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starlita23
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posted March 24, 2007 06:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read his chart on astro mart and it says he will have lack of maternal love. I love him dearly as well as my other son of course I am their mother. He was born feb 22nd 2007 and 958pm my other son oct 12th 2001 251pm do their chart for me.

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Happy Dragon
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posted March 24, 2007 08:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~ Starlita ~
re * .. and it says he will have lack of maternal love. *

i wouldn't take too much notice of that .. besides the chart and it's aspects is more
to do how he will percieve things .. not 'what will be ' ...
so i guess astromart has picked up on the 'moon square saturn' aspect in his chart ..
and it's only One aspect out of many .. i would not let it worry you ..
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the following is from the basic interps from astro.com ..
for that One aspect ..
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*Moon Square Saturn *

" You often feel that the people around you or even life itself prevents you from expressing your emotions. You may feel lonely and unsupported by your friends, brothers and sisters and even your parents. To overcome this feeling of aloneness, you must have a great deal of emotional support from your family and friends.
Your mother, especially, must accept and support you, or else you are likely to become emotionally distant from her.
You probably try too hard to control your emotions so that others won't know how you feel, as if you were ashamed of your feelings. You shouldn't be ashamed of them. "

above Interpretation by Robert Hand from "Youth Portrait".
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i've got this bookmarked ..
IF i get around to typing out a book chapter on that Saturn aspect .. i shall drop in a note here ..
i aim do do it sometime as it's the only personal planet in aspect to Saturn that i've yet to type up ..
maybe go do his chart at astro.com and use the clik to view feature ...
i.e. do the chart .. go to clik to view .. and clik on the moon ( and other placements ) ..
a pop up window will appear with a brief interp ..
an astrolger would look at the chart as a whole pic .. not just as separate aspects and signs etc ..

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lmj515
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posted March 25, 2007 01:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is interesting as i have taurus moon and when i saw your post i could relate.Do not mistake it for not loving you. I have a strange relationship with my mother and always have done, im not sure exactly why i do but it is still there. I think it may be because my independance grew from an early age which she did not like and therefore not need her emotionally as much as other people might.

Sun- Aqua,
Moon - Taurus
Asc - Taurus

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LILYGIRL
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posted March 25, 2007 01:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/007774.html

This is me....and this what TIM wrote in response..... A year later my son and I continue to be loving and emotionally quite close .. We have our moments as do most parents with teenagers but it is an extraordinary bond. And at night his favorite closing shout from his room is often "Thanks for having my back, Mom." This particular thread really saved my head and I DO (as you can see my son's natal chart! empathize with your angst....

Take astrology for what it is -- something to potentially learn from and to consider as a piece of your human and hopefully humane dealings with others... It's not the road map --you and your child will make that road map as you grow and love!! What it has done for me is to help me pull back and think harder and longer!

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LILYGIRL
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posted March 25, 2007 01:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And PS!!

ALWAYS Look at the synastry betwqeen your charts --ours is phenomenally positive in places with the Moons identical, --his sun/venus/nnode/vertex conjunct my Ascendant..etc...

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Happy Dragon
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posted May 03, 2007 02:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~ starlita23 ~

this chapter regarding Saturn and the Moon has just been uploaded ..
~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/saturn.moon.html ~

~ HD ~

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izodesmozina
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posted May 04, 2007 04:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, Starlita!

First of all, if your son has a Taurus Moon, it doesn't mean you don't love him or that you are a bad mother.
Second - I've read that the worst possible placements for the Moon are Capricorn and Scorpio, after that comes Virgo. Still, you can live with Moon in those signs. I have a Capricorn Moon and I'm still alive .
Third - the Moon does show the mother-child relationship, but it's more about what HE felt, what HE wanted, how HE wanted you to behave with him at certain moments. For instance, with my Capricorn Moon, one would think I probably grew up by myself, I didn't get any affection and stuff like that. But it isn't totally true. There were moments when that happened and it affected me deeply, because it was when I needed my mother the most... and she was not there, she had a beautiful career in the health business... It took me a lot of time to understand that I have to *share* her with the world... and to accept that.
OK, I have a point with this and I will make it. The point is that I do believe we chose our parents and the moment to be born in this world, because our parents are here to teach us what we are here to learn (or, better said, they are the first ones that can do that... and the childhood is extremely important in a person's development, as we all know). Your son chose you for a reason. As I said before, the fact that he has a Taurus Moon doesn't make you a bad mother. It is a psychological thing... it is what he might have felt or will feel at a certain point in his life about you. Not that he lacks maternal love per se, but that maybe when he'll want to tell you about his girlfriend you'll be busy cooking or something like that... It doesn't have to be a big event, it just has to be important for HIM, even if it seems unimportant to you - that is my point.
I don't think you can avoid this, I don't even think you should try. I think you should accept it and view this without prejudice and without an ego. It is one of the lessons he choose to learn and you are here to teach him that. And I will say it again: it doesn't make you a bad mother, it doesn't say that you don't love him.
And don't forget to look at the rest of the aspects his Moon makes. They talk about your relationship, as well.

I have 2 reasons for writing what I did. First, my Capricorn Moon and the relationship I have with my mother. I spent a lot of time feeling unloved, looking at things just from my perspective. It probably is a thing that comes with a certain degree of maturity, but I now understand why she acted like she did. It is still painful for me (even though it's not about big things, like I said). But somehow I see things from her perspective. She IS a wonderful woman and she was a good mother, when she was there (the problem with me was that by the time she made time for me I'd already solved the issue by myself - and this is a GREAT thing! An extremely important lesson I couldn't have learned in a different way!).
The second reason for writing this is that I've recently wondered... when I'll have a child, what kind of mother would I be? Would I make the same mistakes my mother did? If my own child would have a Capricorn Moon, like me, would that make me a bad mother?...
Whatever the answer will be, I will be grateful that my children will chose me as their teacher through life. I am perfect for whatever they will need to know and that's the most important thing.

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Astra
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posted November 10, 2007 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always thought the moon was exalted in Taurus? Regardless of your baby's moon placement, all you have to do is give him a lot of hugs and kisses. Show affection and be supportive of his dreams. That's all he (or anyone) really needs regardless of the moon placement.

I also have a capricorn moon and I had a very good relationship with my mom. She was very strict, accepted nothing less than the best from me and was definitely a disciplinarian. However, she was always very affectionate and I always felt I could tell her anything.


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