posted March 27, 2007 07:52 AM              

Based on the charts and aspects below, to which girl would the guy feel more connected (both physically and emotionally)???

I would be very thankful for any help and insight I can get!!!

Ok, here are the charts (the guy is on the inside in both charts):

Relationship #1

posted March 27, 2007 08:33 AM              

Also, the ascendant on the MC (aka descendant on Nadir) would have a profound effect. Not to mention the Ascendant conjunt his Pisces moon. I think that's a nice aspect.

posted March 28, 2007 01:23 PM            

2nd - more attraction but might fizzle out long term (lots of oppositions) :edit: to add Sun/Moon signs don't look so good.. Sag/Leo is double fire - masculine, and Cap/Pisces is a feminine combo. Sag/Leo would crave excitement and love all the Venus/Mars/Pluto aspects..whereas Cap/Pisces may feel quite disturbed by the intensity.

I've noticed that neither chart has NN conjunctions, though the second has an SN conjunction for the girl. In a long term relationship the NN is pretty important, so everyone involved may feel as though there is no support for their direction in life.
Also the second might feel more sexual - venus/mars aspect and venus/pluto double whammy (intense).. But the first may feel more emotional and spiritual Moon/Neptune double whammy (close conjunction) - very psychic, and Chiron trine Jupiter - good for healing.

posted March 28, 2007 04:08 PM              

I'm a little bit confused ... Girl#1 has both her Moon and her Ascendant in Fire signs ... so wouldn't that pretty much equal the Fire Sun/Moon of girl#2??? Girl#2 also has her Ascendant conjunct the guy's Moon, so I assume that would help her understand him a little bit better than girl#1 would.

Also, in the relationship with girl#2 the guy's Vertex tightly conjunct girl's Sun ... wouldn't that make the relationship somewhat fated???

As far as relationship with girl #1 is concerned, I'm kind of worried about the Saturn contacts. There seem to be a lot of challenging contacts ... his Moon square girl#1's Saturn, girl#1's Moon opposite his Saturn (at a wide orb, but still), girl#1's Sun square his Saturn, his Mars square girl#1's Saturn.

posted March 31, 2007 05:38 AM            

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Girl#1 has both her Moon and her Ascendant in Fire signs ... so wouldn't that pretty much equal the Fire Sun/Moon of girl#2?

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I’m not sure whether it would actually. Cap/Scorpio are simpatico Sun Signs and I do know the rest counts.. but I’d say that normally a water sun sign person is more pronounced in the water element than a water Asc person.

Also, Sun/Moon connections are usually viewed as very significant in relationship synastry, but Ascendant/Moon and Ascendant/Sun would run a close second.

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Girl#2 also has her Ascendant conjunct the guy's Moon, so I assume that would help her understand him a little bit better than girl#1 would.

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This creates a bond, but it depends a lot on how you view the Asc. A lot of astrologers will say, it’s a cover. Others will say it’s actually a big part of your personality. If you see it as a strong part of your personality, then this aspect shows affection and understanding.. but if you see it as a ‘face you show the world’ then it can lead to – nice in the beginning – not so nice once the cover is off..

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Also, in the relationship with girl#2 the guy's Vertex tightly conjunct girl's Sun ... wouldn't that make the relationship somewhat fated???

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I do think it looks very fated, not only because of this conjunction but also the Pluto aspects. Fated isn’t always positively fated though.. It looks very passionate as I said – but also hurtful long term.

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I'm kind of worried about the Saturn contacts. There seem to be a lot of challenging contacts ... his Moon square girl#1's Saturn, girl#1's Moon opposite his Saturn (at a wide orb, but still), girl#1's Sun square his Saturn, his Mars square girl#1's Saturn.

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I read somewhere that Saturn contacts are like glue. This applies mainly to harsh contacts like oppositions/squares/conjunctions. There is a lot of karma there and it seems like something that will take a very long time to get sorted. I wouldn’t be worried because the good thing about Saturn contacts is, if the people involved are quite mature (and Scorpio/Cap are pretty mature/serious signs) these aspects can become more protective and less challenging. They just need to learn to compromise. Negative karma is easily sorted if one can be loving and forgiving. On the bright side, if they are forgiving and loving, Saturn guarantees a long, stable life together.

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I did the relationship compatibility analysis they offer on cafeastrology for both charts

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posted March 31, 2007 06:05 AM            

Capricorn and Scorp are natural together. He's got a Pisces Moon and Cancer rising, so Water ought to be quite attractive. Add to that the big conjunction of his Neptune and Mercury with her Moon, Neptune and Mars, and that seems really connected. The Moon square Moon might seem distressing, but the contacts between the other water planets should be absolutely alluring (perhaps too much so).

I think that that would be the more natural choice for feeling connected. Feeling is Water's domain amongst the feminine signs, so I think that rapport will be deep.