Lindaland
  Astrology
  My love life...

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq | search

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   My love life...
Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted March 24, 2007 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If anyone could give me any information about what my love life is going to be like.. Whether I have alot of partners or very few? If I'll fall in love alot or not? When will I get married young or old? Will I have any problems with love?


..Every time I am involved in a serious relationship I tell myself I want it to last forever and I want this person to be my life partner... but then everyone once in a while I will feel like this isnt going to be the person Im going to end up being with.. and it kind of hurts... I guess Im just looking for some guidance..

Thank You..


IP: Logged

OzMeg222
Newflake

Posts: 0
From: victoria, australia
Registered: Aug 2009

posted March 24, 2007 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to feel the same when I was your age, but now I'm actually scared to get into anything serious. I was with my ex for 7 years, we have 2 kids and although I disliked him immensely quite soon into the relationship I thought I'd stay with him forever. I should have left 5 years before I did but I thought when we started going out it was forever so I was kinda stubborn, I just thought that was the way things went in long term commited relationships.
Which is rubbish!!!
About 6 months ago I turned down the chance at happiness with a gorgeous cancer friend to carry on casually seeing someone I could never have been happy with. That all ended in tears but the cancer is still around and still my friend.

I guess what I'm saying is don't worry about it. Let yourself fall in and out of love as often as you can. I'm still a big believer in the happily ever after, but fun in the meantime is great- especially when you're young.

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted March 26, 2007 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see what you are saying. but the thing is that Im perfectly happy with the person I am with right now and we are so good together and I would love to be with her for the rest of my life..

its just I dont feel like I am going to be deep down inside.. I can see myself dating other women some day .. and it hurts to think that for some reason im not going to be with this person. Im not exactly sure what will happen but I feel like im going to end things for some reason.. and it hurts to think that I will hurt her as well..


I just want to know what its going to look like for me or if there is anything that can be forseen in my birthchart and w/e guidance I can get..

also I find it so easy to become attracted to other girls.. even thought Im with someone and I really love her.. I always remind myself that im with her and i forget about others... but still I want to know as much as possible about what I should look out for ... and whats in the stars for me.


Thanks

~Kevin

IP: Logged

wilsontc
unregistered
posted March 26, 2007 04:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kevin,

You have Gemini (thinking, also talking) modifying Venus (relationships) conjunct (energy is combined with) your Midheaven (outer world). So you are always thinking about possible relationships in the outer world and getting into "talking relationships." As you mentioned, this doesn't create a very stable basis for relationships. Perhaps just take each relationship one day at a time, not thinking "Is this the one?" but just enjoying it for what it is, as long as it lasts. If it's the one, then it will be the one and that's that. If not, there are plenty of others out there!

Relating,

Tim

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted March 28, 2007 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
.. I appreciate the interp Tim

but I must say it hurts to think that I shouldnt be questioning my relationships..
After all im only in one relationship anyway.. ive never dated more then one person at the same time.. And at this point in my life I dont want to think that the person im with at this moment wont be the person im with for the rest of my life.. I want to believe that this is going to last forever.. otherwise I can easily forecast a tremendous amount of hurt on both our parts, who knows maybe even more ...

either way I should be getting my partners exact birth data here soon.. finally!.. we have been together for almost half a year.

I was wondering if you will do or interpret our synastry charts? I really want to see how exactly we mold together astrologically.


Thanks,


~Kevin

IP: Logged

wilsontc
unregistered
posted March 28, 2007 07:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kevin,

Post the info and I will give you my thoughts.

Thinking about relationships,

Tim

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 02, 2007 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tim,

Ive got some bad news... it seems in the Dominican Republic they dont keep records after 12 years and they dont record the time at birth anyway.. so thats not to good..

, but her mother remembers it was before 1 and sometime after 12 (more closer to 1 though) in the Dominican Republic on the 28th of June when she was born. how much can we tell from this? do you know? and what does it mean for our relationship? if you have any advice...

Thank You..

,Feeling down

~Kevin

IP: Logged

wilsontc
unregistered
posted April 03, 2007 02:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kevin,

Please post the rest of the information in the format:
June 28, Year
XX:XX AM or PM
City, Dominican Republic

Needing more info,

Tim

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 03, 2007 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tim,

hah sorry I just realized that I was silly not posting enough info..

June 28, 1988 (Female)
12:30 PM- 1 PM (somewhere in between)
Santa Domingo, Dominican Republic

I just wanna know what exactly can be figured for sure with with the limited info..

Thanks,

~Kevin

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 03, 2007 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tim .. another miscalculation.. it was

12 PM- 12:30 PM (somewhere in between)

~Kevin

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 05, 2007 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tim,

thought maybe you forgot.. posting again.

June 28, 1988 (Female)
12 PM - 12:30 PM
Santa Domingo, Dominican Republic

This is the correct limited info thanks!


Kevin

IP: Logged

wilsontc
unregistered
posted April 06, 2007 01:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kevin,

She has a see-saw chart:

From Tracy Marks' "The Art of Chart Interpretation:"

quote:
Seesaw pattern - "Planets are divided into two groups, at least 60 degrees or two empty houses apart, with no more than one empty house within each group, and with at least one opposition...concerned with relationships, aware of alternatives, fluctuating between different parts of...[themselves], and attempting to maintain balance through...[their] ability to synthesize and compromise."

So you are going to see considerable "back and forth" in the relationship and in anything else she does! You have challenging Venus (relationship) connections to her, which creates strong energy in the relationship. This is exciting for the short term but more challenging for the long term. You have stronger Venus ties to her than she has to you, so she does not relate as well to you. This doesn't include her Moon information, since we don't have a definite birth time, so that could change the results of this information.

Relating,

Tim

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 06, 2007 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tim,

Thank you for the interp. I am a little confused with the whole see saw thing though... so is this good or not? I know that we keep falling victim to the same things over and over again we each claim that the other is never doing this or is doing this when the truth it were both actually doing it.. we are both victims as well as the culprits in this ... but does my stronger venus connections mean that I love her more? cause she is always claiming she loves me more then I do.. even though I show it more...

also.. if it is possible I have a really good feeling that she has A Saggitarius Moon.. I could be wrong.. but is that possible? what are the possible moon options for her with the time being unspecified?


Thanks Tim!

,Kevin


IP: Logged

wilsontc
unregistered
posted April 06, 2007 05:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kevin,

You BOTH have seesaw charts, so you both are "back and forth" on the issues. You also both have Saturn (duty, also restriction) square (energy needs to be combined with) Mars (being, also action), resulting in a "stop and go" situation. The "blame game" is common in relationships...only she can decide how much she loves you but you FEEL more connected to the relationship than her, which could be why she is claiming she is being "shortchanged" (you make the effort but she does not "connect in" to it).

The Moon wouldn't change its sign in the short time you describe, but it does move enough that aspects to planets can't be accurately given without a more accurate birth time.

Relating,

Tim

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 07, 2007 12:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tim.

Thank you again for the interpretations. They are very much appreciated. you had it right on the money when you said that we play the blame game .. thats very big in this relationship. but despite that we always come to a solution and forget about the bickering.. its good we can do that to a certain extent so far, but it still needs to be perfected for the long run.

Thank you again and God bless,


~Kevin

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 07, 2007 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

P.S. - Tim could you post her chart? Thank You!

~Kevin

IP: Logged

wilsontc
unregistered
posted April 07, 2007 01:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kevin,

You are welcome! I don't have a photobucket account so you will need to post the chart on your own if you want to, like you did with your own chart. Use a time of 12:15, exactly between the two times you gave (12:00 and 12:30).

Charting offline,

Tim

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 08, 2007 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tim,

I went to astro and entered different times of possible birth time for her and from like 12:13 up until 1 and all of the placements are the same and we have concluded that she was born after 12:13 and so theses are her main placements.


SUN- Cancer
MOON- Saggitarius
AC- Libra
MERCURY- Gemini
VENUS- Gemini
MARS- Pisces
JUPITER- Taurus
SATURN- Saggitarius
URANUS- Saggitarius
NEPTUNE- Capricorn
PLUTO- Scorpio
T. NODE- Pisces
CHIRON- Cancer

... we have all the same placements except for our MOON, Ascendent, MERCURY, MARS.

is this a good thing or is this generally normal for how long it takes the planets to move from sign to sign? I just thought since all of the same sign placements we might have something good going.. idk just wondering..

~Kevin

IP: Logged

wilsontc
unregistered
posted April 09, 2007 01:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kevin,

The Moon is the fastest moving planet and the wheel of the chart moves even faster. So, without a definite time the Moon and the points (Ascendant, Descendant, Midheaven, and Nadir) are unknown. If one planet is VERY close to the next sign an hour difference may put the planet into the next sign. However, aside from the Moon, no planet will move enough to make a difference in synastry by degree aspect (i.e., calculating aspects based on the number of degrees between planets).

Explaining,

Tim

IP: Logged

Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake

Posts: 137
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted April 09, 2007 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

.. ok I somewhat understand that but the Moon is in sag throughout the whole hour between 12PM - 1 PM and the ascendent changes into Libra at 12:12 and we are certain that she was born after that.. therefore we have derived that she is Sag Moon and Libra Ascendent... am I still wrong..

Ive also noted her MC which could be Virgo if born on 12:12 or before and it could aslo be Cancer if after.

Im not sure If I have learned enough about her to conlcude this but I myself think she is libra Rising with a Cancer Midheaven.


~Kevin

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright © 2011

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a