemini. Dont' bother with those two. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted March 14, 2007 05:58 PM
You can trust us girl.. IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 06:00 PM
Pisces sun here---I never tell anything that anybody tells me and people just tell me EVERYTHING!!!I think ALOT of the trustworthiness of the Pisces lies in Piscean relativity. I hear something, register it, take it to heart sometimes then kind of forget it! IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 06:04 PM
Yes they can. Always.IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 07:02 PM
Thanks guys; that sounds rather promising and I could use that kind of confidentiality...IP: Logged |
solar_third unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 07:25 PM
Hypothetically, if that secret were to somehow indirectly cause someone pain, or prevent someone from relieving pain or realising some important truth in some way, I would feel burdened by it.Thus, I may feel compelled to release the burden - after even-minded consideration. Pisces natives are sometimes put upon by confidantes who wrongly expect our compassion to be sided solely with those whom we are entrusted to. Do not rule out a Pisces' ability to empathise, nor their ability to change on you in any situation. Truthfully, S_T IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 07:58 PM
Solar--Changeable, highly, vindictive no..... IP: Logged |
sunshine9 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Chapel Hill, NC, US Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 08:22 PM
Yup, sweet, dreamy Pisceans are the most wonderful folks to confide in. They most certainly DO keep secrets, especially when they happen to be in the medical profession... How are ya doing, Lilygirl????!!!! Haven't seen you around here in a while. Sunshine IP: Logged |
villy unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 11:27 PM
If you tell them that you don't want others to know, we will definitely keep it. Even if you don't specifically tell this, we would mostly keep it to ourselves based on our understanding and the matter involved. If it’s frivolous thing, we might come out it unknowingly/knowingly; however this is when you don’t specifically tell us that it’s a secret between two of us. So whatever you want to keep a secret tell him specifically that you won't like (or get hurt) if others knew about the secret.Also we would tell the secret, even if you specifically requested to keep it as a secret, if we think it’s for some ‘cause’/’good motive’ (not for something bad) – for example, when my Gemini girlfriend left me due to her family issues, I disclosed her secret to her family thinking that her family would feel for her issues/happiness and not force her to leave me. It was like betraying her; however I had ran out of all options of fighting the situation of separation. However before disclosing I did try to convince her few times that disclosing the secret might help her. And eventually I did disclose it though she may not have wanted to do so. I think she would have felt really bad. I think such a situation would be bit rare so we are safe with secrets IP: Logged |
Arnicka unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 11:37 PM
Yea I can keep a secret, but I end up forgetting it pretty quickly tho - fuzzy brain [aqua merc] sometimes. Confiding in someone like that is a very sweet thing to do and it deserves respect.. I always take it as a big compliment.IP: Logged |
sinderlou unregistered
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posted March 15, 2007 12:44 AM
Secret? What secret? I don;t know what you're talking about.......... IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted March 15, 2007 09:28 AM
Thanks kindly everyone. I think this secret is safe; it was one I told last fall about challenges I am having in my marriage. I had not discussed this in 16 years to anyone, not a soul. Neither of us has brought it up again. And since it was told both as friend, confidante and patient, he probably did not share the information. I once asked him f other people read his email and he was adamant in telling me that he never allows anyone access to his email.Sunshine! Hey Hi!!! Today I am all crazy fuzzy warm. Yesterday was D's birthday and after torturing myself for weeks, I made a few things, bought a great book and wrote him a funny ode on the pattern of a well known poet. He wrote me last night to say he loved everything, the creativity and thoughtfulness. So I am geeked up in that stupid crush friend way that I get. He said it made his day and that was most important to me becuase he has lots of stress. His family is fine; mine is fine. I think I am managing well, sort of learning to love as a friend without fear and it means a great deal to me to learn still even now...SO what's going on with you??? And you Villy??? Work? Love, the Sag? IP: Logged |
AgeofAquarius Newflake Posts: 1 From: UK Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 15, 2007 09:45 AM
Most definitely! They are true secret keepers (they'll keep yours and theirs, LOL). I can admit that they are the only ones I can talk honestly with and not be judged. IP: Logged |
villy unregistered
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posted March 16, 2007 12:02 AM
Hey Lilly,Luckily, I got far far away from her, as its always going to be embarrassing to face her. Now I don't feel anything for her as such, as its only when close, it used to cause the ruffling (I guess my Venus in Aries). As am in a different office, don't have any interaction with her. Couple of times I did interact (chat) with her, however it was short and work related. Also I my self-avoid interacting with her. So its just work. And it was never love, maybe more of infatuation (how does one push the Venus out of Aries and avoid such things ) Good to know that both of you are doing great out there. IP: Logged |
peace Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Las Vegas,NV Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2007 09:55 AM
Piscesans, Uranus has been in your sign since 2003. IMHO, it can be a blessing or a curse?.Why?.Blessing: 1)You'll feel uninhibited to express your emotions. Curse: 2)Secrets you didn't want to reveal,are now well... revealed.Thanks to Uranus,you may blurt out something unexpectedly. Yikes! IP: Logged |
Goldmund unregistered
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posted March 16, 2007 10:52 AM
I don't know if I am the only Pisces in here to admit that there have been times when I've been unable to keep a secret??!! Pisceans love to gossip. Of course if it's about something very sensitive I'd never tell anyone, but many people who say it's a secret heard it from someone else...passing it on. I know it's not fair but it happens all the time and I can admit that I've done it too.One interesting thing with Pisces is also honesty. Are strongly Neptunian influenced Pisces easily ready to not tell the truth and lie? I know several people, not all Pisces but heavily neptunian, that lie a lot. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted March 16, 2007 11:09 AM
Goldmud: Are you deemed as a good friend to anyone? When you are good friends with someone you do not tell their business or gossip about them..Simple as that..This is for Pisces or any other sign.. I am a Pisces and I can speak.. IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 16, 2007 11:27 AM
I would have to agree with Mia---This Pisces sun loathes gossip and refuses to engage in it.... And I do not lie--- Seen as a fault by some in my life, I just do not see the point in being dishonest--- I think people who are dishonest with others have a root in dishonesty with themselves and Fish folk are pretty intouch with themselves because lots of us spend most of our lives deep within---ourselves.... IP: Logged |
Goldmund unregistered
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posted March 16, 2007 11:39 AM
Oh I'm sure I have a few very close friends and many acquintances, and I guess I mixed up gossiping with good intentions (if something like that exists...) with telling deep secrets, that I don't and won't do. It's just very rare to find anyone you can really really trust, I've found that especially women are like that, they speak about others behind their backs.IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted March 16, 2007 01:55 PM
You know I just got off the phone with my Dad (one hour). His birthday is the March 18th! That boy loves to gossip and he tells all of my other siblings' business to me. He's Pisces Sun Taurus Moon, but to be fair to him, he knows that I never ever repeat a thing that he says about anyone so perhaps he thinks he can relax a bit. Also it is not usually anything of true import. D. has a Libra Moon and he likes to gossip about famous people and not so famous people(LOL) but he strikes as someone very much capable of drawing the line at people's private problems. I think he is very heart set on not violating the important stuff. I also find that they both sort of chatter and gossip when they are nervous or in a really happy geeked up mood. What is really odd about that is I used to think they were both really quiet...NOT!! They can be but they can also be quite chatty in an entertaining way. VILLY!!! Sorry about the Sag but I am really happy that you're moving along.... Hmmm, That Venus Aries? I do not have Venus in Aries )(Venus Taurus trine saturn) but I do have Aries Moon and Mars. You know what I find with my Aries placements. Sometimes, it simply makes me want to act. We are not content to float and do nothing. Sometimes it is a nervous energy which must be in motion and burned off. My sister's husband is Aries venus, Aries sun and Pisces Mercury, Pisces moon and in love he is very active, very assertive but sensitive because of the Pisces placements. Aries can also be the eternal optimist--I can fix it--I can, I can--if only I do this..... IP: Logged |
aqua inferno unregistered
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posted March 16, 2007 05:21 PM
Yes they can, but only cause they forget it I've always kept secrets, it's about integrity and doing the right thing. Not when I was a teen though, I'd tell my friends everything, and get into so much trouble. Lessen learnt. If they're the honest type, they may blurt it out by accident. IP: Logged |
villy unregistered
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posted March 17, 2007 01:32 PM
I think gossiping/taking is bit moody affair with me. With me I might talk more (relatively more), if I am in a gay mood + I rely on other person and not intimidated by him. If I am not feeling well internally, I like to keep quiet and think and wander. Again I think I might get bogged down due to mis-communications or inability to express myself clearly. I guess we expect other person to understand us - by logic, by feelings and just like that ƒº (without us saying things clearly/or in a way others communicate). Lilly, Yeah, I too was active/assertive in love due to my Aries Venus/Moon. Yep, fixing thing is quiet true. It will work out-idealistic etc. However, my Aries Mercury doesn¡¦t help a bit in verbal communications, maybe it should had been in Gemini hun. [ ] Aqua inferno, Interesting thing is we sometimes remember lot of other things which others might not expect someone to remember, while forget silly things.
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