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Topic: Fooling Myself? Honesty Needed...please
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Amelia
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posted March 16, 2007 08:27 PM
 
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CoralFrequency
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posted March 16, 2007 08:54 PM
Nothing like that innocent sheepy-eyed Aries girl honesty (blushing and all) to get Leo all gaga.. So just be honest. Spill very dramatically.. then walk away lolIP: Logged |
wilsontc
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posted March 16, 2007 11:52 PM
Amelia,You have Pluto (transformation, also control) trine (energy goes very easily with) Venus (relationships), which indicates a relationship where both people feel they HAVE to be together. Relating, Tim IP: Logged |
izodesmozina
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posted March 17, 2007 03:47 AM
Oh, sweetie! Your South Node conjuncts his Moon and His North Node conjuncts your DC... no wonder you can't get him out of your head... is that feeling mutual? Past life karma sux... the attraction is fantastic, but very very painful... However, your synastry looks ok to me. I mean, you must have some difficult aspects, everybody has them, they make it more interesting  . I usually consider opositions as positive because of the mirror effect between lovers (after all, we fall in love with people that remind us of ourselves somehow), but I didn't like that Saturn - Venus opposition... You have to be careful not to criticise the man too much (he's a Leo after all, he won't take it good LOL). And there's the square between your Merc and his Saturn/Uranus - guess communication is a little bit of an issue for you guys. But everything can be sorted out if both of you are willing to work on this. After all, relationships are about adapting yourself to another. And I also have to draw attention to Neptune aspects... because you both have Neptune connections with the other one's planets, there is a slight chance that BOTH of you might think the other one is misleading. So take care... honesty all the way and don't promise more than you can deliver.
As for the composite, the thing that caught my eye was the square between Moon and Neptune... so watch out for illusions again. Just try to see him as he really is, not what you'd like him to be. This might be a problem for him, as well. So you guys really need to be careful about it.
It is my opinion that if both partners are willing to work on the relationship and adapt themselves, difficult aspects shouldn't be a scare. You are both fire Suns, I'm sure you're apt for the challenge. But don't let the ego get in the way!
Good luck to you! I am confident that things always turn out for the best, even if we don't see it or appreciate it that way. I hope this relationship will bring you the happiness you deserve. Take care!Izo  IP: Logged |
moggym
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posted March 17, 2007 04:12 AM
Hi Amelia,
You have an exact Venus/Sun conjunction in the composite chart....Very, very affectionate and loving....You really do LIKE him.
However, this conjunction happens to be an exact square to the composite Nth Node....Which brings those peachy, lovey feelings into conflict with the growth direction of the relationship? Might make it difficult to get off the ground? Hugs
Melindy
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william
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posted March 17, 2007 02:19 PM
hi amelia,
with a sun/venus/mercury stellium in this composite,this relationship started on a high level.emotional/sexual attraction,openess,joy in being together,all with a sense of "destiny" even.the mars/jupiter midpoint opposed to the moon there was even a air of a longterm possiblity here,at anyrate a ambition to see what would unfold.the sun/jupiter and venus/jupiter midpoints are square to mars ,giving a even more feeling that a longterm relationship is possible.
on the downside ,chiron opposed to the saturn/uranus conjunction.the conjunction itself can show hesistation on his part.this can be a aspect of things taking a while to form,but with the chiron opposition there is a critical component that tries to break down the relationship rather than reinforce the relationship.
the saturn/mars and uranus/mears midpoints are square the ascendant.this is not a good aspect for stability and tends to a sense thast the relationship was more of a transient connection.
the moon/pluto midpoint is opposed to the mars/venus midpoint.on one hand this can give a intense instinctual sexual hookup,but on the other it is a very cold physical bonding.it may indicate that you are a bit obsessed by this relationships because of your own psychological issues.
i would think that you first fell in love in late decemember or jan and it probably was love a first sight but it seems ill fated
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Arnicka
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posted March 18, 2007 01:49 AM
Your Sun, their Mars, your Venus, their Jupiter. This person expands your sense of whats beautiful - typically causing you to feel much more open about expressing romantic feelings, then the Sun conj Mars is BAM!! right away sex attraction, as in NOW! Blending these would explain it, IMO.IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury
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posted March 18, 2007 03:49 AM
Am i missing something here? What is your relationship with this person?
Have you even tried asking him out in that 3years? Sheesh! Get a grip.All this north-node / south node crap is belony. He has his Mars conjunct your natal Sun and you will always feel attracted to him. Period. Ask him out. If he says no, then you know. If he says yes, then you know. I wouldn't look into every minute aspect before you've even been out with him. That's stalker material.
Is it that hard? ------------------
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CapGirl
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posted March 18, 2007 09:24 AM
marsmerc~ That was a BS rude response. She's doing no different than dozens of others do on here every day w/ their charts and questions. You are the one who should get a grip!IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted March 18, 2007 10:12 AM
your mars aspects his moon i think you have a good chanceIP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury
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posted March 18, 2007 06:22 PM
Mars conjunct Moon in Synastry is a terrible aspect! It is not commensurate with a harmonious relationship. It is antagonistic rather than appreciative. ------------------
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LILYGIRL
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posted March 18, 2007 06:51 PM
Moon conjunct Mars
This is a difficult comparative aspect because the aggressiveness of Mars upsets and irritates the Moon, the Moon person's moodiness and sensitivity makes the Mars person impatient. In two really strong charts this aspect can produce constructive action in business, family and domestic affairs. It may produce a good deal of sexual attraction, but with no guarantee of compatibility. Mars is too apt to try to change the partner. This connection works best in circumstances when the Mars person is the Male and the Moon person is the female. However, in all cases this is a difficult combination for marriage, family relationships, or for people who live together, since it is likely to produce domestic disagreements.
Moon conjunct Mars: This is an instance in which first impressions may not be favorable. In romantic relationships, this aspect makes for passionate sex. However, it can bring disturbances and turmoil into any relationship. The Mars individual may be too aggressive and hostile to the Moon person. The Moon individual tends to take the actions of the Mars individual too personally and tends to overreact.IP: Logged |
Amelia
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posted March 18, 2007 08:34 PM
Actually, it is moon TRINE marsIP: Logged |
tara19
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posted March 18, 2007 08:37 PM
And Amelia, Moon trine Mars is one of the classic attraction aspects between a man and a woman. You've got some good aspects between you. I'd venture to suggest that you ask him out if everything else is okay. I'll check your progressions if you email me your data: badhabit19@yahoo.com Tara. IP: Logged | |
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