posted March 15, 2007 11:37 AM              

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HEeeeeeelp, I love this guy with all my heart I am just crazy about him, we are brilliant together but some how I find myself in another country Morocco with a guy I dont get on with, while my amazing cancer is seeing some scorpio girl. I think I am having my saturn retun and my whole wold is melting down. I cant catch a plane home to my man cause I have become paranoied about flying so i am stuck here with a man I dont love, while the man i do love, and who loves me, is getting ever deeper into a relationship with another girl. What is happening to me? Can I work it out with my Georgous cancerian, I should add that he and I have been together for three and a half years, he is the love of my life and we have a shop together . He is 12 years older then me, and I love him with the same intensity that I loved my dad who died 11 years ago. This cancerian is the only person in the would who I feel is family and losing him is like losing my right arm. I am totally confused. Please help my with any insights you can offer. I dont know that much butI would really appriciate knowing something about our synistry and whatever transits we are both in at the moment.I have looked at astro.com but it is not very holistic. This feels like life and death, like if I dont get home to my cancerian I will be lost forever. What can i do to get back together with my cancerian
how do I extricate my self from the situation with the sagitarian?
Is this mu saturn return and how do i handle it?
Is it safe to travel at the moment?
Me
28.8.1976 12.58 pm los angeles ca USA
My cancerian
30.6.1964 10.40 am london UK
the other man
5 december 1976 tangiers morocco

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posted March 15, 2007 01:10 PM              

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posted March 15, 2007 01:56 PM              

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sag it too gof for U con for second breed cancer good inaf for ya

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posted March 15, 2007 01:58 PM              

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LOL sd...

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posted March 15, 2007 02:32 PM            

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So you left "the love of your life" whom you have a shop with? Why?

My instinct is that you'll lose both men before this is over.

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posted March 15, 2007 04:17 PM            

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hi there.. I dunno well about this situation, but it's a bit unfair to stuck with someone without really having feelings for him, and worse, while you love another person.. And if you really love the other one, maybe you should try to overcome your flying paranoid and chase him before he is forever gone.. and if he also truly loves you, he would wait for you to return.. but we can't really expect someone to wait for us forever if we don't do something..

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posted March 15, 2007 06:26 PM              

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I am LMAO!!!
Sorry...
How do you somehow end up in a foreign country with a guy? One you don't get on with no less...
You are the Virgo in this triangle?

Ok, now on a serious note:
I understand you are freaking out so I will assure you that it will all work out. The Sag guy you are with now will respect your desire to go home. He'll also entertain you until such time as you do. Sit back relax and enjoy the ride!

The Cancer guy needs a break from you.
This relationship you two share needs some space. It will however resume again.
The association between the two of you may seem like a closed chapter for awhile, but- it will resume months from now or even years later.
Rest assure it will resume!
[perhaps you've already experienced some of this with the Cancer guy]

Sendin' love your way,
yourfriendinspirit

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posted March 15, 2007 07:20 PM              

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Hey yourfrindinspirit, thank you; wow what a loving, non-judgemental, reassuring reply. There are depths of insight here; those few words are the concise tip of the iceburg; reflecting not only my lived experience of the situation but my inner intuitons about it. Thank you so much. Care to tell me how you did that! This is a arabic keyboard and I cant get a question mark on it. Any further insite about the relationship with the cancerian! specificaly the reasons the relationship has come to this impass, how to procede with him and, sorry, how we are going to work it out.
As for the sag; what a beautiful man; a saint, just not right for me. I would like to leave him a with something nice to rember me by; im trying to help him get a visa for europe or lend him a little money to start a bussiness; here it dosnt take much. I am kinda worried about bringing him to europe; he has the sweetest heart and i think he will be terribly lost and probably damaged there; he says he cant stand to stay here on his own after I go; he wants to go to europe to make money to help his family. I think he is better off staying in this beautiful village with his family and starting a bussiness here. Any thoughts!

Someone asked why I left; to make a long story short; it was cause I discovered that my cancerian had gone out with this scorpio chick behind my back and lied to me about it. I was burned up and since he had never, ever done anything like that to me before I figured she must have something he wanted or needed very badly; since I kinda want him to have everything he wants i thought I would get out of the way for a while. But now I am feeling frightend;insucure and a little resentful of my cancerian who is taking a strong about his personal space; personal space which he built with 40000 of my money and furnished with my things; even the cat is mine and I am feeling awful home sick. But is beautifully reassuring to think that I will get to go back to the little palce we built together.

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posted March 15, 2007 07:22 PM              

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Hey yourfrindinspirit, thank you; wow what a loving, non-judgemental, reassuring reply. There are depths of insight here; those few words are the concise tip of the iceburg; reflecting not only my lived experience of the situation but my inner intuitons about it. Thank you so much. Care to tell me how you did that! This is a arabic keyboard and I cant get a question mark on it. Any further insite about the relationship with the cancerian! specificaly the reasons the relationship has come to this impass, how to procede with him and, sorry, how we are going to work it out.
As for the sag; what a beautiful man; a saint, just not right for me. I would like to leave him a with something nice to rember me by; im trying to help him get a visa for europe or lend him a little money to start a bussiness; here it dosnt take much. I am kinda worried about bringing him to europe; he has the sweetest heart and i think he will be terribly lost and probably damaged there; he says he cant stand to stay here on his own after I go; he wants to go to europe to make money to help his family. I think he is better off staying in this beautiful village with his family and starting a bussiness here. Any thoughts!

Someone asked why I left; to make a long story short; it was cause I discovered that my cancerian had gone out with this scorpio chick behind my back and lied to me about it. I was burned up and since he had never, ever done anything like that to me before I figured she must have something he wanted or needed very badly; since I kinda want him to have everything he wants i thought I would get out of the way for a while. But now I am feeling frightend;insucure and a little resentful of my cancerian who is taking a strong about his personal space; personal space which he built with 40000 of my money and furnished with my things; even the cat is mine and I am feeling awful home sick. But is beautifully reassuring to think that I will get to go back to the little palce we built together.

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posted April 01, 2007 08:08 PM              

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Hi yourfrindinspirit,
the sagitarius hauled off and hit me today - hard; I am hiding out at a friends place. Its over.
The cancerian seems well and truly spoken for;
any thoughts-
love
Jessica

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posted April 02, 2007 12:02 AM            

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You have Saturn at 10 degrees of Leo, so you already had your Saturn return last year.

Your entire post reeks of indecision, and having Mercury, Moon, and Mars in Libra explains the waffling. You love this guy... but you're marrooned in another country with a guy you don't love... you're too afraid to fly to go back... you don't know what to do...

While Libra tends to be undecisive, it doesn't have to be. Libra is a cardinal sign, so it can move in a steady fashion toward a goal, once it has made up its mind.

I would say at that point, cut your losses, lick your wounds, learn from the lesson, and move on.

PS: By the way, I am sorry to hear that the Sagg guy hit you.

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posted April 02, 2007 06:53 PM              

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Dear Belage,

Thanks! You are right about my being indcisive, I shirk making desisions. I wonder how I can harness the resoulute side of libra energy, would be great to know how.
It stinks about the sag, just the day before it happened a friend warned me that he would become phscaly violent soonner or later, just didnt expect it to be so much sooner. Thanks for writing and for your concern.

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